A guy on VJ blogs about his life with a chinese wife

[brettb]

Found this yesterday, Didn't have time to read it until today... But Wow!! Really makes me think if i am over looking any tiny small red flags. I would hate for this to be my experience....

http://xiaomin-and-jerry.blogspot.com/

But all in all quite entertaining 

[Researcher]

    It doesn't surprise me brettb.I think alot of guys believe if they marry a foreign woman everything will be great. This is not always the case.Then some guys think only certain countries have women that are prone to emotional disorders...not true.This is a universal issue.

      Researcher

[Ray]

 
I don't know. Is it just me or does this Jerry guy sound like a condescending jerk?
 
I guess if you treat your wife like a little kid, always insulting and talking down to her, it will inevitably come back to bite you in the ass.
 
I think it would be interesting to hear her side of the story...
 
Ray
 
 

[af1]

     I think this chinese woman is a real nutjob.Just goes to show that crazies are everywhere.

[riley]

    I read alot of this blog and the lady sounds really messed up to me. It's sad but at least this jerry is patient with her.

[jm21-2]

I'm amazed at how many guys claim their wife is bi-polar...must be about 40-50% of women if what their boyfriends/husbands say is accurate....


Whatever the case, he's a huge douche for airing all this crap on a blog.

[Tanuki]

I don't know. Is it just me or does this Jerry guy sound like a condescending jerk?
 

After reading some, not all.  The guy does sound like a jerk.  And when he was asking her about cheating, in the manner that he written it, it sounded more like he was fishing as opposed to kidding her.  Heck! Don't beat around the bush!  Just get it out there.
 
It just seems like this blog has another side to the story.

[Tanuki]

Whatever the case, he's a huge douche for airing all this crap on a blog.

Maybe he is trying to make her seem looney and is using this blog as part of his evidence to throw her in a boobie hatch.  That way, he don't have to give her sh*t when he files for divorce.

[robert angel]

I don't know exactly how 'true' what this guy writes really is, but I have a hunch that there's at least some exaggeration, fictionalization and that perhaps he even concocted the whole thing. I'm suprised--there's a few guys here who can usually smell a bad egg--a 'poser' here a lot faster than me, so I could be wrong. IMAGINE THAT--I'm not infallible!

I think if you've spent the time getting to know someone on line and then in real life, if you don't get some 'sign's' that a person is as uneven as this woman is purported to be, you'd be pretty naive indeed.

Many women under age 45-50 act 'bipolar' for several days each month, typically at about the same time of the month, every month. Things like fishing trips, work out in the shed and various errands needing to be run by the men tend to mysteriously increase in frequency about the same time as these women's 'episodes'...

If a woman hasn't evened out a bit by her mid 40s and is having hormonal mood swings still,.she might want to get with an OBY GYN Dr. and have surgery--a hysterical operation--it can make a big difference!

[Ray]

...she might want to get with an OBY GYN Dr. and have surgery--a hysterical operation--

 
LOL!
 
 
Hey Robert, what is a "hysterical" operation? Is that where the operating room staff is rolling on the floor laughing during the operation?
 
 
 
 
 
Ray
 
 

[brettb]

Ray you crack me up sometimes!!! anyways...I found it very entertaining, And in my mind raised the bull shi.t flag pretty quick on him....Some people find a way for attention in any way possible... But I had a few laughs and some deep thinking as well 

[michaelb]

I was about to agree with Ray and JM21....but wait, let me study on it a mite....

Hmmmm, I think I'm seeing a pattern....Yes, definitely, and the pattern is....... poor little Jerry, always get a defective one, no matter what her nationality.  Oh no, nothing wrong with Jerry. Poor little Jerry, victim of crazy women. Don't you feel sorry for him?

 (direct quote from his blog)  "I've got 3 ex wives, all American [or alien] and I'm happy to label my beautiful wife as Chinese."

[Bob_S]

The guy definitely has issues.  She calls him her "Crazy Husband" and I think she's right.  He has a bad sense of humor that does not translate well, obviously.  And if she is truly clinically bipolar, he is handling it badly.  It's not going to end well.

[Big_Al]

     I wouldn't judge this Jerry guy too quick. I don't know if anyone here has lived with someone who is bipolar but the way it sounds he has the right to be a jerk.If all she does is lay around and yell at the kids while he works then she does have problems. Of course there are two sides to the story.I don't know about starting a blog to have someone committed.That sounds like a stretch to me.I think it would take more than that to have someone locked up.

[Researcher]

   Yes starting a blog to have someone committed is quite a ridiculous conspiracy theory but I have to agree that this Jerry blogging about his wife's problems doesn't make him look like a nice guy. Maybe he is fed up with living with her and needs to vent.I don't know really but I don't think I would be airing dirty laundry even if I was married to a woman with alot of problems.


       Researcher

[SJ]

      A crazy chinese woman and a jerk named Jerry.A match made in heaven They both sound like they deserve one another to me.

[robert angel]

 
LOL!
 
 
Hey Robert, what is a "hysterical" operation? Is that where the operating room staff is rolling on the floor laughing during the operation?
 
 
 
 
 
Ray

Ray--Seeing how not a single person responded to my (lame) post:  'how do you pronounce the capital of Florida--'Meee ami' or "Mi ami'? I will use my right to refuse to answer.
 
As someone else here has said many times:--'maybe later'--'I DON'T HAVE to', 'I don't feel like answering that now'or 'Maybe if you ask me more politely'-----lol

[piglett]

i can't read that cr@p on that blog
why would you want to tell your whole life story?
do you really think your life is all that interesting?
do you really think the world around you gives a flying rat's @ss?
good god get a life buddy
 
 
p i g   

[thekfc]

He said that he write stuff then flag it so he can show it to her the next time she blames him for something. 

[af1]

   I'm with you mr pig.But I don't know what is worse. A guy blogging the details of his rotten marriage or a bunch of other guys sitting around on a forum analyzing it.

[Big_Al]

Ray--Seeing how not a single person responded to my (lame) post:  'how do you pronounce the capital of Florida--'Meee ami' or "Mi ami'? I will use my right to refuse to answer.
 
As someone else here has said many times:--'maybe later'--'I DON'T HAVE to', 'I don't feel like answering that now'or 'Maybe if you ask me more politely'-----lol

    Anybody have any idea what he is talking about here?

   

[riley]

    Good call af1.I am afraid I am guilty as charged.That is a silly blog but it is even sillier to sit around and tune in to it like a soap opera.

    Big Al, that is all greek to me.

[Ray]

Anybody have any idea what he is talking about here?

　
　
Al, don't pay too much attention to Robert's ramblings. He starts drinking early in the day sometimes...
　

Ray--Seeing how not a single person responded to my (lame) post: 'how do you pronounce the capital of Florida--'Meee ami' or "Mi ami'? I will use my right to refuse to answer.

　
Robert, I may be mistaken, but didn't Michal B reply to your dumb post with a link to the Freddie Cannon song "Tallahassee Lassie"?? You better go back and check…
　
Now answer the damn question! 
 
　
Ray
　

[piglett]

   I'm with you mr pig.But I don't know what is worse. A guy blogging the details of his rotten marriage or a bunch of other guys sitting around on a forum analyzing it.

HE HE HE  now that's funny 
 
pig

[robert angel]

Ray,
 
If anybody didn't pick up on the relationship--(yes, I insinuated) between  a woman having hormonal mood swings, 'a hysterical' and a hysterectomy, maybe some of us need to read a little more!

49 bottle of beer on the wall, 49 bottles of beer......
 
(BTW--the capital of Florida is Tallahassee--not Miami--as if you didn't know... )