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Offline wildlands1

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third Times A Charm?
« on: June 28, 2009, 10:31:36 AM »
guys, i'm in the process of trying to get a K-1 for my fiance from Nepal. my problem is that she's related to my last TWO x-wives! they're all from the same family! (no kids from any of them) i met none of them thru an agency, i just happen to know all their family from years of going there climbing/trekking. my first nepali wife and i lasted 11 years, then she met a Nepali young cute guy and i met her cousin and we had a agreeable split. then the cousin and i lasted 8 years until last year when she abruptly walked out and moved in with her affair/BF here in usa. my fiance and i have known each other since she was a kid, ive actually been paying for her to go to private english school for 15 years. now shes 21, in college, and when my x walked out she was very supportive/helpful and we fell in love and decided to marry. obviously i've met her many times there, and spent x-mas with her and her family there. i hired an fiance visa attorney firm last year since i was scared about how wierd it looks to INS. our application is awaiting approval, then i'll go over for our interview. i'm actually going next week for a month to be with her also. all our paper work is in order and ive printed copies of our almost daily emails and webcam conversations to prove to embassy interviewer that our relationship is "bona-fide" and that its not just to get her into usa. my 2 x's actually live in other places in usa not near where we will live.
   we are REALLY scared we'll get denied since shes related to my last two wifes. the law firm said they'd seen a guy marry two from same family but not three. and i know theres guys who have married more than three girls from same country, just not all from same family. its not like this is a fake relationship. we really are totally in love and its not our fault shes from same family as the other two. what do you guys think our chances are? and if denied we can appeal, rite? what does that involve and can it improve our chances. and yes, our age difference is great, like 30 years, but hey, true love knows no ages! HELP? and be nice. you guys get pretty mean sometimes i recall from years ago on here.

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #1 on: June 28, 2009, 10:59:01 AM »
Is this a spoof? Is today the first of April? If not, well, I don't think they actually ask if your ex's and intended are related. Seems to me, though, you ought to write that family off (or better yet, write a song about it).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0s5Kn9QXtU

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Or Three Strikes & You're Out?
« Reply #2 on: June 28, 2009, 02:26:01 PM »

Question: Why no children after 19 years of marriage to two ladies? Perhaps that's the problem?


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Or Three Strikes & You're Out?
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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #3 on: June 28, 2009, 03:07:48 PM »
Your sound like my father ....

My father had a girlfriend, Rachel for 2 years but married to HER sister, Ruth for a year.  He fancied Louise - their youngest sister.   He missed out one thing .. he did not go out with their brother!! lol


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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #4 on: June 28, 2009, 11:02:24 PM »
see, i told ya'll, you all get so snippy on here! no, its not a spoof, and what can i say, there family has gorgeous and nice girls! somebody give me a good answer! how do i post pix of them? and the embassy will know cuz over there they all have the same last (caste) name and it shows in the papers. im surprised someone doesnt start a Nepali girls marriage site cuz some are smokin hot, and itching to get outa there.

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #5 on: June 28, 2009, 11:14:27 PM »
Hi wildlands1,

Welcome to P-L! The age difference isn't even my main concern..."some are smokin hot, and itching to get outa there." There lies the problem! Find one who would prefer to live with you in Nepal..and perhaps not on FIRE!

Your lawyer can better adress your concerns on legal matters.

Good luck!

"snippy" Dave
« Last Edit: June 28, 2009, 11:19:06 PM by Dave H »
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TROLL ALERT!
« Reply #6 on: June 29, 2009, 04:51:00 AM »

This dude ia a TROLL.

He drifted through here a couple of years ago under the handle "vipstripper", bragging about his wife stripping in a club. He swore that she would never leave him. Check the Flame Room.

So your hot stripper wife half your age walked out on you and now your retirement ticket has vanished... LOL!

Yeah, bring in another hot young stripper so you can get that retirement home in the Rockies...or was it Colombia?




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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #7 on: June 29, 2009, 05:30:12 AM »
Does this mean "the Walker" hero of Irag will troll back in?  Is it time?

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #8 on: June 29, 2009, 05:34:51 AM »
see, i told ya'll, you all get so snippy on here! no, its not a spoof, and what can i say, there family has gorgeous and nice girls! somebody give me a good answer! how do i post pix of them? and the embassy will know cuz over there they all have the same last (caste) name and it shows in the papers. im surprised someone doesnt start a Nepali girls marriage site cuz some are smokin hot, and itching to get outa there.

So why dont you start one? You got the experience. . . . . I mean, you are real, right?!?!?!?
Wild Bill Livingston, Esq.

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Re: TROLL ALERT!
« Reply #9 on: June 29, 2009, 05:55:27 AM »
This dude ia a TROLL.

Yeah, bring in another hot young stripper so you can get that retirement home in the Rockies...or was it Colombia?





Hey Ray,

I think that "Dude look like a lady!"  ;D

He could always go to Colombia and become a millionare.  ;D http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8XLgBJd67C0&feature=related

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« Last Edit: June 29, 2009, 07:58:43 AM by Dave H »
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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #10 on: June 29, 2009, 06:31:22 AM »
ilovelatins.com has one of the shi**est website I have ever looked at!!  I do not even know where to look at ..lol


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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #11 on: June 29, 2009, 06:51:42 AM »
Gato, ;)


TALK ABOUT CHEESY!!! :D :D :D
If a person doesn't know what he/she wants, he/she generally doesn't want what they got.

Sometimes we substitute the physical connection, or even the occasional emotional connection, for the real relationship we want to be in.

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Re: TROLL ALERT!
« Reply #12 on: June 29, 2009, 08:26:54 AM »
This dude ia a TROLL.

He drifted through here a couple of years ago under the handle "vipstripper", bragging about his wife stripping in a club. He swore that she would never leave him. Check the Flame Room.


That's what I was thinking.

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #13 on: June 29, 2009, 01:15:04 PM »
Well, I couldn't say about what INS might say, but from an "old player's" point of view....

Fool me once...Shame on you
    Fool me twice....Shame on me
       Fool me a third time.....Then just call me a fool.

Players and Playette live in every part of the world.  They can even be related.

I would bet the third one will leave within 2 to 4 years. 

Any takers....

2 to 1 odds

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #14 on: June 29, 2009, 05:09:49 PM »
Fool me once...Shame on you
    Fool me twice....Shame on me
       Fool me a third time.....Then just call me a fool.

I always thought the last line was ...

.....Then it must be love.

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #15 on: July 02, 2009, 01:50:50 PM »
I would bet the third one will leave within 2 to 4 years. 

Any takers....

2 to 1 odds
I'd take the bet they'd last 2 years.  But then she'll get her permanent residency card.  I wouldn't bet a plug nickle after that.  Even if he's legit and not a troll, there's just too much evidence of bad history, either with him or the women of her family.
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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #16 on: July 02, 2009, 11:04:56 PM »
What is it called when someone does the same thing over & over but yet for some reason expects different results ??

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #17 on: July 03, 2009, 07:39:28 AM »
What is it called when someone does the same thing over & over but yet for some reason expects different results ??

Democrat?

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Re: third Times A Charm?
« Reply #18 on: July 03, 2009, 12:50:33 PM »
Democrat?

 ;D

I think GW bush & his pals are the nearest thing we have to a true democrat so what can we call most of the people in the democrat party?  
The problem is they are no longer fit the definition of what a democrat was say 40 or 50 years age. JFK was a democrat & Bush is more like him than the current Dem's are

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