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Re: I am going back in......
« Reply #25 on: August 26, 2010, 02:48:54 PM »
I think the reality of any agency or website is that you are only going to be attracted to a small percentage of the members, and I am sure 10-15% of the members are the ones constantly sought out by men.  I think the question for you is can Jaime put enough women in front of you in three days that meet your criteria to justify paying the $1,400 or so he charges.  It seems to me like most of the men who have reported using his services have thought it was worthwhile, and most have reported back that the ladies look much better in person than they do on the website.  
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« Reply #26 on: August 26, 2010, 03:05:30 PM »
Don't be ridiculous, 6s aren't $20,000, they're only $17,500. 8's are $20,000, 9s are $30,000, and 10s are $50,000. I take mastercharge and visa.

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« Reply #27 on: August 26, 2010, 03:07:38 PM »
Don't be ridiculous, 6s aren't $20,000, they're only $17,500. 8's are $20,000, 9s are $30,000, and 10s are $50,000. I take mastercharge and visa.

Too expensive I will find a different middle man.  I will pay 50k for Jennaveve Jolie though

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« Reply #29 on: August 26, 2010, 03:49:13 PM »
It's something about how he sets up his site so you have to a cookie to see the page.  I could tell you the id and you could look her up if you want

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« Reply #30 on: August 26, 2010, 04:04:52 PM »
It depends on how attractive you are. Remember you will have a lot of competition to get a 10. Since you are not rich, if you are not at least an 8 that would be hard.

I live in a part of Brazil in which the girls are not known as the most beautiful ones, but you can find tons of girls like those you are calling a 10 just by walking at any slum around here. I'm pretty sure it is the same thing in Colombia. Maybe better, because there they have bigger breasts.

braziliangirl, you been training with Ray?  ROTFLMAO!!

play2win, i think you are making all the wrong decisions and letting your little head doing all the thinking!  

In my opinion, and we all have them, you are taking a one-way street to divorce court and you will get robbed by your precious Latina 10!

I know this is a cliche but, instead of measuring the $20k price tag for your latina beauty based on how she looks on the outside, base it how she is on the inside.  As braziliangirl says, the 10's are all over the place so odds are you will get the outside beauty by default!!

Spend some time looking for a good woman for a wife, you will get the 10 arm candy because Columbia is a candy store!!

Just my thoughts on the matter!

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« Reply #31 on: August 26, 2010, 04:09:24 PM »
Hey ZK, be careful, we don't want too much Asian board thinking spilling over onto the Latin board.

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« Reply #32 on: August 26, 2010, 04:20:43 PM »
Hey ZK, be careful, we don't want too much Asian board thinking spilling over onto the Latin board.

Jeff, my bad!! 

Too much information!!   :D

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« Reply #33 on: August 26, 2010, 04:30:35 PM »
I am doing from 18 - 23 (I am 30), 5' 0" - 5' 3", (height is really important to me), 95 - 110 pounds and and no children.
Does Colombia use feet, inches, and pounds?  Better convert that to metric.  She may not know her size in pounds and inches if you are looking outside the U.S.  Could cause a surprise.
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In my opinion, and we all have them, you are taking a one-way street to divorce court and you will get robbed by your precious Latina 10!
Bah.  Let him have his fun.  Sometimes, the first one is for practice.
If it works out, great.  If not, he will have imported a hottie who will compete in the local dating pool forcing the local girls to up their game, and he will have learned a valuable lesson.  Win-win either way.
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« Reply #34 on: August 26, 2010, 05:37:44 PM »

 Columbia


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« Reply #35 on: August 26, 2010, 06:02:56 PM »
yawn............................

Forgive him. He is from the Asian board :P

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Re: I am going back in......
« Reply #36 on: August 26, 2010, 06:05:58 PM »
Bah.  Let him have his fun.  Sometimes, the first one is for practice.

On that matter, how old are you play2win?

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« Reply #37 on: August 26, 2010, 06:26:26 PM »
Forgive him. He is from the Asian board :P

Hehe....Gimme a break!!  You guys are a bit anal over here! 

ok, Colombia!!!  Better??  ;D

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Re: I am going back in......
« Reply #38 on: August 26, 2010, 06:33:22 PM »


    Hey Play2Win, you can get a "10" with no sweat, even if you are broke and butt ugly.Getting them is no problem it's keeping them once they are here you might want to think about.The best thing to do is be realistic but if you are going to gamble then at least spend enough time with this 10 to make sure she is a 10 on the inside as well.


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« Reply #39 on: August 26, 2010, 06:46:23 PM »

    Hey Play2Win, you can get a "10" with no sweat, even if you are broke and butt ugly.Getting them is no problem it's keeping them once they are here you might want to think about.The best thing to do is be realistic but if you are going to gamble then at least spend enough time with this 10 to make sure she is a 10 on the inside as well.


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You think!!

Last time I checked that was called....oh yeah...A RELATIONSHIP!!  Correct me if I'm wrong but that requires two, committed, sincere people!   Relationships are pretty independent of looks!!!

The "$20k for only the Colombian 10's" statement just seems so damn shallow!!!  And very shortsighted!!!  I am in my 40's, this sounds like something I would have said in my 20's!!  Pretty people don't equal "pretty relationship"!  

The reality is, interpersonal relationships are "ugly" and take time and effort.   Failed relationships and marriages are painful and equally "ugly!" and damned expensive!!

I just had to say something (even if my spelling sucks JimD, hehe) about that!!

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« Reply #40 on: August 26, 2010, 10:39:35 PM »
You think!!

Last time I checked that was called....oh yeah...A RELATIONSHIP!!  Correct me if I'm wrong but that requires two, committed, sincere people!   Relationships are pretty independent of looks!!!

The "$20k for only the Colombian 10's" statement just seems so damn shallow!!!  And very shortsighted!!!  I am in my 40's, this sounds like something I would have said in my 20's!!  Pretty people don't equal "pretty relationship"!  

The reality is, interpersonal relationships are "ugly" and take time and effort.   Failed relationships and marriages are painful and equally "ugly!" and damned expensive!!

I just had to say something (even if my spelling sucks JimD, hehe) about that!!

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       The real reality is that there are many different types of relationships out there, including "pay for play" relationships.Not all good relationships are "ugly" or "painful".

       What's a failed or successful relationship anyway?I know couples who were married, raised children and then divorced that don't consider their marriage a failure.It's all about perspective IMO.

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« Reply #41 on: August 26, 2010, 11:46:43 PM »
I think it's adorable how many people came out to troll / hate on my post. Mad lulz. Gracias 

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« Reply #42 on: August 27, 2010, 12:43:42 AM »
I think it's adorable how many people came out to troll / hate on my post. Mad lulz. Gracias 

No trolling here dude, just opinions about your posts.

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« Reply #43 on: August 27, 2010, 10:37:22 AM »
I think the reality of any agency or website is that you are only going to be attracted to a small percentage of the members, and I am sure 10-15% of the members are the ones constantly sought out by men.  I think the question for you is can Jaime put enough women in front of you in three days that meet your criteria to justify paying the $1,400 or so he charges.    

Exactly. The fact of the matter is you can do better just going out (mall, nightlife, events, classes, etc) than you can spending big bucks with an agency.

Especially in this economy... if you see 5 women you want to meet with an agency offer them $75 bucks a meeting or something. If they want to force you into some package or make you stay at their over priced hotel... tell them to screw off.

We certainly get lots of brownie points for being gringos (in most cases), but as braziliangirl wrote... what are you bringing to the table? She brings up some interesting points. Are you stable financially? How do you rate in looks.

If you are fairly young (like say 30) and rate at least average in looks (height, weight proportionate, normal looking teeth, hair on your head, etc) you really don't need any agency assistance unless you want it.
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« Reply #44 on: August 27, 2010, 04:19:31 PM »
I think it's adorable how many people came out to troll / hate on my post. Mad lulz. Gracias 
Not hate.  Just think you are sabotaging your chance for success and in finding happiness with a good woman.  But, hey, you're young enough to try, fail, recover financially, and try again a half dozen times if you like.  So, why not?  Go for it.  Youth is for trying what you want to do.  If in 10 years you haven't found your prefect 10 inside and out, well, we'll cross that bridge if it comes.
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« Reply #45 on: August 27, 2010, 05:04:47 PM »
Hehe....Gimme a break!!  You guys are a bit anal over here! 

ok, Colombia!!!  Better??  ;D

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« Reply #46 on: August 27, 2010, 05:16:55 PM »

       The real reality is that there are many different types of relationships out there, including "pay for play" relationships.Not all good relationships are "ugly" or "painful".

       What's a failed or successful relationship anyway?I know couples who were married, raised children and then divorced that don't consider their marriage a failure.It's all about perspective IMO.

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Let me make my point clear,

I'm using "ugly" as a metaphor for "real", as in life with warts and wrinkles and all etc.  

The only perfection exists in the movies or in your mind's eye, Bo Derek in the movie 10, for example.  Reality is much more mundane and full of flaws, as we get older we realize there is no "10". (At least I have)

I just think the idea of looking for a 10 is flawed from the beginning.  To somehow realistically think that a way a person physically looks has meaning in a loving relationship and you can purchase that "package" for 20k, is at odds with the entire purpose of this forum (look at the PL Values page).  Relationships have to be developed, not bought, plain and simple.

Don't get me wrong, looking for a young, slim, gorgeous foreign woman to marry is realistic and there is nothing wrong with that, we all want the best for ourselves.  We deserve it!

But, I just wanted to refocus play2win on the other significant aspect of this entire endeavor- To Find A Loving Wife!

His statements made me shudder a bit because I heard an archaic "Mail Order Bride" undertone- I am spending 20k for a woman, a "10".

The distinction needs to be made:
1. Are you spending 20k for the just the woman?
2. Are you spending 20k for the search and expense to find, marry and develop a healthy long term relationship with the right woman who also happens to be a 10?

There is a difference.

If you are just searching for a Latina "10" (Number 1) with cash in hand, you really don't need the P-L forum, a place where we are focused on relationships.  You will just get posts from guys like me questioning  your logic.

As braziliangirl says, you can find what you are looking for all over Latina America, basically you want a MOB.

If your goal is Number 2, then P-L is more conducive to your search.

In either case, if you bring your search to our attention and post on P-L you will be sharing your story with men who are mature and are analyzing your posts with the goal of leading you (and others reading for guidance) down the path to a healthy relationship with a foreign bride (Number 2).

When members point out some flaws in your approach, this is not "trolling" or "hating" as you so eloquently put it.

You are in the company of men, not boys or mongers.  We are actually trying to show you another viewpoint and give you the benefit of our wealth of experience.

Whether you choose to take the advice is up to you.

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« Reply #47 on: August 27, 2010, 06:30:01 PM »
Nicely said, Zulu.

There's nothing wrong with wanting a 10, but as others have said, a 10 should be more than just looks.

I consider my Colombian wife to be a 10, and although to me she is very beautiful, I would not rate her a 10 in the looks department.  And you certainly wouldn't catch her wearing some of the outfits in some of those pictures, particularly on a dating web site. For her, that would be sending out the wrong kind of image and attracting the wrong kind of man.

What makes my wife a 10 is her heart and soul.  Inside she is incredibily affectionate, kind, calm, happy, thoughtful, hardworking, honest, and smart.  Much more than just arm candy. 

 
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« Reply #48 on: August 27, 2010, 06:34:16 PM »


   Well Zulu we agree on many points here but there are differences.

   There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting to be with what he considers to be a 10.That's all perception anyway.I have pretty much always been with women that would be considered "out of my league" in the looks department because I know that there is more to a relationship than the superficial crap that society tells us we need to be happy.Reality isn't all pain, ugliness and warts, unless that's what one chooses to see. IMO, the important thing in finding the right woman is to look beyond the superficial.

  I don't know how much experience braziliangirl has in Colombia.


   Also, I never said anything about "trolls" or "hating".


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« Reply #49 on: August 27, 2010, 07:49:56 PM »
Also, I never said anything about "trolls" or "hating".

I think we pretty much totally agree, we both want this young guy to succeed!

I think it's adorable how many people came out to troll / hate on my post. Mad lulz. Gracias 

Play2win made this eloquent statement about his fellow P-L posters.   :D

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