Filipinas & Sex

[Ray]

Good advice Bob! 

[sbcheflino]

Hello Gentlemen,

     I think that he wants to find a virgin or some sort of reassurance that virgins exist,,but he is talking around the straight forward question.  I think he should have just asked are most girls in the Philippines virgins.  I talk with a lot of men,  that talk around the straight forward question of "How can I find a Virgin Wife in the Philippines"...... So I humbly post my opinion....go to Pattaya..Thailand if you want a backwards ..non-virgin....Phil girls in my eyes are some of the best around....

Hope all is well to the old timers here...

[Bear]

Really sad on so many levels. 

An American youth who is ignorant of others beliefs and expectations (where have we heard that before?); judging and belittling those differences as if he is an expert on what the world should be like. 

Dude, the road your on is gonna hurt a lot of people and you might not survive it.  Your ignorance is would overflow the Grand Canyon.  This road is not for you!

The Bear Family

[william3rd]

Hey- dont send all these bozos off to thailand!!!!! THere are plenty of strumpets in the PI for him to work through. If you want a ho with a spanish accent, stay in the PI bars. If you want the asian accent, then come to thailand. . .  .

[piglett]

Hey- dont send all these bozos off to thailand!!!!! THere are plenty of strumpets in the PI for him to work through. If you want a ho with a spanish accent, stay in the PI bars. If you want the asian accent, then come to thailand. . .  .

Really sad on so many levels. 

An American youth who is ignorant of others beliefs and expectations (where have we heard that before?); judging and belittling those differences as if he is an expert on what the world should be like. 

Dude, the road your on is gonna hurt a lot of people and you might not survive it.  Your ignorance is would overflow the Grand Canyon.  This road is not for you!

The Bear Family

well said guys

[Dave H]

If you want a ho with a spanish accent, stay in the PI bars. 

Hey William,

Much cheaper and easier, just go to Latin America! 

Dave

[Ray]

If you want a ho with a spanish accent, stay in the PI Tijuana bars.

 

[Bob_S]

I think that he wants to find a virgin or some sort of reassurance that virgins exist,,but he is talking around the straight forward question.

I dunno.  He seemed to specifically state that he was looking to take the girl for a test drive prior to marriage meaning he definitely does not plan to marry a virgin.
This guy was just putting out some odd vibes that are at once both familiar and somewhat sinister.
First off is his name, themaster.  Well, The Master just happens to be the arch-nemesis of Dr. Who.  Coincidence, maybe.  But if not, the fact that he would use that as his nom de plume says a lot about him. ¹
Second is his insistence on a girl who was "open" to modern ideas about sex.  Come on.  What fetish is he into that hasn't already been around for thousands of years?  And written about by French authors hundreds of years ago? ²
Thirdly, has ZERO experience with women yet insists on being dominant in some avant garde sexual relationship?  And is willing to marry as the only way to import a girl who will yield to his sexual appetites?  What is it about him that makes him so repulsive to the local fetish scene?  Or has his online hentai porn set such impossibly high standards of looks, there's no way he can attract the hot sluts he really desires?
Finally, why a Fillipina?  Well, we all know that some agency web sites advertise the stereotype that Asian women are submissive, compliant, and obedient, a complete misread of the actual culture as those of us married to Asian women can attest.  Plus, unscrupulous agencies will imply that women from certain countries are so desperate to escape the poverty of their mud hut villages, the peasant girls will yield to your every demand. ³
All of that paints a very dark picture of someone I'd prefer stay the hell away from Asia.  He clearly doesn't match it anyway.  I doubt he'd do well in Latin America either, firstly because I don't want to curse our brothers on the Latin Board with his presence, and secondly I think most Latinas prefer someone more manly than a guy who spends his time in his mom's basement wanking off to Albedo Anthropomorphics fan-made porn.⁴  Sending him off to an evening with the ladies at The Hungry Duck or Nightflight in Moscow would be a valuable learning and growing experience.  Who knows? He may decide to stay and find a happy niche as a staff writer for The eXile (become the envy of his World of Warcraft friends).


1. The fact that I would also know about this bit of geek culture says a lot about me, too. But let's gloss over that fact, shall we?
2. I'm guessing he's a furry.  That's pretty new.
3. Anyone who believes that agency hype crapola deserves all the suffering they will bring down on themselves.
4. Don't ask.

[jm21-2]

Yes, guys who believe in sex before marriage have got to be furries. 

I'm amazed at how this guy got lambasted. Yes, if it was some university student doing "research" (which is still entirely possible) I'd agree with it. But wanting a 'test drive' before putting a ring on it is not anything new or uncommon. Just surprised at the amount of flak this guy has gotten when a 40-50yo guy wanting a barely legal virgin would almost undoubtedly get two thumbs up and good wishes. I am much more worried about reputation damage from the middle-aged divorcee who's paranoid about women lying/cheating and so he's seeking a moldable teenage virgin.

[robert angel]

I bet this person is a real young boy/man, very inexperienced but obviously fascinated by things he probably hasn't begun to explore in real life.

I remember how decades ago (pre AIDS) going to a brothel in Mexico with a couple buddies. We dared each other and 'liquid courage' helped our false bravado. Once there, the women were very aggressive pulling my shirt up and such. I about crapped my pants and ran for the safety of the taxi cab!

Probably the best thing this kid could encounter is an understanding older woman who can help him sort his feelings and libido out in some sort of way. I think if he got what he thinks he really wants, it would make for a hilarious hollywood movie script--totally not working out.

Based on what I've read I,  certainly wouldn't make any referrals to family members or friends with this guy. But as has been stated, maybe we should lighten up and consider the source. I'm certainly not purer than the proverbial driven snow myself, I just don't publicize my eccentricties. Well, back to my stack of vintage old "True Confession" magazines.....

[Ray]

I'm amazed at how this guy got lambasted.

Oh, come on jm, you're breaking my freaking heart!

If you want this arrogant guy to be your "master", then go for it. He surely ain't my "master"...LOL!

I gave the guy an opportunity to introduce himself properly, but since he chose not to, then I really couldn't care less.

I think Bob S pretty much nailed it with "themaster"... 

Ray

[jm21-2]

I'm not saying he's an angel and if you'll look back I was one of the first to suggest girls of questionable virtue to him. Just surprised at how hard you guys came down on him compared with other guys/situations. His outlook and desires are pretty damn understandable and normal for a young guy. Obviously the outlooks and attitudes of young inexperienced guys are not always to be applauded, myself included, but bashing isn't the answer imho. Chances are that if he's not a fake prop for research that he's an OK guy who really needs to work on the wording of his posts.

[piglett]

Maybe he would be happy with a ladyboy

[william3rd]

I'm not saying he's an angel and if you'll look back I was one of the first to suggest girls of questionable virtue to him. Just surprised at how hard you guys came down on him compared with other guys/situations. His outlook and desires are pretty damn understandable and normal for a young guy. Obviously the outlooks and attitudes of young inexperienced guys are not always to be applauded, myself included, but bashing isn't the answer imho. Chances are that if he's not a fake prop for research that he's an OK guy who really needs to work on the wording of his posts.

You should spend more time in the archives. He has been handled with kid gloves. Idiocy has to be identified and labled as such. Trying to rationalize the ramblings of a moron does little to further the process. . . . . . .

[Ray]

     

[Bob_S]

Yes, guys who believe in sex before marriage have got to be furries. 

Sex outside of marriage is hardly "modern" and definitely not uniquely "western".  So if he's sayin' he wants a girl who's "open" to modern western ideas about sex, I gotta wonder what we got that they don't already have elsewhere.  Go into any Far East city and you'll be able to set up a harem of yellow-taxi groupies.  Some places easier than others.  So getting your groove on is not that hard or much of a big deal.  I'm thinkin' he's got some kind of fetish that just hasn't caught on abroad yet.

Unless Robert is right and this guy really is a very young dude with almost no experience with life outside of raging hormones and a libido eager to bust loose.  In which case, he's showing some wisdom in giving western women a pass at an early age.  If he's just some sophomoric teenager living at home in a strict religious family where fornication is strongly frowned upon, then I can understand his regarding any sex without a wedding ring as open and modern when compared to his limited insular experience.  In any event, he still needs to grow up and learn some manners.  One of those fundamental rules of life: don't bite the hand that feeds you, that includes don't insult the people whose advice you seek.

[sbcheflino]

Hey- dont send all these bozos off to thailand!!!!! THere are plenty of strumpets in the PI for him to work through. If you want a ho with a spanish accent, stay in the PI bars. If you want the asian accent, then come to thailand. . .  .

Yes..I am sorry ..you are quite correct....He should just stay here in the good ole' USA ..if he wants backward sluts that cant think straight...

I wonder if that concept would work on-line....Hmm    A company that offers backward ho's, that can't think straight:D

If these guys can't find them here ..I bet I can charge them an arm and a leg...then set them up with my neighbor...easy money..no IMBRA..wow!   LMAO...

Good Day Gents...

[jm21-2]

So now every girl who has sex before marriage is a backwards slut who can't think straight? I think there are far more guys on this board (including the latin board) whose wives had sex at some point before marriage. Now we've gone to insulting all their wives?

[piglett]

So now every girl who has sex before marriage is a backwards slut who can't think straight? I think there are far more guys on this board (including the latin board) whose wives had sex at some point before marriage. Now we've gone to insulting all their wives?

oh boy here we go

ready the life boats!
every man for himself
this could get ugly

piglett

piglett

[Dave H]

I think there are far more guys on this board (including the latin board) whose wives had sex at some point before marriage.

Including the Latin Board would make it a clear majority!  However I married a Latina virgin once and dated a few with very competent chaperons! 

With Filipinas, there might me more guys who married virgins. I suspect it would be rather close with Asians overall. 

On the bright side, Filipinas are very fast learners! 

Dave

[Bob_S]

So now every girl who has sex before marriage is a backwards slut who can't think straight? I think there are far more guys on this board (including the latin board) whose wives had sex at some point before marriage.

Now now, Jay-Em. Putting words in people's mouths and getting offended by those words?  That sounds like a lawyer tactic.    We know that a girl making with the sexy time before marriage does not automatically make her a slut.  (I hope nobody is fool enough to go around insulting their own momma's like that.)  But if she's giving test drives to any and every Joe Shmoe who flies in to visit, that is the very definition of a slut.  It's all about her discernment and ease of availability.  Hopefully our wives have shown good discernment in selecting us, or so we'll fool ourselves into thinking.  Just understand what sbchef is sayin'.  If easy girls are what you're after (would you agree with the premise that a girl who is easy is also therefore unwise?), and that is your only or main criterion, you shouldn't have to leave the country. 
Now go have a great Turkey Day! 

[sbcheflino]

So now every girl who has sex before marriage is a backwards slut who can't think straight? I think there are far more guys on this board (including the latin board) whose wives had sex at some point before marriage. Now we've gone to insulting all their wives?

No, JM......I was just responding to what I read in the posts and trying to make light of it..I think he may be confused on what he actually wants and is really just trying to find his right path...I was just making a joke that if he is really looking for a backwards slut..he needs to go no further than his own backyard...and if he was really in need of one..I could introduce him to a plethora of girls here...In no way, do I think that a women is backwards for having sex before marriage..there are a lot of scenarios that may have taken place...with the final point of men being to blame....or youth ...etc...

It is easy to take his post in the wrong way because I think he is confused on his wants and needs in the first place...
I do feel as well that he was looking for advice from this forum and ...kinda got bashed because his posts were not read and thought about....as well as misleading...(his confusion and inexperience)

I feel he was looking for help...and looked here for some sort of guidance...sure usually you would think he could have shown more respect ...but he doesn't understand the value of "The old timers" here...and as I read his posts it is obvious that he needs the guidance...I would imagine he might have been misused by an American Women  at one time...lonely..sick of American women and just trying to find someone..somewhere to give him the right advice....he was searching,,,but came off the wrong way ..whether in desperation ...or whatever?

Some of his posts were insulting...and funny, if you knew what you were reading.....but maybe he is a good guy looking for help....I know I was very in much of need at 1 point and asked the most ridiculous questions available....

In no doubt..he must earn his lumps..because the "Old Timers" here have a wealth of knowledge and if you rub them the wrong way...it is certainly..  a challenge to get advice..I feel as well at times that when I see a Phil girl hooked up with a "[snip]ing"  absolute loser because she had no other way out...I get pissed off and say to myself WTF...these girls are better than that...and I think that is where the feelings come in from the men on this forum...That the guys on this forum really don't want to see an [snip] wind up with a great girl only because she had the need to "get out of poverty"....we all would much rather see them happy with nice gentlemen like ourselves......

and it does turn my stomach to see these wonderful foreign women wind up with complete scumbags just because this [snip] has  little coin in his pocket,,,they desreve better than that....

In My Humble Opinion...All respect to the "Old Timers" here...Have a Happy Thanksgiving...

Scott

[goldenfavre]

Sorry to hijack the thread, but I had a question related to the topic.  I had a question about the physical that needs to be passed to get the visa to come to the United States.  I know the std's gonorrhea and chlamydia are very common in the Philippines.  Does it disqualify the girl to come to the United States if she were to have one of these STD's in her medical records? 

[william3rd]

no- not by the embassy, although the presence of an STD might cool your desire to get her a visa- unless you gave it to her in which case she probably wont want to come to see you without a sure shot at a green card.

Seriously, certain STDS are checked for at the medical exam and a treatment plan must be followed and completed before a visa may be issued.

[Dave H]

I know the std's gonorrhea and chlamydia are very common in the Philippines. 

Hey goldenfavre,

Where did you learn that?  Not with the Filipinas that I know!!! If you find one of those girls...RUN AWAY FAST !!!...and see a doctor! There are millions upon millions without STD's! Why settle for one of the few sluts!

Dave