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Offline Researcher

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Why???
« on: November 03, 2007, 04:25:42 AM »
  Ok guys...this forum is is just too quiet....I would like to ask anyone who would like to reply....Why are you considering a foreign woman for a wife????I know why I did...I just would like to hear others on this.....in the name of research.......
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Re: Why???
« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2007, 06:09:17 AM »
For me Latin women are just plain HOT!!!!  Physically but more importantly their inside beauty.  They are family oriented.  Faithful, honest.  they work hard in their lives.  Just a general rule about the Latinas I have met.  Peace fellas

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« Reply #2 on: November 03, 2007, 09:00:58 AM »
As I have said before I was single and lived on a ranch in a remote area of Texas near the Mexican border. There weren't any single women around so I figured that maybe I would try in Mexico. I was on a site that catered to Latinos called amigos.com when I saw a profile of a woman that completely captivated me. I tried to forget her since she was Colombian but I couldn't so I wrote to her and the rest is history. We've been married about 4 and a half years now.

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Re: Why???
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« Reply #3 on: November 03, 2007, 10:34:34 AM »
  Ok guys...this forum is is just too quiet....I would like to ask anyone who would like to reply....Why are you considering a foreign woman for a wife????I know why I did...I just would like to hear others on this.....in the name of research.......

I really think for most of the male population over a certain age in the US, the question should be Why not?  IF a hotter, younger, and more motivated woman lives further away, I think it is worth the extra effort to seek her out.  I have compared what I am able to attain here and in Colombia, and the difference is like night and day. 

I firmly believe that wheather a marriage lasts or not is still up to the man making a realistic and smart choice to begin with.  After that, he still needs to be good to his woman.  If he can pull off those two items, he has a very good shot at success, in a marriage to a US born gal or a gal from a foreign land, but of course there are no 
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Re: Why???
« Reply #4 on: November 03, 2007, 02:32:32 PM »
Here's why:



The ideal AW strive for. The only problem is that that show was written by gay men about the gay lifestyle.
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Re: Why???
« Reply #5 on: November 03, 2007, 04:47:06 PM »
miss universe contest maybe shows us how remarkable latin women are. but we as westerners especially americans are very lucky to have the opportunity to meet these women.I live in los angeles and there is a noticable shortage of women.
I see young guys fighting over 1 girl here.I train young atheletes here.and they
fight over one pretty girl. little do they know there are hundreds of thousands of girls waiting .
there are these hostess clubs here in los angeles guys with latin girls and russian women you should see the gringos fight over these girls.
they charge 30 dollars an hour to sit with them and talk. then thet tip them 50 dollars more trying to impress them. I finally talk to one guy and told him about colombia. with the money they spend in that club they could have gone to colombia 10 times.  some guys are there everyday.
guys in there fifties forties .fighting over latin women in there 20 s

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Re: Why???
« Reply #6 on: November 03, 2007, 05:09:35 PM »
I took a gamble in 2004.  There was a Latin singles party planned by some people in the agency business.  It wwas a great idea but it didn't really go off as had been hoped.  The event was not a waste of time by any means, I made a great friend there.  The event coordinators decided to help us on our journey to find a latin mate and offered us a discount on a stay at an agency in Colombia.  My new friend and i took them up on their offer.  In July of tht year was my forst trip to Colombia, we arrived at the airport and we were picked up by a beautiful Colombian girl.  From there I was hooked, there was a plan to go out on that evening and we would have guests joining us.  There were two gorgeous girls waiting for us there, after we cleaned up and enjoyed chatting with these new lady friends, we headed out.  My friend knew which one I was interested in right away, he was enjoying the company of his new friend also.  Sometimes things just work out in a way, I made this trip with the intention of finding a good latin woman.  I had made a list of ladies to meet, met several.  I was a kid in a candy store.  I never had it so good.  You have to stay focused on your quest though, as your mind can fool you here in Colombia.  There are just plain to many gorgeous women who are genuinely interested in meeting you!  I have made four trips to Cali now and have another planned for February.  Little did I know that the night I arrived in Cali, I would meet my fiance.  True story, first night in Colombia and the first date.  I had some ups and downs but wouldn't change a thing.  If you are thinking about going, just do it.  Look for advice, pay attention to it, and go there now!!!  Derrick

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Re: Why???
« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2007, 06:46:17 AM »
From my perspective Latin women are much more attractive.  Yes there is a physical attraction, however it goes much deeper than that.  Latinas for the most part are more self confident, warm, friendly, caring and passionate.  Although money and a comfortable lifestyle is still important to them, for the most part their priorities are not to constantly keep up with the Joneses.  They care more about relationships, family and enjoying themselves. 

Another thing that I really like is latinas tend to take better care of themselves, even in less fortunate circumstances.  Most AW's it seems are too lazy to dress up and even comb their hair.  On the other hand the latinas I have met make it a priority to have good grooming habits and to look their best.

There are many other reasons, but when It comes down to it, it really is what each individual prefers, is most compatible with and what makes them happy.       
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Re: Why???
« Reply #8 on: November 05, 2007, 01:53:11 PM »
My biggest draws to foreign women so far are that conversations 1. with them are less shallow, and they enjoy deeper conversations; 2. the chances of them wanting to be a house wife, and thinking house-work is worthwhile, fulfilling, and important are much higher than with AW; 3. They tend to care more about their looks, on average, than AW; 4. they seem to like guys like me (a decent looking, well-educated, polite guy who can cook seems to be a hit...) a lot more than AWs because I'm more of a rarity; 5. well-educated AWs are not going to be ready to settle down at or below my age, unless you're one amazing guy; 6. as a very conservative atheist professional with mostly blue collar views, i don't fit in here at all really, but do in other countries; 7. i've only found a handful of girls i like here, so what's to lose?

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Re: Why???
« Reply #9 on: November 07, 2007, 06:06:29 PM »
Great stories and points-of-view guys! Keep'em coming.

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« Reply #10 on: November 07, 2007, 06:36:12 PM »
My Asian wife walks one step behind me and to my right. When I snap my fingers she hands me a crisp $20 bill. If it has a crease...

she gets a punch

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Re: Why???
« Reply #11 on: November 19, 2007, 03:22:56 PM »
    I decided back in the 90's to consider a woman in another country because my options here are limited.After travelling quite a bit I discovered that my options were more plentiful than I had thought.Whether a guy wants a woman that walks one step behind him and to his right or a woman that will make a good partner.....this is the way to go....
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