10 ways to spot insincere agency women

[Calipro]

Blockbuster

Nobody is advocating getting married to someone just because they are good looking and great in bed but it's not a bad way to start a relationship even if it doesn't lead to a lifetime of marrital bliss.

I certainly prefer it over the approach some guys take which is spending months on internet chatting and telephone calls (to determine you are compatable on every level) just to find out that there is no physical attraction at all when you finally meet in person.

I don't know maybe it is just me but I'd rather spend my time in bed with a hot chick than chattting her up even if it turns out that marriage isn't in the cards. hehehe !!!

[blockbuster]

  I don't believe in internet chat either. At least not unless you plan to go somewhere within a couple weeks. Like you I am an in country type of guy. I've never used an agency or dating site.  I got my feet wet going to many latin countries with latin friends who showed me the ropes. Or have had friends set me up with family members to hook up with while I'm in their country. I would rather make an assessment on situations by knowing how the natives think rather than what I'm being told by agencies or delusional gringos. I am planning
to go to Prague with a good friend sometime next year. I hear the women are absolutely stunning.
 
   So far, yes like everyone here I'm partial to latinas. I'm having as much fun as I can. I'm not a prude.  Just haven't found anyone I want to be Mrs. BB. maybe I'm too picky I don't know. Maybe I've seen too many  FW/AM relationships go bad once he gets her here. 

  I do date latinas in the U.S. but I admit they're not as hot as the ones I can get in Colombia or many other latin countries so you're right about that. I guess it takes a lot of  stuff in order for guys to get them as hot over here as you can over there. I've seen guys do it but it's rare.

    I have a friend who gets a smorgasbord of foreign hotties  in the U.S. Some guys have all the luck! He thinks it's odd to go anywhere for hot girls when there are tons over here.  This is a guy who thinks spending  money on a woman other than a cup of coffee is stupid. For some reason those girls eat it up. But his looks get women and they get whipped for some reason. That's why I say anyone who'se going to base a relationship solely on looks or money is desperate . I sometimes wonder if beautiful FW over here are that much different from AW. I've explain to him the girls that are so easy for him to attain here are somehow not that easy for the "average" guy,but in Colombia it's heaven for us.

   

[rpcv]

I am planning to go to Prague with a good friend sometime next year. I hear the women are absolutely stunning.

Just what I thought too when I was there in 2002! Most women in Prague do speak a small amount of English, (less in Brno and smaller towns), and the metro system is also easy to navigate. I tried learning a few words of Czech but found the language is brutal to understand/speak. 

[JR33]

   
    Maybe I've seen too many  FW/AM relationships go bad once he gets her here. 

         

     
             Are you a divorce lawyer?    Just curious...

[jonno]

I'm curious too.

[blockbuster]

 Not a divorce lawyer. Just a seasoned traveler who has met plenty of guys married to foreign women way before websites like this were even thought of.

[jonno]

Wow! Can't imagine going to Colombia without a clue. Its like going up the Amazon without a paddle.

[blockbuster]

Jonno, though I always made sure to get my feet wet in a country by going with a native the first time( yes, I take full advantage of friendship) I'm not only talking about Colombian relationships,but men I've met all over who married foreign women.

   By the way, hope you are having a great Holiday. It seems you and your wife have resolved your differences and are working on the marriage. Congrats.

[JamesDonut]

LOL !!!

Just what "activities" are you talking about, sex before marriage? hehehe !!!

Some people have to get out to the dark ages.

Ironically, not having sex before marriage has it's advantages.  You mentioned Mormons having long marriages and they don't believe in sex before marriage do they?  It kind of makes you wonder if the two things are connected.  It also makes you wonder what is going right in Mormon marriages that maybe we could learn something from.   

First off, IMO having sex before marriage can cloud your judgment.  This is because you are thinking about the next time you are going to get banged instead of the real issues that you need to build a solid relationship on.  Sex in my mind is really great when you do it because you connect really well with a person on many different levels.  Any guy/girl couple can get together and have a "bang."  But how many people really know what it is to make "love?"

Other things that help Mormon marriages to name a few are: Similar Backgrounds, Values, Culture, Support Groups (at Church) and religious beliefs.

Anyways, CP why bring up Mormon chicks?  Have you run into Mormon Chicas in Colombia or something?

[P Daddy]

Ironically, not having sex before marriage has it's advantages.  You mentioned Mormons having long marriages and they don't believe in sex before marriage do they?  It kind of makes you wonder if the two things are connected.  It also makes you wonder what is going right in Mormon marriages that maybe we could learn something from.   

First off, IMO having sex before marriage can cloud your judgment.  This is because you are thinking about the next time you are going to get banged instead of the real issues that you need to build a solid relationship on.  Sex in my mind is really great when you do it because you connect really well with a person on many different levels.  Any guy/girl couple can get together and have a "bang."  But how many people really know what it is to make "love?"

Other things that help Mormon marriages to name a few are: Similar Backgrounds, Values, Culture, Support Groups (at Church) and religious beliefs.

Anyways, CP why bring up Mormon chicks?  Have you run into Mormon Chicas in Colombia or something?

Well James Donut, that all sounds well and good if this was a site for men seeking Mormon women...but try selling that bill of goods to a latina...when you're back home she'll be banging someone I guarantee it...sorry, that's just the way it is.

There are some Mormons in Colombia, in fact, the former owner of one the Cali agencies is Mormon...

You will be hard pressed to find a Colombiana who is willing to wait until marriage to have sex...or it might be very easy to find one...one who isn't in love with you and just wants a green card.  My advice, find one who loves your ass and wants to bang your eyeballs out every night.

Merry Christmas!!

[utopiacowboy]

"My advice, find one who loves your ass and wants to bang your eyeballs out every night."

That's pretty much it right there.

[JamesDonut]

I'm sorry if I didn't make myself clear.  Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that's bad advice in itself.  My point is you need to look at the whole picture   This is instead of seeing things through sperm colored glasses all the time, as us guys have the tendency to do.  I would also add that sex is usually an indicator of how well a relationship is going.  But there is a mistaken understanding that sex will somehow magically fix a lot of the underlying problems that couples have.  It just doesn't work that way.  Humans are very complicated emotional and intelligent beings.

Well James Donut, that all sounds well and good if this was a site for men seeking Mormon women...but try selling that bill of goods to a latina...when you're back home she'll be banging someone I guarantee it...sorry, that's just the way it is.

You paint a very sad picture.  Marriage is through the good times and the bad times.  Basically what you're saying   is that if you tick off your Wife/GF, or you can't perform for some reason. they will just go banging someone else.  Is that really true love?  Perhaps you are just looking for a different type of person than others.  But your view does match the reality.  25% of all guys and 25% of all girls cheat in their marriages.  The trick is to find the 75% of the women that have the goal of being faithful.  That's why you take time and get to know the person and what values they have.       
 

   

[daytrader]

I'm sorry if I didn't make myself clear.  Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that's bad advice in itself.  My point is you need to look at the whole picture   This is instead of seeing things through sperm colored glasses all the time, as us guys have the tendency to do.  I would also add that sex is usually an indicator of how well a relationship is going.  But there is a mistaken understanding that sex will somehow magically fix a lot of the underlying problems that couples have.  It just doesn't work that way.  Humans are very complicated emotional and intelligent beings.

You paint a very sad picture.  Marriage is through the good times and the bad times.  Basically what you're saying   is that if you tick off your Wife/GF, or you can't perform for some reason. they will just go banging someone else.  Is that really true love?  Perhaps you are just looking for a different type of person than others.  But your view does match the reality.  25% of all guys and 25% of all girls cheat in their marriages.  The trick is to find the 75% of the women that have the goal of being faithful.  That's why you take time and get to know the person and what values they have.       
     

Sex is the "frosting on the cake"....it is a barometer of how everything else in the relationship is progressing.  Communication, respect, honesty, romance, and the Man setting a great example in all areas for Her to respect, honor and follow.

Oh yeah...Merry Christmas.  He's the Reason for the Season. 


DayTrader

[JamesDonut]

Sex is the "frosting on the cake"....it is a barometer of how everything else in the relationship is progressing.  Communication, respect, honesty, romance, and the Man setting a great example in all areas for Her to respect, honor and follow.

Oh yeah...Merry Christmas.  He's the Reason for the Season. 


DayTrader

Very well said DT.  Merry Christmas to you and others here at PL!!

[jonno]

Block...

nothing has been resolved with our marriage. We are still teetering on the brink. She's in Colombia now in the middle of a two month hiatus. We may never even see each other again. I just don't know. Thanks for asking. 

[blockbuster]

I'm genuinely sorry to hear that. I thought everything had been resolved since you seemed to want to know how to get an in-law here. I hope you will have access to seeing your daughter whenever you want. I hope she does'nt try to play games with that.
 Again,so sorry to hear that. What do you think went so wrong you cannot resolve your differences?