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My Ex Been Scammed
« on: March 24, 2011, 02:47:47 PM »
Hey Guy's,

 All i can say..... karma is real!!!

I'm sure you remember the guy i meet back in January, who disappeared after talking for a month or so... he tried to talk to me on skype an hour ago, he asked me how are you? i said I'm good but sleepy cause obviously it's late here lol.. i said hey it's been a while... how are you doing? he said I'm alright. of course my next question is how's your girl friend with crazy  ;D ;D he said when i stopped talking to you i found a filipina from Jacksonville Florida, i said aww good for you. he said i wanna tell you something i said go a head. she's filipina but the time i meet her online in "Filipinacupid" she was on her way to the Philippines to visit her daughter, after a weeks for some reason she got problem with her visa, and she needs to come back to the state soon as possible but she said she needed my help because she cant get to the immigration unless she pay something lol.... man a soon as he mention money i said "OMG YOU BEEN SCAMMED!!! he said yeah i know, he got teary eyes while talking, he sent $6,000 all in all.

after i heard all of these i wanna cry and laugh for him, mix emotions i feel so sorry for him.
« Last Edit: March 24, 2011, 02:52:42 PM by indaycare »
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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #1 on: March 24, 2011, 03:30:30 PM »

 $6,000?

What a dumbass!

I guess he contacted you because he now realizes that he had a good thing going and wants you back, right? Well, tell him to stick his thumb in his ear and go bowling...   ;D


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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #2 on: March 24, 2011, 05:42:07 PM »
6k!!! WOW! That gal took him down the pea patch.
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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #3 on: March 24, 2011, 06:11:14 PM »
I think it was a big syndicate that connected to Philippines, because they called each other the scammer using US number too and he checked the area code list in Jacksonville Florida, 904-339-8442 but the money sent to Philippines.


guy's be aware with this name "Rassel Benigno" and her emails rassvb@yahoo.com, rassrv@yahoo.com

he is so sad! he thought he got the better one, he don't need to travel to the Philippines and less hassle with the visa stuff. ahhhh it's just sad!

@Kuya Ray, yes your right he realize now, he said to me we been talking for a while and i know u got big bill because of me but you never mention about money to me. kuya you know it been this situation so many times, "having back ups" choice the bad one  ;D when they realize it's too late. trust is already broken!
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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #4 on: March 24, 2011, 06:31:19 PM »
Quote from: indaycare on March 24, 2011, 06:11:14 PM
he is so sad! he thought he got the better one, he don't need to travel to the Philippines and less hassle with the visa stuff. ahhhh it's just sad!

From what all I read here; it just proves that when you try to go the cheap route, it bites you in the @ss.  Your ex rolled the dice and got... snake eyes!
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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #5 on: March 24, 2011, 07:00:31 PM »
Thefkc quote of the day:
Whoever digs a pit will fall into it. Whoever rolls a stone will have it roll back on him.

Quote from: Ray on March 24, 2011, 03:30:30 PM
Well, tell him to stick his thumb in his ear and go bowling...   ;D
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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #6 on: March 24, 2011, 09:29:16 PM »
6K ?      he could have went to the PI for a month & had a great time ::) ::) ::)




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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #7 on: March 24, 2011, 10:42:10 PM »
Quote from: Tanuki on March 24, 2011, 06:31:19 PM
Your ex rolled the dice and got... snake eyes!
And the snake bit him.  The dumb-arse.
Points:
1.  Got what he deserves!  Anyone that stupid is clearly not yet matrure enough to be good husband material.
2.  He got off cheap!  Hard life lessons can often be much more expensive.

Quote from: piglett on March 24, 2011, 09:29:16 PM
6K ?      he could have went to the PI for a month & had a great time ::) ::) ::)
Twice!
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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #8 on: March 25, 2011, 04:25:53 AM »



     I wonder how many guys have fallen for this scam. It happens. It's good that this forum is around to warn guys about this sort of thing.Thanks for sharing Indaycare.


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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #9 on: March 25, 2011, 11:52:43 AM »
....have they ever met in person....if not maybe she's in the Philippines and have a majicjack with a Florida number :-)

6,000 is a LOT of money..oh well, he better learn from this.....DON'T EVER SEND ANY MONEY as Ray always says :-)

But you know some men  thinks from the wrong head....

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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #10 on: March 25, 2011, 03:07:29 PM »

Quote from: tessbrittain on March 25, 2011, 11:52:43 AM

But you know some men  thinks from the wrong head....


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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #11 on: March 25, 2011, 04:36:51 PM »
6,000!!!!!

My God, I can have at least 240 first dates in Colombia.....!!!!! jejejejeje

How can a man be so gullible??????????????????????????
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« Reply #12 on: March 26, 2011, 01:20:11 AM »
Quote from: Researcher on March 25, 2011, 04:25:53 AM


     I wonder how many guys have fallen for this scam. It happens. It's good that this forum is around to warn guys about this sort of thing.Thanks for sharing Indaycare.


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You're welcome :)

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« Reply #13 on: March 26, 2011, 02:46:18 AM »
Quote from: tessbrittain on March 25, 2011, 11:52:43 AM
....have they ever met in person....if not maybe she's in the Philippines and have a majicjack with a Florida number :-)

6,000 is a LOT of money..oh well, he better learn from this..

Ate Tess,

No, they haven't meet yet. they plan to meet when she come back from Philippines. majicjack ;) it could be. he learn big time! he's Depression is killing him. out of no where he buy a "cute dog" yesterday i guess his way to be comfort.

Did you ever hear the local show called "Bitag" by Ben Tulfo i saw one of their episode, westerner "guy" been scammed by filipina. he decide to come to the Philippines and ask help to the authorities, if he could get his money back... the only thing he got is Name, Address, and email. of the "scammer" who is suppose to be his girl friend. at the end he found out that all the info he got is fake even the ID's they present on Western Union to pick up the money is FAKE! what a sad story!

i hope they choice me it wouldn't happen to them like that.. :'( until now i m still unlucky!   ;D

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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #14 on: March 26, 2011, 06:04:15 PM »
This guy is so dumb good thing you didn't end up with him....

Don't lose hope..there's one for you out there.....

My Hubby wrote to 100 Filipina women way back in 1999...  50 responded back and he narrowed it down to 15 then 10 then 3 and  me :-) Internet was so expensive back then. It  cost 90 pesos for an hour at the internet cafe... We never chatted, we exchanged letters and  I would  email him twice a week and he would call me once or twice a week.

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« Reply #15 on: March 26, 2011, 11:34:45 PM »
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This guy is so dumb good thing you didn't end up with him....

I agree completely with Tess, Inday. If you value yourself, set high standards for others to be around you, especially someone you are planning to team up with for life.
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« Reply #16 on: March 27, 2011, 04:38:26 AM »
Quote from: Jeff S on March 26, 2011, 11:34:45 PM
Inday. If you value yourself, set high standards for others to be around you, especially someone you are planning to team up with for life.

Jeff S,

Thank you for your advice, I truly appreciate them. I'll been looking for a while I'm still learning, but sometimes we just made a bad decisions in life.

In my ex situation i would say that as a first timer he is not aware about the online dating scam. i guess he is just one of
"the nice guy" willing to help that been taking advantage. i understand he is not a computer person. he's been single for 7 years and one of his co worker say that filipina woman are the best wife... what he did buy a laptop and joined filipinacupid he pay 1 year membership as platinum, he admit that is not a smart move, at the end no one he could blame but him self. right now i can tell he got bad views about filipina. he added saying damn i would never go with looks ever again. ;D ;D i laugh my butt off, i know the fact that he left me because he choice the model looks.  ;D ;D ;D

he mention last night that the person who scammed him still living with this address:

 BLOCK 88 BONA RITA VILLAGE BARANGAY BANILAD CEBU CITY, PHILIPPINES

  i guess... him and his friend having contact with the NBI in cebu city.


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« Reply #17 on: March 27, 2011, 04:40:48 AM »

      It is something how a guy can get taken by one of the many scammers out there when there are many, many more wonderful single women available.I agree this guy isn't very smart.


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« Reply #18 on: March 30, 2011, 11:37:42 PM »
 He said i want you back but i need to check your back ground before i invest hahaha! LOL.... because of one bad egg can make the rest of us look bad unfortunately.

PEOPLE WILL SAY WHATEVER THEY WANT ABOUT YOU. THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT TRUE. AT THE END OF THE DAY WHEN YOU LOOK IN THE MIRROR YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU'VE DONE AND THE NONSENSE DOESN'T MATTER.
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« Reply #19 on: March 31, 2011, 04:09:23 AM »
Quote from: indaycare on March 30, 2011, 11:37:42 PM
He said i want you back
  I hope you are not considering this.  There are men out there who will not treat you as he did.
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« Reply #20 on: March 31, 2011, 05:53:28 AM »
Quote from: indaycare on March 30, 2011, 11:37:42 PM
He said i want you back but i need to check your back ground before i invest hahaha! LOL.... because of one bad egg can make the rest of us look bad unfortunately.

PEOPLE WILL SAY WHATEVER THEY WANT ABOUT YOU. THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT TRUE. AT THE END OF THE DAY WHEN YOU LOOK IN THE MIRROR YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU'VE DONE AND THE NONSENSE DOESN'T MATTER.

       I would tell him to move on Indaycare. There are plenty of other women out there that would tolerate such nonsense!

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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #21 on: March 31, 2011, 07:16:06 AM »

Day,

Don't waste the electricity talking to this insulting IDIOT!
You deserve MUCH better...

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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #22 on: March 31, 2011, 10:56:42 AM »
Kuya, i know... Never miss a good thing until it's gone!  :'( :'(

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« Reply #23 on: April 01, 2011, 11:19:38 AM »
Quote from: tessbrittain on March 25, 2011, 11:52:43 AM
....have they ever met in person....if not maybe she's in the Philippines and have a majicjack with a Florida number :-)

Tess


Hey Tess,

That sounds like me!  ;D

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Re: My Ex Been Scammed
« Reply #24 on: April 01, 2011, 12:52:37 PM »
All I can say that he deserves to get scammed after the way he treated you... disappearing.

But you shouldn't waste 1 hour with him.   You need to move on and not a minute talking with him.
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