Good post FT. Definitely makes a great deal of sense. My lady was living by herself without a man for 3 years before I came along. She told me the other day that she
wasn't going to settle for just any guy that came up to her, and there were quite a few.
She just always knew that the right man would come along, and when he does (showing respect, love and the ability to provide a sense of security for her) she was his.
Now I receive all the fruits of being the right man and without all the American woman games and ball-busting. Definitely worth the effort! 
Pivery
Pivs clearly luck was with you regarding meeting your cute Barranquian babe, but you know she was pretty darn lucky (vulnerable) holding out for you to come along too. Her patience is paying out, but I would guess most of these babes don't get the payoff of a good husband! She seems smart enough to fully appreciate that you came along, and I know you feel the same way.
Fathertime!
