How many of your Latina exes........

[dennislevy]

 Now heres another interesting question
 of the Latina women that you had relationships with..that includes sexual intimacy....

how many have made a binding committment to another man AFTER you.
 jejejeje!
 
 For me its been three..... possibly 4 women that I know of.  There may be MORE!
 
 My first Colombian ex novia from ibague who was 40 and without kids when i met her in Mayof 2008, married a Colombiano in November 2010. but she still has her profile on colombiano cupido although she hasnt been on the site in more then a year.
 
A 30 year old Bogotana with a 6 year old  with whom  I had a brief relationship in Setember 2008.. married a 60 year old American agency client in late 2009 and she now lives in the US with her husband and child
 
 A 42 year old woman with a teenage daughter who I had met in march 2009...a year later she told me that she was 5 months pregnant and the Colombiano had offered to marry her and raise her daugher.  This one I was skeptical of.   
 
 I met a 46 year old divorced Bogotana  in April 2010 without kids, incredible lover..... who had 8 months previously terminated her relationship with her Spanish novio of 19 months. he was 48 or so.....he had come to Colombia 17 tmes in 19 months, and given her quite a bit of mioney so quite naturally, I  asked her if she had overcome him. and she said yes....
 
 Uh huh.....
 
She disappeared completley off the grid for a week in late June...and then after 27 calls from me, she called  me and told me she had returned to the Spaniard. She offered ot meet me for coffee and tell me why...I declined.....
 
They are now living together in Spain.

That last one was a disappointment, the week before I had asked her to live with me...and she said she would love to do it......and we were going to look for an apartment in Bogota...

I certainly cant blame him, and although she was stupping him durng that week .....in a way I can t blame her...she had a track record with him and sure money......and she loves him.....

And now you know why I m so ................cautious about committing!!!!!

jejejeje

vaya con Dios caballeros!

 
   
 
 

[benjio]

LOL! Now this is my kind of thread!!! Leave it up to ol' Dennis keep the board juicy!
 
I've only dated one Latina that actually lived outside the U.S. while we were novios. I still keep in touch with a lot of her family and friends and they always make it their business to let me know what's going on with her even though I really don't give a damn anymore. It's been 7 months since we've broken up and she is still supposedly single. I actually sincerely hope she finds someone else and I want her to be happy, because at the rate gossip travels in Barranquilla she will definitely hear about me dating someone else if and when it happens. What has crossed my mind from time to time (because I'm just kind of crazy I guess) is her being with another man sexually. I took her virginity and she was very uncomfortable about her body at first. She was extremely shy about getting undressed with the lights and things like that...not to mention the act itself. That drastically changed as she got more comfortable with me. I think when a girl waits until she's 22 to have sex for the first time, after she gets accustomed to it, she'll probably have a, how shall I put this...very healthy sexual appetitie. I don't know if it's the female body's way of making up for lost time or what, but the longer a girl waits, the more they want to have sex when they finally start. This goes across the board with Latinas though. I've never met one that didn't enjoy being with their man sexually. Some women in the United States use sex as a weapon or something to punish men when we do something they disapprove of. Latinas will get in screaming matches specifically for the makeup sex. So my thought from time to time has been, if my ex has no boyfriend, and she was ALWAYS extremely horny while we were together...what is she doing about that now?
 
There's my sick 2 cents.

[dennislevy]

Benjio
Thanks for.............contributing...jejejeje...

In Colombia, I ve been with a few women who got married extremely young at 14 and 15... and said they had lost their virginities to their husbands. 

And I ve dated a woman who waited to have sex until she was 24, had a brief advenure with a university student in Medellin and her next cita...was 29 years.  later...with ME!

Any more volunteers? .....
 

[Ray]

 

[Researcher]

   That's a question I cannot answer.One reason is that I don't keep up with my ex's after we break up.Too many fish in the sea for that.

   I guess I'm just curious but I have to ask: Why do you guys keep up with your ex's after it's over?
   I like the philosophy that is best described by a George Strait song:"All my exes live in Texas,thats why I hang my hat in Tennessee"!

     Researcher

[Gato4Astrid]

Dennis, 236 other women still unaccounted for!!

[fathertime]

Dennis, 236 other women still unaccounted for!!

236?? I thought I read somewhere that he was on 265 already. 


Fathertime!

[Ray]

 
Maybe we should have a separate "Sex Tourist" forum, where guys like Dennis Levy, who have no intention of committing to marriage, can brag to each other about how many women they have dated, which sluts they have screwed, how many times they have screwed them, whether or not they are a good screw, who the sluts have screwed before and after they screwed them, how many guys each slut has screwed during her lifetime, etc...
 
And they can pretend to be a "gentleman" while they inform the whole world via the Internet about their sex lives and the sex lives of any and all past and present sex partners, just like those little braggarts in the high school locker room.
 
Of course any intelligent being knows that these insecure individuals who find a need to brag about all their sexual conquests on the Net are really the guys who are just sitting at home playing with themselves while watching porn videos...  LOL!
 
Ray
 
 

[Micky]

Res -

Like you,  when I am done,  I am done.  I do not have animosity or think badly of Exes,  just with me,  done is done.
 
Micky

[Researcher]

Now heres another interesting question
 of the Latina women that you had relationships with..that includes sexual intimacy....

how many have made a binding committment to another man AFTER you.
 jejejeje!
 
 For me its been three..... possibly 4 women that I know of.  There may be MORE!
 
 My first Colombian ex novia from ibague who was 40 and without kids when i met her in Mayof 2008, married a Colombiano in November 2010. but she still has her profile on colombiano cupido although she hasnt been on the site in more then a year.
 
A 30 year old Bogotana with a 6 year old  with whom  I had a brief relationship in Setember 2008.. married a 60 year old American agency client in late 2009 and she now lives in the US with her husband and child
 
 A 42 year old woman with a teenage daughter who I had met in march 2009...a year later she told me that she was 5 months pregnant and the Colombiano had offered to marry her and raise her daugher.  This one I was skeptical of.   
 
 I met a 46 year old divorced Bogotana  in April 2010 without kids, incredible lover..... who had 8 months previously terminated her relationship with her Spanish novio of 19 months. he was 48 or so.....he had come to Colombia 17 tmes in 19 months, and given her quite a bit of mioney so quite naturally, I  asked her if she had overcome him. and she said yes....
 
 Uh huh.....
 
She disappeared completley off the grid for a week in late June...and then after 27 calls from me, she called  me and told me she had returned to the Spaniard. She offered ot meet me for coffee and tell me why...I declined.....
 
They are now living together in Spain.

That last one was a disappointment, the week before I had asked her to live with me...and she said she would love to do it......and we were going to look for an apartment in Bogota...

I certainly cant blame him, and although she was stupping him durng that week .....in a way I can t blame her...she had a track record with him and sure money......and she loves him.....

And now you know why I m so ................cautious about committing!!!!!

jejejeje

vaya con Dios caballeros!

 
 

        I spent alot of time dating around. Committing to a relationship is a mutual decision, IMHO.I never worried too much if a woman wanted to break up and be with someone else.To me she was doing me a favor because I didn't want to be with a woman who wanted to be with someone else.Through my years of dating I would always be meeting different women and every now and then one would come along and there would be an irresistable mutual attraction between us.Those were the ones that I pursued most.It didn't take much effort either.That became what I looked for.Not a woman with the hottest bod or beautiful face.I had been with women that I was very attracted to and I learned young that those can do alot of damage...if I permitted.For me to make a committment there had to be more than just attraction on one side. I had been in those relationships where there were mutual fireworks and it had ruined me for anything else.

     That's why I was, as Micky said "done".Once I realized it wasn't going to work it was time to move on.No need in hanging around waiting for things to change, heck, I had the whole world to explore.

      So I didn't worry too much about the women that kept someone else on a string.If those fireworks were there she chose me over other guys.If she didn't choose me then it was on to the next woman.If there wasn't another one then I just made the attempt to get out there and meet women.Sooner or later one would come along and then...fireworks.It would either work out or not.Then I met one that I couldn't stop thinking about.It was mutual.We have been inseperable ever since.The fireworks are still there, she's a good woman and we are building a life together.
Making a committment to one another was easy for both of us.

     Researcher

[AndyLee]

Maybe we should have a separate "Sex Tourist" forum, where guys
like.......Ray

Your post is so far outside common civility that it really doesn't deserve an answer.....trolls should stay under the bridge and stop being jealous of people who have a life and live it well.

[dennislevy]

 
From time to time.....i ve thought about some of my exes in Colombia, I ve never really kept up with them in depth, but i send a happy birthday email to several.. and as a result of one email card back in November, my first ex had told me she had married. 
 
Two of the four recently contacted me on Facebook, i accepted the friendship soliticitations, because I was in truth, curious to see what had happened to them.
 
Once they replied and said that they were married i said wonderful, congratulations, but please, lets not continue because I dont talk to married women without the knowledge of their husbands.  The exes respected  my point of view and we haven t continued. 

Gato Astrid
i said relationships with exes  that included intimacy. Yes, I ve met more then 200 women...but and I don t know how many iomes I have to say this, i havent SLEPT with 200 women. My god, I would be dead!!!!! .....Many of them were a cup of coffee, or a lunch and that was it...thats not intimacy.... 
 
I dont make bones about it.....I like to meet women, I like the company of women more then that of almost all men, almost everything I know about Colombian culture comes from conversations with women, its a great way to practice Spanish, etc. 
 
as for getting married...probably not.....I certainly tried hard enough the first year and a half.....I was here.
 
and I am reasonably sure I would enjoy a polite cup of coffee with a group of 70 year old Colombian convent nuns...then I would....meeting you face to face! jejejeje
 
Let me ask you? if you re so happy with the lady in Medllin, why do YOU keep nagging ME about how many women I ve met?
 
Andy et al.
a year ago, I made a decision to block and ignore the poster who calls himsslf Ray. i think im not the only one who does it.  When I saw Andy s response.....I opened Ray s diatribe and promptly re bocked him.....  Nothing has changed about Ray...he s a non person...at least with me.
 
have a good day everyone!
Dennis

[Ray]

Your post is so far outside common civility that it really doesn't deserve an answer.....trolls should stay under the bridge and stop being jealous of people who have a life and live it well.

　
Jealous?? Don’t make me laugh!
　
So that’s your idea of "living your life well"? Going on the Internet and repeatedly bragging about your sexual encounters, and now exposing the sexual encounters of ex-girlfriends?
　
Since you’re relatively new here, let me explain it to you. A "sex tourist" on this forum is a guy who goes overseas not to find a lifetime partner in marriage, but solely to bang the women and have a good time. Living like that is one thing and is one’s personal business, but bragging about it on line is another. That’s not what this forum is about.
　
The sex tourists who brag about banging the women publicly on an open forum, while keeping count and reporting each "date", are just insecure little men who feel a need to share their "conquests" with other men. That’s not what gentlemen do, it’s what adolescent little boys do.
　
Since you obviously admire that sort of juvenile behavior, don’t you think it’s about time that you grow up?
　
Ray
　
　

[Researcher]

      I don't know who makes official definitions of terms for PL but they may want to take a look at what the real definition of a sex tourist is:   
 
                              sex tourism noun, Definition: when someone travels to another country for the purpose of paying to have sex, especially with children.

      That's the official definition according to the Cambridge Dictionary.So unless there is money and/or children involved with sex, as in prostitution then said person isn't a sex tourist.This term is very negative and shouldn't be thrown around so loosely.

        Sex is part of an adult relationship and will come up when disussing things related to adult relationships.Nothing has been discussed in graphic detail and no names of women have been mentioned.No harm has been done.I'm not speaking for this entire forum.Just expressing my own opinion.So unless Dennis is paying these women for sex he isn't a sex tourist.At least according to what the rest of the world considers to be sex tourist.

         Researcher

     

[AndyLee]

Andy et al.
a year ago, I made a decision to block and ignore the poster who calls himsslf Ray. i think im not the only one who does it.  When I saw Andy s response.....I opened Ray s diatribe and promptly re bocked him.....  Nothing has changed about Ray...he s a non person...at least with me.
 
have a good day everyone!
Dennis

Good advice Dennis......how do I block him? Under the old forum format there was a "ignore" button but now what?

[Gato4Astrid]

 
Gato Astrid
i said relationships with exes  that included intimacy. Yes, I ve met more then 200 women...but and I don t know how many tomes I have to say this, i havent SLEPT with 200 women. My god, would be dead!!!!! .....Many of them were a cup of coffee, or a lunch and that was it...thats not intimacy.... 
 
 
Dennis

I don't remember mentioning about you sleeping with them lol

[Researcher]

       Maybe the PL definition of "cup of coffee" is sexual intercourse!!! hahaha!!!!

         Researcher

[fathertime]

       Maybe the PL definition of "cup of coffee" is sexual intercourse!!! hahaha!!!!

         Researcher

Ahhhhh I got you, maybe dennislevy was referring to dunking his donuts in that 'coffee'.  That dennislevy he talks a different language than most of us stateside rubes. 


Fathertime!

[Researcher]

Ahhhhh I got you, maybe dennislevy was referring to dunking his donuts in that 'coffee'.  That dennislevy he talks a different language than most of us stateside rubes. 


Fathertime!

        OMG!! I hope not because DL and Micky had lunch!! I wouldn't even want to know what that means! hehehe! I was referring to the Merriam Websters of PL who assign definitions to terms that differ from what the rest of the world knows.

          Researcher

[dennislevy]

jejeje
I had coffee with Micky in Medellin and also with Whitey in Baranquilla...and they are both respectable married men!


I m not a sex tourist, i v never paid a woman for sex, I v e NEVER been in a brothel or called an escort service or accepted the proposiiton of a woman on the street, in the US or ANY country in the wold.   


Tonight in Medellin , I had dinner with my best friend in Colombia, she is  an ex noiva, a public accountant (Micky met her)  and she is 54 years old. After I took her home, I came back to the small hotle iM AT.....walked into the kitchen and found three slightkly tipsy and very cheerful  women who are here for a cooking school class. They are from Bucamarga and so I had a tinto and we talked aobut Bucamaranga becasue I had been there recently.


Beofre Gato Astrid takes out his calculator...they are not part of the 200 plus women, I consider as first dates!!!!
If I say an ex novia got married, that certainly isnt divulging details of her sex life....and I ve never used names.


I m sure that some posters will disagree with me.....but I don t brag and Im certainlly not uinsecure. I have the freedom to hIT the road and go,   Yes, my life is much different then it would be n the US, much more fun, much more enjoyable....AND  I ve always encouraged men to visit Soith Amerrica    I ve reported honestly aobut my life and say what is possible for an ex pat who speaks Spanish every day, can chUck most gringo attitudes  and wants to partiicpate in the culture as much as possible.


Several nights ago in Pereira, I sat with the owners of this terriffc new  little hotel named Sueños de Cafe (Carra 8 .23-14. We sat inh the lobby and talked and talked in Spanish ...But, they have an 11 year old girl who is learning English in a collegio, and so I persuaded the girl to speak English and I helped her, and we talked about music and sports in English, I  praised the girl in front of her parents,,,,and made the point that she was bright and she should keep applyijg herself.


Later that evening  the mom took me into the laundry room, where was a brand new Whirpool washing machjine and dryer.  Of course all the directions and cycles on the dials were in English, so I drew on pàper big circles to represent the dials and translated all the directions and cycles into Spanish.,,,and made sure the mom understood.


Those ordinary moments make me  happy.    Those are also the details of my life....moments when I m part of a family circle...if briefly  As I ve posted before, I been in the homes of families in most every part of Colombia, I v e been invited by colombian women (as their escort) to weddings.   


If I was the gringo sex tourist that one or two indiiduals think I am......I wouldn t have those moments.


Good night everyone


 

[utopiacowboy]

"If I was the gringo sex tourist that one or two indiiduals think I am......I wouldn t have those moments."

Even a gringo sex tourist can be a nice guy. Of course the sex trade in Colombia would disappear completely if it had to depend on gringos. Casas are scattered throughout Medellin - there's one not too far from my wife's apartment.

[V_Man]

About the topic - I just don't care what any ex does. If she is a real nut case I hope she does find somone else so she doesn't try to contact me anymore.

About Dennis -
Let's imagine, hypothetically that a guy on here who speands hours 'internet dating' was to call Dennis a sex tourist. That would be hypocritical. Dennis goes and meets women because he can. Others try to get to know many women via the internet.

Now Dennis may be a professional dater but there are a good many people like that. I don't see why that would mean he would be unwelcome on here. I have no intention of emulating Dennis but I am very interested in reading his posts. The site would be poorer for his absence.

[Researcher]

     I agree V-man.There is no "fine line" between a man that dates foreign women and a sex tourist.A sex tourist travels to foreign countries to have sex with prostitutes and some of them travel to have sex with children.Dennis is an ex-pat in Colombia dating the women there.Big difference there.I met Dennis once in an agency. Sex tourists see agencies as a waste of money because there are plenty of places guys can go to pay for sex outright and not pay an agency fee to meet women that might not sleep with them.

      Researcher

[Ray]

About the topic - I just don't care what any ex does. If she is a real nut case I hope she does find somone else so she doesn't try to contact me anymore.

About Dennis -
Let's imagine, hypothetically that a guy on here who speands hours 'internet dating' was to call Dennis a sex tourist. That would be hypocritical. Dennis goes and meets women because he can. Others try to get to know many women via the internet.

Now Dennis may be a professional dater but there are a good many people like that. I don't see why that would mean he would be unwelcome on here. I have no intention of emulating Dennis but I am very interested in reading his posts. The site would be poorer for his absence.

　
V_Man,
　
Are you interested in reading about whom he is having sex with? Are you interested in reading about who his ex-sexual partners are having sex with? Do you think it is gentlemanly or classy to blab on the Internet about one’s sexual encounters? Do you think it is respectful of women to post on the Internet about their willingness to go to bed with him, while giving many personal details about these women’s lives?
　
Dennis Levy is the biggest hypocrite and phony on this forum. He dares to come here and lecture the members about "class", "respect" for women, how to be a "gentleman", etc., while he posts his sexual encounters on an open forum where just about anyone on earth with Internet access can come here and read this stuff, including the women his is blabbing about.
　
There is absolutely nothing wrong with two consenting adults dating and engaging in sex. I would venture to say that most of the men on this forum, whether married or not, are getting all the sex they can handle. But why is it that only ONE member here finds the compelling need to report his intimate relations here on the forum? If Dennis Levy was truly a gentleman as he professes to be, if he had even an ounce of class that he lectures others about, if he had any respect at all for these women that he claims to bedding, then he would keep his mouth shut about it like any respectable gentleman would, instead of blabbing like an immature teenager.
　
Is he that insecure about his manhood that he must report over and over again how many dates he has had, and report each sexual encounter like a badge of honor? Are you impressed with his claims of bedding women for all over the country? Apparently a couple of people here are impressed with this juvenile behavior of his. How sad.
　
About the "Sex Tourist" label, there are many definitions of what a sex tourist is. Here on this forum, the term has been loosely used to describe those who travel to foreign countries with no intention of marriage, but to have sex with the women, whether they are paying for it or not. If you dislike the term, then call it whatever you want, but this forum has always been about finding a marriage partner, not simply about sleeping with foreign women. Those men who have no intention of marrying, while preferring to remain single and date a lot of foreign women, have always been welcome here as long as they keep the details of their sexual adventures private and personal. By repeatedly publicly bragging about his sexual conquests here, Dennis Levy cheapens this forum IMHO.
　
Like I said before, I have no personal problem with guys who engage in that behavior as long as it is legal and between consenting adults. What I have a problem with is some holier-than-though braggart who lectures us on respect, class, and how to be a gentleman, while doing exactly the opposite.
　
He stepped over the line in this thread when he started bringing up all of these ex-sexual partners of his and telling about their sex lives and personal information. And don’t give me this crap about this being OK because he hasn’t mentioned any specific names, because he provided enough details about these women that the women themselves or their family members and close friends would know whom he is blabbing about.
　
Those who disagree are certainly welcome to comment.
　
Ray
　
　

[V_Man]

Ray No I am not the least interested in who he had sex with and who they had sex with etc. Yes I did find this particular topic odd. In fact I still don't get the point of it or why Dennis thinks this explains his reluctance to committ to someone.

However I am intersted in relationship issues with Latinas. This just happen to be some relationship issue Dennis wants to discuss.

Yes I don't tell people how many women I have dated, etc, etc.

However you need to chill dude.

Let's say (for arguements sake) he is telling people to be respectful and you can get hundreds of dates without needing to marry anyone. So what? That's hardly rocket science is it? It just helps to put his advice in context.

You don't need to agree with him or take any of his advice.

How is it any different to advising guys to learn some Spanish, be a gentleman, then spend thousands of dollars and you can go an agency, date 30 women in a week and write about each of your dates on the internet?

The only difference really is that Dennis admitts he's probaly not going to marry anyone.

Dude, marriage for a westen man is more risky than warfare. You can't seriously want to limit this forum to men who are 100% determined to be married.