friend looking for boyfriend/ husband. be careful

[mudd]

brujito esperando que estes muy bien .....................................quiero un novio me consigues novio por fa!!!!!!!!!!!!es enserio.
hace dias tengo ganas de casarme, tener hijos pero los mas importante enamorarme de un hombre bueno y que me quiera!
te quiero monito hermoso y saluditos a tus hijos muak

this is a letter i received for a friend of mine who i have known for quite a few  years. this is the typical " good looking but now desperate" paisa from Medellin. when i met her, she was going to school, had a job, had no interest in a boyfriend, let along  getting  married.

then she lost her job a year later, couldn't go to school, and then wanted a novio- sort of. in my opinion, just a novio to help her pay for her studies.  4 months later, she got a job and then changed her mind and quit looking for a boyfriend. well, that lasted about a year.

she racked up some debt in school and with a bank, which is normal down there, but then lost her job again, ( that's typical in Colombia) and is not desperate for financial future, so now, she is looking again for  boyfriend/ husband.

for all you newbies, these are the girls you need to stay away from in Colombia. they seem completely normal up front, but  until you have known them for some time and their family and financial situation, you have noooooooo idea whats really going on.

i know many girls like this in  Medellin, who as soon as they get into a financial problem, look to a foreign boyfriend/ husband to bail them out, which the relationship lasts about as long as the $$$ does.  so for you newbies who are looking for a serious, girl, take your time and be smart.

[Researcher]

  



       What?!!! an educated girl looking to take advantage? I thought these were the ones to go for.


  Researcher

[utopiacowboy]

Geez, Mudd, you're ruining it for them!

[Zon]

here, here. 

And learn to be a "tough grader".   Be demanding, and don't play the fool.  If you have this mentality, you are 100% better equipped to see through the BS

[InnocentVixen]

haha "hace dias tengo ganas de casarme" it's been days... poor girl... days...

I would not judge girls too harshly in a similar situation to hers, as far as I am concerned the debt  thing is a really good reason to keep your distance, but other than that she is not so bad, she said she wants to fall in love with a good man that loves her back.

But about her not making up her mind if she wants a boyfriend? well that's the tricky part, maybe she is too young/immature, maybe she is starting to want a family and all that free time between jobs made her realize that, if she was truly desperate I am sure she would have a boyfriend already.

So yes guys, be careful, but also make sure you are not jumping to conclusions.

[Researcher]

     There are several possibilities with this chica.Is she sincere or not?I never tried to analyze things like that too much.I just know that I never wanted to be a "sugar daddy".I guess it is possible to be one and the woman still love you at the same time but one thing is for sure.If you don't give up the cash and she doesn't hang around, she never loved you in the first place.


  Researcher

[CROW]

brujito esperando que estes muy bien .....................................quiero un novio me consigues novio por fa!!!!!!!!!!!!es enserio.
hace dias tengo ganas de casarme, tener hijos pero los mas importante enamorarme de un hombre bueno y que me quiera!
te quiero monito hermoso y saluditos a tus hijos muak

this is a letter i received for a friend of mine who i have known for quite a few  years. this is the typical " good looking but now desperate" paisa from Medellin. when i met her, she was going to school, had a job, had no interest in a boyfriend, let along  getting  married.

then she lost her job a year later, couldn't go to school, and then wanted a novio- sort of. in my opinion, just a novio to help her pay for her studies.  4 months later, she got a job and then changed her mind and quit looking for a boyfriend. well, that lasted about a year.

she racked up some debt in school and with a bank, which is normal down there, but then lost her job again, ( that's typical in Colombia) and is not desperate for financial future, so now, she is looking again for  boyfriend/ husband.

for all you newbies, these are the girls you need to stay away from in Colombia. they seem completely normal up front, but  until you have known them for some time and their family and financial situation, you have noooooooo idea whats really going on.

i know many girls like this in  Medellin, who as soon as they get into a financial problem, look to a foreign boyfriend/ husband to bail them out, which the relationship lasts about as long as the $$$ does.  so for you newbies who are looking for a serious, girl, take your time and be smart.

Geez!!! Not this again!!!

Is it too much to ask to just stop judging these women and just enjoy their company for a night or two before jumping to conclusions.


Can we hear from at least one wife hunter that has a real dilemma....you know a guy that has actually slept with a smoking hot chick that was great in bed and has some problem (aside from her english) that just makes you incapable of marrying her. LOL!!!

[Researcher]

Can we hear from at least one wife hunter that has a real dilemma....you know a guy that has actually slept with a smoking hot chick that was great in bed and has some problem (aside from her english) that just makes you incapable of marrying her. LOL!!!

   Go ahead Crow, we are all ears.hehehe

  Researcher

[mudd]

Can we hear from at least one wife hunter that has a real dilemma....you know a guy that has actually slept with a smoking hot chick that was great in bed and has some problem (aside from her english) that just makes you incapable of marrying her. LOL!!!

Crow,  i think your looking for stories in the wrong place, try the " world travlers sex forum"   jajajaja, sorry, couldnt resist 

[InnocentVixen]

good point, analyzing things too much can get in the way, if I didn't I would be married already 




the first step is admitting your problem... maybe I'm getting there

[piglett]

good point, analyzing things too much can get in the way, if I didn't I would be married already  

the first step is admitting your problem... maybe I'm getting there

Hey IV maybe if that baby lion that you keep at your house wasn't around more nice guys would come calling on you   

he he he sorry i just had to
where was that picture taken?
i like cats but i'm not so sure i would want to clean up after one that big.


best wishes
piglett

[Jeff S]

Don't worry IV. You're not alone:



Actually I think everyone should take their time and not ever do anything rash. There's be a whole lot less drama in this world.

[Jedironin]

Makes you wonder... why is there such a wide variety of dogs for pets, from 3 lbs. to 200 lbs., but the vast majority of housecats are under 20 lbs.??

Oh yeah- cats have sharp teeth, claws, and rarely listen to what you tell them to do!  



Still a cute picture, though!  

[Dave H]

Desperate times call for desperate measures! A women like that will trade you in when something better comes along. They are always searching for a BBD (Bigger Better Deal). I am always amazed that many of these ladies claim to be in dire financial straits, but always seem to be able to afford new clothes, accessories, makeup, eating out, partying, etc. I guess one has to have their priorities...   


Better to choose a woman who doesn't let you know that she is going through hard times...if you do know, it is because you  heard it from other people or through your own observations. When you ask, she tells you that things are not so bad and that she will manage. She never even asks for a single peso and turns you down when you offer. I chose that type of lady 10 years ago and couldn't be happier to this day!

Dave

[fathertime]

Better to choose a woman who doesn't let you know that she is going through hard times...if you do know, it is because you  heard it from other people or through your own observations. When you ask, she tells you that things are not so bad and that she will manage. She never even asks for a single peso and turns you down when you offer. I chose that type of lady 10 years ago and couldn't be happier to this day!

Dave

I'm going to have to agree with Dave on this one.  My wife did not express desperation or a need for help. If anything she remains proud of her former home life. 
 I imagine to a certain extent she accepted that life was not easy in Colombia.  My impression is that she didn't care all that much about the improvement in financial circumstances.  I think she just wanted to be treated right, everything else has been a bonus.

Fathertime!

[InnocentVixen]

The picture was taken south of Ensenada, I made 2 new friends that are from different parts of Mexico so sometimes we end up doing tourist stuff, that day we went to "La Bufadora" so they could enjoy the view and have lunch and there was an event to raise funds to build a reservation area in danger of extinction and they had 2 cubs there.

I made a donation and since the little guy was tired and moody when they noticed he liked me they let me play with it for a while 

P.S. I am still impressed at how loud a baby lion's purr is! that was a great day

[Jeff S]

La Bufadora at Punta Banda - My very first trip to Mexico - back way before you were born. In fact. back in the late 60s - wow - lots of water under the dam or over the bridge, or whereever water goes since then - or maybe up the blowhole?

[Researcher]

   One thing that comes with dating experience is knowing when things are right or not.The trick is to simplify things.By analyzing the other person's situation too much you make things too complicated.For me, this situation is simple.It comes down to what I want in a relationship or what I don't want.I never wanted to be a "sugar daddy" so the solution for me would be to move on.These things usually come out pretty early in a relationship so I'm usually not too emotionally attached to easily end things.


     Researcher

[Ray]

...or wherever water goes since then - or maybe up the blowhole?

Jeff, that’s only when you get an enema… 

[CROW]

Crow,  i think your looking for stories in the wrong place, try the " world travlers sex forum"   jajajaja, sorry, couldnt resist 

I knew you were a little behind the times..... but I never thought you advocated marriage before sex. jajaja

[CROW]

   Go ahead Crow, we are all ears.hehehe

  Researcher

But I don't have any dilemmas.....I'm perfectly comfortable dating and bedding women that I have no intentions of marrying. If she is super hot and very good on bed I have no problem
banging women that I would never even consider marrying. jajaja

Some of you guys need to stop and smell the roses and just enjoy life while you go on your journey....or should I say the hunt. jajaja

[Dan]

But I don't have any dilemmas.....I'm perfectly comfortable dating and bedding women that I have no intentions of marrying. If she is super hot and very good on bed I have no problem
banging women that I would never even consider marrying. jajaja

Some of you guys need to stop and smell the roses and just enjoy life while you go on your journey....or should I say the hunt. jajaja

>> I have no problem banging women that I would never even consider marrying. jajaja<<

Maybe so, but sex tourists and whore-mongers have nothing of value to contribute to Planet-Love. jajaja

- Dan