attention single men looking for a good woman

[Heruamen]

  In Cagayan De Oro I have met several women who have asked me do I know any other men who are looking for wives.  I dont know any personally since all my friends are married but I thought about this site.  I met a really sweet lady named Everly  and we spent some time with her so I really got a chance to know her personality.  She is 42 years old but looks and has the spirit of a much younger woman.  She is attractive with a nice figure.  Most of all she has a great sense of humor and a nice sweet disposition.  She is looking for a man between the ages of 45-60 years old. My fiance and I took pictures with her and today we may go to a little birthday get together for her.  Any one interested please let me know and i will get you her yahoo messenger, her email, or whatever you need.  SHe told me that in her online experience she met a lot of guys who were interested in sex so she told me she wants to meet someone who is serious about a relationship.  I told her that as far as I know the guys on planet love all seem to be interested in meeting that special lady.

[sean126]

Cute girl.  You're right...she doesn't look her age.  I would have guessed late 20's...maybe real early thirties at the most.

[piglett]

Ya she isn't too hard on the eyes at all
she mite just be a keeper for some lucky guy

[thekfc]

wow, she looks much younger than her age & very attractive too.

       I am not in her age bracket nor is she in the age group that I am looking for.........otherwise.   

I am that she would make a wonderful wife to a lucky guy. There is a guy out there somewhere who will be very, very happy.

[Heruamen]

   Just some more pic of this filipina jewel

[Dave H]

Hey Heruamen,

A personal introduction is a great way to meet a fantastic lady! She looks like a real good catch! I wish I knew some single guys.

Your house looks very nice! We were looking at houses for sale there. CDO is a great city! We may eventually move there.

Keep your trip report and photos coming...I am loving every minute of it!


Dave

[Bear]

If more guys would see what was available away from the chat rooms and/or the American dating scenes she wouldn't have made it to 42 as a single.  I know others just like her and in the past I have tried really hard to play match maker.  Not one has worked because most guys here really aren't serious about looking.

The Bear Family

[Heruamen]

   hmmmm elaborate more on that bear  because I was under the impression that most guys here were seriously looking or already married.  I figured someone who was not serious would not bother to come on the forum seeking information about this whole process.  Dave you should try xavier estates they have got great houses and its a nice quiet community and very well guarded.  Security is very good here.

[stevjulietb]

I think he was using here as in the USA.  I have a friend in his late 30's that I have tried to get him to take a trip with us to the PI.  He always find an excuse...I think most just don't believe how easy it is?

Steveb

[Bear]

You live in a different place than me because every single guy I have worked with in 9 years is either still single or single again.  The do not see how easy, worthwilde, realistic, having value different from the norm it is.  Most just don't what to rock the boat or think out of the box.  They have been deballed by the liberal controlled media and schools to thinking it isn't something a "good" man would do and everyone who is doing it is in someway evil.  When I talk about it (read BRAG!!!) the guys/gals/family members look at me like I'm crazy or accuse me of being some kind of controlling jerk with a sex slave.  But none will not admit I have an awesome marriage and that my wife and I, and our children, are very happy.  To which I say how can you say I have a great marriage and then respond with "its all about sex"?  Or when they see how my wife and I treat each other they comment on what a good relationship we have.  I guess they just think its an accident and couldn't happen for them so they continue to endure all kinds of emotional duress and multiple divorces.  Can't see the forest because of the trees. 

I remember one blond I worked with just before I got married to Honey.  She tried to tell me I was wasting my time and I could easily find a good wife here, then turn around and brag about her 4th marriage - which was of course, a few months before they divorced.  Americans are not taught to value marriage/family nor to honor covenants and commitments.  Here its all about the "me" generation.  But to try to find something different from the norm is just unthinkable.

The Bear Family

[Heruamen]

   Bear I had a similar experience to your blond. I had a young black woman tell me I was wasting my time looking for a foreign bride.  She was single and 9 months pregnant about to have a baby any day.  After she finished lecturing me, I asked her where the father of the baby was  and was he in her life.  She said no and commenced to going into a negative tirade about him. I smiled to myself comfortable in the fact that i knew I had made the right decision to seek someone from a culture who values marriage and commitment.

[Dave H]

My best friend is 52, never married, Venezuelan, and keeps going from Latina to Latina (various countries). I figure by the time he is 70, I will have finally convinced him to the Philippines for a visit. 

Dave

[piglett]

My best friend is 52, never married, Venezuelan, and keeps going from Latina to Latina (various countries). I figure by the time he is 70, I will have finally convinced him to the Philippines for a visit. 

Dave

HE HE HE
Dave the other thing is that your friend may not be rite for most Latina ladies.
He mite be a lot like me I will NOT put up with a bunch of sh*t from an AW so i have never married.
Hell i have never even met a single AW that i really thought of as serious wife material.
I have always thought that for every problem there is a solution.
For me it looks like the PI. provides plenty of potential solutions to my lack of a good wife problem



piglett   

[Cbear]

I have a recently divorced friend who insists on dating loser women near his age.

Chick number 1. Works at the gym and is good looking and fit. However she is a heavy pot smoker, a real heavy pot smoker. Also likes to party. She actually got drunk on a date with my buddy when they went to a bar and she forgot she was with him and went home with her friends. LOL

Chick number 2. Cute but a bit overweight, has 2 kids. During the very first date she asked if she could move in with him. Nuff said, what a mooch.

Chick number 3. Has 3 kids and can't get over her ex, talks about him constantly. She is attractive but man what baggage.

Chick number 4. This is the newest one and she is 10 years younger and is cute but starting to put on the pounds. He knew her mother from the diner he eats at everyday and he remembers all the bad things her mother had said about her in the past. (very wild girl) So he takes her out and is now using her for sex until he can find something better and he has the guts to brag about her even though he says she is definitely not a keeper. WTH ?? She has a kid also but doesn't have custody. A real winner here fellows.

He has the balls to berate me because I travel 10,000 miles to see a nice, traditional lady that doesn't come with all these extra hang-ups and additional baggage.

My gf has offered to introduce him to her super cute cousin but he won't even think of it. I just don't get it.

[william3rd]

I have a recently divorced friend who insists on dating loser women near his age.

Chick number 1. Works at the gym and is good looking and fit. However she is a heavy pot smoker, a real heavy pot smoker. Also likes to party. She actually got drunk on a date with my buddy when they went to a bar and she forgot she was with him and went home with her friends. LOL

Chick number 2. Cute but a bit overweight, has 2 kids. During the very first date she asked if she could move in with him. Nuff said, what a mooch.

Chick number 3. Has 3 kids and can't get over her ex, talks about him constantly. She is attractive but man what baggage.

Chick number 4. This is the newest one and she is 10 years younger and is cute but starting to put on the pounds. He knew her mother from the diner he eats at everyday and he remembers all the bad things her mother had said about her in the past. (very wild girl) So he takes her out and is now using her for sex until he can find something better and he has the guts to brag about her even though he says she is definitely not a keeper. WTH ?? She has a kid also but doesn't have custody. A real winner here fellows.

He has the balls to berate me because I travel 10,000 miles to see a nice, traditional lady that doesn't come with all these extra hang-ups and additional baggage.

My gf has offered to introduce him to her super cute cousin but he won't even think of it. I just don't get it.

Get it? That is real easy. . .  Your friend is equally a loser. Dont introduce yet another ugly american to a decent woman. Leave him at home. He is dating what he feels at home with.

[Heruamen]

  My best friend is a great honorable stand up guy. Married to a banshee shrew.  This man is a pharmacist and he works long hours.  This witch does not have to work it totally supported by him, he does everything for her but she gives him hell constantly arguing about nothing and wont even sex him right even after 20 years.  I contacted a lot of girls at the same time i contacted my fiance.  Once i made the decision to be with her, there were still other girls contacting me back. One girl named Gege contacted me and she was very sweet and sincere, I felt bad for her that she hadn't found anyone.  She asked me if I had a friend like me.  I thought about it for a minute and my best friend came to mind.  I decided to introduce them.  I thought he would refuse because he is so honorable that I knew he wanted to end the situation with his wife first. However I managed to talk him into chatting with her.  And now they are a couple going strong and he will visit her soon in a couple of months in Dumagate.  His shrew American wife is on her way out the door and she is hanging on only because of the money

[bcc_1_2]

^^^ I am a believer that if you want to ditch that american wife (no matter how evil she is) that before you start traveling overseas and meeting women you ought to at least be seperated and on the path to divorce. Once you live apart and have done your part to kill all hope of continuing a relationship that clearly doesn't work for you... then have it.

Myself, I've decided not to play matchmaker. If she wants to do it ok, but I'd rather no introduce my friend to her friend... and then if it goes bad I somehow get blamed by either of them.

I'm more than willing to tell guys to check out Honduras, Colombia, Asia (or whatever).. I'll even give them a few pointers... but they are the ones that gotta do it.

[Ray]

Uh, does this young lady in Dumaguete know that he is still in a marriage? Does her family know about this?

I sure hope your friend isn’t just playing games and leading her on.

I don’t know. I don’t like the sound of the whole thing…

[william3rd]

I agree with you, Ray. And if this "honorable" fella isnt being candid from the start, then the ugly american strikes again.

When I was communicating with my wife and informed her that my divorce wasnt final-at least it was filed and I wasnt living with my soon to be ex (if you are still in residence with the ex, then any other tale of woe or bad treatment  is just total BS), it took her a couple of days of reflection to decide if she wanted to continue the discussions with me.

[Dave H]

HE HE HE
Dave the other thing is that your friend may not be rite for most Latina ladies.

piglett  

Well Piglett,

You are right about that! Once they find out that the new Mercedes is his mothers and that he only owns a 2008 Nissan Altima, the mansion is his parents, he owns a two bedroom townhouse...it is pretty much over!  But the expensive wardrobe is all his.
He is Venezuelan so he has no problems with language or dancing issues! 

Dave

[Heruamen]

     I actually informed the young lady myself of my friends situation then I let her decide whether she still wanted to meet him.  Then I sent her a picture of him.  My friend was the one who said that he would not try to start another situation with a new woman before he divorced his wife.  I talked him into it.   And he will be divorced before he ever make an attempt to go see her in person.   He is very serious, and very much into this one woman.   I once suggested that he should get to know several women before getting serious with her.  He even had an opportunity to meet my girls two cousins one 21 and the other 33 and both beautiful.  He refused and said he just wanted to focus on one girl.

[Ray]

 ...he will be divorced before he ever make an attempt to go see her in person.

So the divorce petition has been filed and will be final in a couple of months? OK, that sounds a little better.

From your original post it sounded like some guy playing fantasy games while still in a marriage.

Ray

[Heruamen]

  no he not playing games besides I am the one who actually talked him into it because I felt like it was the medicine his tired soul needed and i was right.

[Cbear]

You are having too much fun over there. Don't you know there is a miserable lib girl here just waiting for you to come back and kiss her tooshy. Now stop having fun and being happy and get back here right now so you can assume your role at the feet of the AW.

My divorce wasn't final when I met my GF. I did not lie to her about anything, I was up front about all of it. She understood completely. The ex tried so hard to drag it out especially after she hacked my email account and found out I had a GF. Even though the ex is the one who left me. LOL

[Heruamen]

     dude after my experience here in the phils I dont waste the brain cells to even think about American women anymore.  Little sad though that this post has 376 views and not one person interested in my friend .  I guess its the age thing.  Perhaps no one is looking for a 43 year old.  Perhaps because most guys searching want kids from their potential wives.

  Here is a picture of my fiancees cousin who is 20 and also looking for someone special. if anyone is interested let me know.