The rules

[CROW]

You want to marry a woman who's been with a couple of hundred guys? Fine, not for me. If a woman wants to be a slut, that's fine too, there will be plenty of guys to keep her company. However, I don't know too many guys who want to marry a slut.

One vote for marrying a virgin. jajajaja!!!
 A couple hundred guys seems a tad on the high side for a good looking woman in her early twenties and that is all I date here. I assume you are just exaggerating your position to make a point....but the best looking women are usually a little more picky on who they sleep with and I like them hot....I'm in my late 40's and I don't think I have slept with much more than 200 women...if any old thing would do I'd probably be well over 2000 by now. jajajaja.

Something tells me you are the oldest guy here....you should lighten up a little bit and get with the times...insulting women because they have had a dozen or so sex partners by the age of 25 is sexist and just down right hyporitical from where I'm standing.

First of all I don't know how you think you know how many a men a woman has slept with before marriage...I think there are a lot more important criteria to be judging her on.

[bcc_1_2]

          Sounds like fathertime is the Dr Phil of the board....hehehe


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lol notice the title wasn't Dr. Phil groped woman's waist. 

[fathertime]

          Sounds like fathertime is the Dr Phil of the board....hehehe


    Researcher

Figuratively speaking, I'd prefer to be 'dr phil' than one of his angry and sad mental patients!

Fathertime!

[fathertime]

lol notice the title wasn't Dr. Phil groped woman's waist. 

It doesn't matter, as it has already been shown that people's definitions of 'groping' can include grabbing of the waist, as in the case of Obama and his wife.  You can site dozens of cases and it won't change the fact that 'groping' can include many acts. Although using the term 'spade' in the manner you did really doesn't have any other meaning other than a derogatory term, even though you claim ignorance now.

Fathertime! 

[Researcher]

Figuratively speaking, I'd prefer to be 'dr phil' than one of his angry and sad mental patients!

Fathertime!

 

                     Too bad you remain one of his angry and sad mental patients. Maybe someday you will get what you wish for.


                      Researcher

[utopiacowboy]

One vote for marrying a virgin. jajajaja!!!
 A couple hundred guys seems a tad on the high side for a good looking woman in her early twenties and that is all I date here. I assume you are just exaggerating your position to make a point....but the best looking women are usually a little more picky on who they sleep with and I like them hot....I'm in my late 40's and I don't think I have slept with much more than 200 women...if any old thing would do I'd probably be well over 2000 by now. jajajaja.

Something tells me you are the oldest guy here....you should lighten up a little bit and get with the times...insulting women because they have had a dozen or so sex partners by the age of 25 is sexist and just down right hyporitical from where I'm standing.

First of all I don't know how you think you know how many a men a woman has slept with before marriage...I think there are a lot more important criteria to be judging her on.

My four sons have banged too many chicks to count - they call them cum dumpsters. They would not consider having any of them as a girlfriend. I doubt any of the guys on this board are looking for a cum dumpster for a wife. For something else, sure.

The basic psychology of a man is to spread his seed as far and wide as possible. So sluts will get laid no doubt about it. However a man does not want to raise another man's offspring so he wants to be sure his children are his own. A woman with a habit of spreading her legs for any attractive man is not a woman who will reliably bear only his offspring. So while a man will screw a slut, he doesn't want one for a mate with whom he must share child rearing duties.

[Knight11]

Ok guys i read this thread and rememered it when I  paid 25 dollars to join colombiacupid recently.

So i went on there and for ladies...colombian ladies 18-28 my range.

So i saw some REALLY pretty ones many from cali.

so i get excited and click her profile and i get down to  "KIDS:"

like 90+% of them have kids that live at home or somewhere else listed -- even 18-20 year olds..... some MULTIPLE kids... and are "soltera"

so uh well yea i remembered this conversation about how calenas are in bed instantly...and like groping... well there ya go... and that is what happens.... seriously of the pretty girls i found on there without buckteeth....

like 5% didnt have kids listed...but most hadnt been on in weeks or months...

YAY cali with 'free-spirited' women... but it wasnt JUST cali but cali was like the majority of them

typical look was:  black hair/eyes... short 5.0 - 5.3 height a few HUGE chested....

man so what disease will i get when if i go to cali...

As a ice breaker ill say in spanish "Hey know Father time, BCC, or some other guys i just mentioned etc etc"

She will say probably "SI I "met" them a few months ago"

from what i have seen here...im not overly happy about how women are there if its true what yall say.

[bcc_1_2]

My four sons have banged too many chicks to count - they call them cum dumpsters.  

Yep that's straight up how it is. My uncle has a daughter that is new to the dating scene. This honest account is the best advice I could share. Even put a few friends on speaker phone so he could hear about their friends with bennies.

One of the smartest things I've done is change my number so I still appear like a perfect angel to the wife  

[bcc_1_2]

from what i have seen here...im not overly happy about how women are there if its true what yall say.

This why you've got to get away from the personals and agencies and just go visit a city. Get away from the skewed stats and hype.

Set the standards you seek. No kids, in college or college educated, from a middle class family or above, some english, etc. Stick to it and think with your big head and you'll be fine.

Judging from the age range you list Manizales might make sense. According to wiki there are 6 colleges with 30,000 people attending.  

[Dave H]

Brazil just gave out 500,000 condoms for Carnaval
I suppose the whole country are just "sluts" , or possibly it is maybe , oh I don't know, THE CULTURE 

KB

Hey KB,

One can only hope so! 

Dave

[Kiltboy1]

Hey KB,

One can only hope so!  

Dave

JEJE DAVE,
We can only hope and UT, love the wording your boys use. jaja

KB

[CROW]

My four sons have banged too many chicks to count - they call them cum dumpsters. They would not consider having any of them as a girlfriend. I doubt any of the guys on this board are looking for a cum dumpster for a wife. For something else, sure.

The basic psychology of a man is to spread his seed as far and wide as possible. So sluts will get laid no doubt about it. However a man does not want to raise another man's offspring so he wants to be sure his children are his own. A woman with a habit of spreading her legs for any attractive man is not a woman who will reliably bear only his offspring. So while a man will screw a slut, he doesn't want one for a mate with whom he must share child rearing duties.

You must be a crazy persona to bring up you sons that way. Now maybe if you were teaching them to wait until marriage to have sex or some other nonsense I could better understand your point of view. I really hope they do not grow up thinking like you....sad very sad.

[bcc_1_2]

You must be a crazy persona to bring up you sons that way. Now maybe if you were teaching them to wait until marriage to have sex or some other nonsense I could better understand your point of view. I really hope they do not grow up thinking like you....sad very sad.

Yes if only UC could teach his sons to defy biology. I'd just give him props if he's taught them to practice safe sex. The only thing sad here is that you clearly don't understand how common "friends with benefits" is with young people. Hard to believe anyone on this message board isn't in touch with today's youth. Frankily, I'm shocked.

[Knight11]

How is being a decent man defying biology?

I know many guys who arent whoring around constantly...

There is difference between actively trying to use women and not.

Im actually quite disappointed lately... this board seems to be teaching the new people  how to abuse and use women not how to find a wife or long term partner ...

[bcc_1_2]

How is being a decent man defying biology?

See the question is just faulty because you are asking why teens and young guys don't act like you.

I'm not going to give any big science lesson today, but men leaving women a couple years after procreating is very much a part of nature. It is simply a matter of understanding human behavior. What you judge today is the reason you are here right now. Men did a great job populating the earth... which is the biological urge.

[utopiacowboy]

You must be a crazy persona to bring up you sons that way. Now maybe if you were teaching them to wait until marriage to have sex or some other nonsense I could better understand your point of view. I really hope they do not grow up thinking like you....sad very sad.

You're the guy who just admitted he's banged 200 women. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. You and they have a lot in common. Actually I wish they DID think like me, that these kinds of trashy women are not worth spending your time (or your seed) on.

[Dave H]

Actually I wish they DID think like me, that these kinds of trashy women are not worth spending your time (or your seed) on.

Hey UC,

Same here! My older boy finally settled down!

Dave (Ivor Biggun)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkqfa-kaRFM&feature=related

[CROW]

You're the guy who just admitted he's banged 200 women. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. You and they have a lot in common. Actually I wish they DID think like me, that these kinds of trashy women are not worth spending your time (or your seed) on.

I don't understand how having sex with 200 women in a thirty year time frame has anything to do with you thinking of women as sluts and trashy. And it certainly doesn't have anything to do with our sons callling the women they sleep with cum dumpsters. That is pitiful and sad that they think of women ONLY as sex toys to throw away....why else woud they degrade them in this way.

I do not think of women like that....I am not sexist nor am I a hypocrite.

I like women that I sleep with and appreciate their company.

[CROW]

Yes if only UC could teach his sons to defy biology. I'd just give him props if he's taught them to practice safe sex. The only thing sad here is that you clearly don't understand how common "friends with benefits" is with young people. Hard to believe anyone on this message board isn't in touch with today's youth. Frankily, I'm shocked.

You misunderstand me again...I don't think young men should abstain from having sex... I just don't think UT should bring up his boys to think of women in a sexist degrading fashion.

I mean do the majority of guys here feel that a women who has as much sex as you do that she is some how a thrashy slut who is nothing more than a cum dumpster?

[bcc_1_2]

I don't understand how having sex with 200 women in a thirty year time frame

  I rest my case.

[Bob_S]

How is being a decent man defying biology?

Because biology is not decent.  Biology is red in tooth and claw.  Being decent is an act of free will choice, a choice to rise above bloody nature.  That being said...

but men leaving women a couple years after procreating is very much a part of nature. It is simply a matter of understanding human behavior.

Not necessarily.  It may be a male urge, but that is not how it worked out in nature.  Archeological evidence suggests that hominids have been pair-bonding as long as 4 million years ago.  Unlike other mammals, our primate ancestors evolved in such a way (or God engineered it in such a way, however you want to look at it) that females display sexual availability year round rather than just in season, thus keeping the males engaged and supportive all the time.  Your hairy ape forebears wouldn't abandon a female after a few years if she was still allowing him sexual privileges.  You stick around, bringing gifts of food, maybe invent a spear or atlatl to make you a better provider. 
Females are the gate keepers, and by being both available and selective, they forced the evolution of the species as a whole.

And it certainly doesn't have anything to do with our sons calling the women they sleep with cum dumpsters. That is pitiful and sad that they think of women ONLY as sex toys to throw away....why else would they degrade them in this way.

Why not?  If a person behaves respectable, you treat them with respect.  If they don't, you don't.  Why should they show these girls the slightest bit of respect if the girls don't show the least bit of good sense Gawd gave our monkey ancestors who had brains the size of mango seeds?  It doesn't mean they are going to treat all women this way in the future, just these women.

[CROW]

Why not?  If a person behaves respectable, you treat them with respect.  If they don't, you don't.  Why should they show these girls the slightest bit of respect if the girls don't show the least bit of good sense Gawd gave our monkey ancestors who had brains the size of mango seeds?  It doesn't mean they are going to treat all women this way in the future, just these women.

Good God!!! What are we talking about here.....what have THESE women done to you?

[fathertime]

I rest my case.

You have no case.

Taking a sentence fragment of Crow's and quoting it ONLY is a dishonest tactic, similar to what 'researcher' did when he just made up a quote and and put into the quotebox  under another poster's name. 
 
Crow's point to has not been refuted by anything you or he has said to this point.

Fathertime!

[bcc_1_2]

It may be a male urge, but that is not how it worked out in nature.  [

I did over generalize for the sake of keeping it simple. But when men leave women.. cheat. etc and everyone acts so damn surprised... it is in our nature. And ingoring the morality of it... it explains our survival as a species.

You may not have called one of the two hundred women a cum dumpster, but I bet if you called them all up and asked some might have felt used. Which is why critizing UC's kids made no sense.

[Researcher]

You have no case.

Taking a sentence fragment of Crow's and quoting it ONLY is a dishonest tactic, similar to what 'researcher' did when he just made up a quote and and put into the quotebox  under another poster's name. 
 
Crow's point to has not been refuted by anything you or he has said to this point.

Fathertime!

  Listen to the groping gasbag! now who is offtopic?

  Why do you build me up buttercup!!hehehehe


  Researcher