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[chizz]

Hello,
I made a post a few months back about a girl I met in my city from medellin, and how she had all the qualities that made her perfect wifey material. However, it was not meant to be, as she was here illegally. She confessed it to me after we got into a heated argument about her son. She spoiled the hell out of that 8 year old kid, my baby this, my baby that, and this kid milked it for all he could. It got to the point where she had to ask him if it was ok, if her and I went out. After all this babying I told her, im not going to let an 8 year old dictate our relationship. That's when she confessed that she was here illegally, and had used someone else's passport to get here. She got busted because she and the baby's daddy had purchased a passport for her son, but immigration caught it at the border. She had been here for 1 1/2 years before she tried to bring him up. Her son's name was pablo, and she said people were trying to kill her and her son. I looked at her son, and thought this kid does look familiar, but I left it alone. I don't know, I don't wanna know. She got deported yesterday, and she ended up going to montreal. I told her montreal is a beautiful city, and it could be a great start for her and her son. I hope things work out for them.
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[utopiacowboy]

How could she end up in Montreal? Normally when they deport you, you get deported to your home country. Did she have a tourist visa to enter Canada? Or is claiming refugee status? Lots of questions reading this. No questions about your kicking her to the curb though.

[william3rd]

The alien just has to leave the united states. If she is under voluntary departure, she can go where she pleases. If under bag and baggage (government buying the plane ticket) or in detention, she goes to her home country.

Interesting point about a visa to Canada- but who says she entered lawfully there either?

[utopiacowboy]

"Interesting point about a visa to Canada- but who says she entered lawfully there either?"

That's my main question. Did she walk across the border? If she flew or drove across at a checkpoint she had to have some documentation, forged or legit.

[chizz]

How could she end up in Montreal? Normally when they deport you, you get deported to your home country. Did she have a tourist visa to enter Canada? Or is claiming refugee status? Lots of questions reading this. No questions about your kicking her to the curb though.

From what she told me, I didn't get to much into detail with her, She's going into a program for domestic violence up in montreal. She was living with someone here in the states, who abused her all the time(mind you this is what she told me, i don't know if it's true or not) until she eventually fled after he allegedly threatened to kill her son. She also told me that, her and baby daddy, paid 15K for her false passport, and more for her son. I asked her where did they get that kind of money, but she wouldn't tell me. But the more and more she told me, the more I wanted to get the hell away from her. One thing about her, was that she could cry at the drop of a dime, girl was so good she had me wishing I could do something.

"Interesting point about a visa to Canada- but who says she entered lawfully there either?"

That's my main question. Did she walk across the border? If she flew or drove across at a checkpoint she had to have some documentation, forged or legit.

I was under the impression since she was allowed to go to canada instead of back to medellin they gave her something, if I talk to her again, i'll ask. She had a lawyer working with her, so honestly I have no idea how she got there.
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[michaelb]

That's way too much. I've been told (by a young lady I'd bet money has first hand knowledge, if you know what I mean, and I think you do) that here in Dallas you can buy a green card "good enough to show to la migra" for only $800.00....of course that price didn't include the matching passport, and neither her name nor age were correct, so on second thought, maybe $15,000 really is the going price for a 'full matched set'.

[chizz]

I agree. 15,000 dollars, unbelievable. I tried calling her cell, to find out more but went right to voice mail.
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[michaelb]

Maybe forged documents (or more likely, in the case you're describing, stolen documents) cost more in Colombia then they do after you're already here. You probably don't want to hear the details about how the money was raised, anymore than I wanted to know the particulars of what transpired during an unescorted 17y.o. female's trip north with the coyotes. Both stories probably have at lease one very unpleasant chapter.

[chizz]

Hah! You got that right!

On the documents, she told me that it was someone else's passport, im assuming it was stolen. She and he bought it from a women in colombia. She made it through, but they got caught when her son's passport was discovered to be fake coming through immigration in miami 1 1/2 years later. Apparently the women who sold them the bad passport has disappeared. Because of my job, she didn't want to give me to many details for fear I would try to lock these people up(some of them are in my state), and she would be right. It was one of those things where the more she told me, the more murkier it got.
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[doombug]

She's going into a program for domestic violence up in montreal. ... One thing about her, was that she could cry at the drop of a dime

 

I guess she'll keep workin' enough people and enough countries until someone buys watch she's sellin'.

Domestic violence in Montreal? 

What, was she mistaken for a harp seal and clubbed over the head???

Lesson to wayward GC sharks: Avoid the icey shores if you cross into Canada.

[Jeff S]

Let's see, she did something to raise a huge amount of cash in a third world country to buy forged, stolen documents and pay a coyote so she could commit an illegal act, not once but twice. She brought her child into an abusive, shack-up situation, she spoiled him rotten, and could cry at the drop of a dime. So just curious what "all the qualities that made her perfect wifey material" were?

[chizz]

Jeff, my thinking she was wife material was before, I learned all this. The first month she didn't tell me all this, When we met, she was living in a shelter for abused women, and when I asked her about what happened, like I said, the tears would free flow like a fountain, and I wouldn't pressure to tell me, because I didn't see anything to suspicious. However, it got to point in our relationship where she probably felt she had to tell me some things. I know she didn't tell me everything, but what she told me was enough. I was originally suppose to go to Jamie's agency in March, but because things were going so good with this woman, i called Jamie to tell him I had met someone up here, and wanted to focus on her so I won't be coming down. Jamie was cool about it, and told me to let him know if things change. But like I said, she eventually started coming clean and I was kicking myself for being so dam stupid. Even though I feel she was running game, I hope things can eventually work out for her.
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