It ain't hard for fat guys to get play from hotties in Colombia!!

[blockbuster]

 A poster here said short fat guys will have a difficult time getting laid in Colombia, unless there is money stuck to his head.  Nope! I have a cousin who is not a pretty sight, now engaged to a 9.5 Colombiana even though he can't get a date here. No money was taped to his head. He was always with Colombiano friends who watched and made sure of that:) .

 Also green card shark is a myth outside of the agency?. I say as long as you are an AM, it will not be difficult to get laid  by beautiful young girls in Colombia,DR, ect. The myth is that you can't!!!It's almost impossible not to , unless you choose not to.


From Poorbuthappyboard:

Lately there has been a fair amount of talk about sex tourism, prostitution, unfaithful men....... OK fine. But what about the way women, teenage girls and unfortunately preteen girls dress and present themselves in public here in Colombia? Way sexy, women, way too sexy dressed teens and preteens. Who helps supports this? Their Mama’s...... It’s impossible for men to view the opposite sex dressed and acting like this and not have some sort of reaction. It’s like baiting a fish. And there’s no shame in it. A good example is me. I’m over 50, a bit over weight, married, don’t chase women and am not rich. Yet many women and some teens in my area and in the town where I’m known, make it obvious that they are available to me. Sometimes not so discretely in front of my wife. It’s like putting an addicts favorite drug in front of them and saying don’t touch it or use it. Not!

 Same topic:
Colombia is the only place I am offered 16 year old's by their mothers who fully know that I am married and have a child. It is also the only place I ever got physically attacked for sex - serious, it was like a comedy.
 

[RJS]

I'm not the morality police, but I wouldn't be bragging about having sex with vulnerable 16 yo girls, especially if their mothers are pimping them. I think there's a huge difference between what some of the guys here are hoping to achieve - a lasting and committed relationship - and taking advantage of people because they are poor. A 50yr old fat man may get such a girl to put-out, but to think she'd stick with him based on your description were he to ever bring her state-side, is delusional. I'm new and not even I would believe such an unlikely scenario.

[blockbuster]

 If you read my previous post, you know I'm not dellusional. I know women will use you wherever you are. This was in reply to a post in which one of the members here  posted Girls marrying for a green card is a myth outside of agencies. Also claimed the girls are picky and short fat guys have no chance with beautiful women in Colombia. I say because of scarecity of decent men with money, they will. They see it as survival.

 I completely agree with you. The true test is when they are in the U.S. What they accept in Colombia will not be what they accept after a few years here. But to claim they are all sincere and hot girls will not marry an a guy if she is not attracted to him is a bit far off. many women from all over the world will do anything for a ticket to the U.S. and a husband they perceive as rich.

   A smart guy is aware of that and makes sure he is not bringing back a woman who is not 110% sincere,because many are not!!!

 As for the post written about the 16 year old. The person who wrote it did not go for it and did not endorse it. It was only to illustrate how desperate some there may be since they are not economically dependent! To literally throw your teen daughter at a man, any man married or single because you think he may be able to financially help your family out is something the American pshyche cannot understand. I find it horribly depressing as money becomes more important than pride,self respect and protection of your child. But taht's the reality in poor countries..

[RJS]

I admittedly skimmed the post. I've had a fever all day and have a splitting headache right now.

[soltero]

What they accept in Colombia will not be what they accept after a few years here.

Hello! Part of this is cultural, and I hope you guys realize how much you have driven up the price of p*ssy here in this country. By that, I mean that if you take a woman out of an environment where she is happy to have a decent man that treats her right to a place where vultures are constantly asking her what she is doing with the guy, then of course you are going to have different attitudes.

In Colombia, men are still respected whether they deserve it or not. Here, you are viewed as an almost unnecessary evil. You then take those same shoddy self views to the places where guys haven't sold themselves out with their women and start spreading the gospel! If it wasn't sad, it would be kinda funny.

If anyone ever hears me complaining about women wanting to jump my bones like there must be something bizarre about it, slap me! I am soooo glad I could get a date here before I went south! Getting attention wasn't so foreign that it scared me enough to think something was wrong with it! 

[Frank Rizzo]

great post soltero. agreed, 150%!! A woman will do what she is allowed to do, either by you or culture. She'll push boundries and if you don't give them strict boundries, it becomes completely (bad word i know) foreign to them.

When a woman tests her boundries and they are not put in check, (however is appropriate), then they will continue to push and now even harder. Just like in war, that ground is now won in their minds and there is no recovering that territory.

Where problems brew, from what ive seen, is an american man will go to SA and date in the prince in shining armor idea. Show and give the girl more material wealth than she has ever seen, at some point she throws a temper tantrum. He bows to her wishes, she sees this and instantly grabs that land. It's positive re-enforcement, this cycle continues until the man begins to say to himself, "you've changed", when in fact she has never changed. She just took what land you left unprotected.

There's a reason for the "give an inch and they take a mile" saying.

I also think it's important for human nature to have to work for something to appreciate it. If you just start giving them anything, including LOVE, they will not appreciate it.

[Parlay Rey]

Hello! Part of this is cultural, and I hope you guys realize how much you have driven up the price of p*ssy here in this country.

**yep. price gouging like Haliburton on light, sweet, crude. and it ain't comin' down no time soon.

By that, I mean that if you take a woman out of an environment where she is happy to have a decent man that treats her right to a place where vultures are constantly asking her what she is doing with the guy, then of course you are going to have different attitudes.

**agreed. these entitlement feminists can't seem to wait indoctrinate an unspoiled neophyte. "why don't you cut your hair?", "why are you wearing so much make up?" la la la woop woop woop. they have run amok.

but you can protect yourself by doing upfront due diligence. What do I mean?

Women are pretty much set in their ways by age 21 or so. either good apple or bad, she is highly unlikely to change her core value system no matter how much change or growth takes place. Therefore is is imperative that you choose well. a leopard cannot change its spots.

In Colombia, men are still respected whether they deserve it or not. Here, you are viewed as an almost unnecessary evil. You then take those same shoddy self views to the places where guys haven't sold themselves out with their women and start spreading the gospel! If it wasn't sad, it would be kinda funny.

**rounding 3rd. we live in a society shaped and molded by feminist reality, 'The Matrix' if you will. it seems almost a crime to be a man. Going south is like Neo getting unplugged for the 1st time. And as you say, if it wasn't sad, it would indeed be kinda funny.

If anyone ever hears me complaining about women wanting to jump my bones like there must be something bizarre about it, slap me! I am soooo glad I could get a date here before I went south! Getting attention wasn't so foreign that it scared me enough to think something was wrong with it! 

**homerun. the avianca flight 49 red eye is not going to magically transform you from a frog into a prince. you don't have to be a golden adonis before going down but you'd damn sure better make up for it in another skill set area (good personality, great sense of humor, great dancer, etc.)
anything less and you're fooling no one but yourself.

[Parlay Rey]

great post soltero. agreed, 150%!! A woman will do what she is allowed to do, either by you or culture. She'll push boundries and if you don't give them strict boundries, it becomes completely (bad word i know) foreign to them.

When a woman tests her boundries and they are not put in check, (however is appropriate), then they will continue to push and now even harder. Just like in war, that ground is now won in their minds and there is no recovering that territory.

Where problems brew, from what ive seen, is an american man will go to SA and date in the prince in shining armor idea. Show and give the girl more material wealth than she has ever seen, at some point she throws a temper tantrum. He bows to her wishes, she sees this and instantly grabs that land. It's positive re-enforcement, this cycle continues until the man begins to say to himself, "you've changed", when in fact she has never changed. She just took what land you left unprotected.

There's a reason for the "give an inch and they take a mile" saying.

I also think it's important for human nature to have to work for something to appreciate it. If you just start giving them anything, including LOVE, they will not appreciate it.

**archive this one gentlemen.

[Frank Rizzo]

jajajaaj, yes please do archive it. Parley, is there a point that you disagree with?

[RJS]

Women are pretty much set in their ways by age 21 or so. either good apple or bad, she is highly unlikely to change her core value system no matter how much change or growth takes place. Therefore is is imperative that you choose well. a leopard cannot change its spots.

21 sounds young. I've read that you're basically the person you're gonna be for the rest of you life at 27, although I can't remember the source.

[doombug]

"Maturity begins to grow when you can sense your concern for others outweighing your concern for yourself."--John MacNaughton

"Age is no guarantee of maturity."--Lawana Blackwell

Women show the ways to maturity - 39-year study

There's no single way to achieve a well-adjusted life. However, there are at least three different but equally effective paths that lead to psychological maturity, according to a 39-year study of women who were first contacted as college seniors."

[...]

Some women, dubbed conservers by the researchers, successfully sought the security of marriage, family life, and traditionally female occupations. Conservers reported dealing well with daily situations and with other people, say psychologist Ravenna Helson and graduate student Sanjay Srivastava, both of the University of California, Berkeley. Conservers muted both their positive and negative feelings. They were mostly satisfied with their lives and had little desire to pursue novel challenges.

[...]

A second group, called achievers, cherished social recognition and career advancement. Achievers reported a sense of mastery of everyday challenges. Over time, they underwent considerable personal growth and developed insight into their lives. They took a creative approach to fulfilling tasks at work. At the same time, achievers' intimate relationships sometimes suffered as a result of their emphasis on professional goals.

[...]

The third group of well-adjusted women, dubbed seekers, valued unconventional pursuits, creativity, and self-discovery. According to the researchers, seekers developed progressively more independence and wisdom in thinking about various life matters. They experienced a lot of emotional highs and lows. A desire to find or accomplish a true calling was uppermost in their minds and often outweighed concerns with daily affairs.

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1200/is_26_159/ai_76697535

Throw in mental disorders; life traumas; quality of education (or lack there of); upbringing; economic, regional, and cultural factors, and the age one reaches maturity becomes even less a reliable yardstick.

Oh, and in case no one caught it, a "conserver" would be your ideal mate in the global pursuit. (Of course, pure feminists would label these sisters weak and subservient.)

[Parlay Rey]

Oh, and in case no one caught it, a "conserver" would be your ideal mate in the global pursuit. (Of course, pure feminists would label these sisters weak and subservient.)

A study of "conserver" female college seniors, which would be around 21 or so.  Based on your quote...doesn't this kind of underscore my point, or am I missing something?

Good find, BTW.

[pan de bono]

well, blockbuster i agree with you a fat guy can get play in Colombia, as a friend and frequent traveler once told me if you cant get play in Colombia then you cant get play anywhere.
However, i will tell you this the Colombians dont like fat guys, i have been told by numerous Colombians that they really just dont care for men that are fat. So even though a fat guy may get some play he'd be getting alot more play if he would shed a few pounds.

[DVito]

There's nothing special about being fat in 3rd world countries, those fat guys can get play in Latin America just like their fat women counterparts do in Jamaica, Kenya, India, et al.....

[zack]

Blockbuster said

It is also the only place I ever got physically attacked for sex - serious, it was like a comedy.

Blockbuster- would you care to elaborate on that? I question that story. I can't imagine a gringo getting attacked for sex. Even if he were very goodlooking (not implying that you aren't), why would a sexy Latina attack a gringo for sex when she can have sex with any Colombian man at the blink of an eye?

[Kiltboy1]

Because we are different then what they can get at home. The allure of taboo, something they have never had. It is a very decandant pill. I have been attacked before for sex and i am not saying this to blow my horn. In fact,I was taken off guard it happened so fast. After the newness of it wears off, then you need the game to continue the relationship.

KB

[william3rd]

KB, Boston Medical Group can help you with that problem of it happening so fast. . . . . .

[blockbuster]

Blockbuster said
Blockbuster- would you care to elaborate on that? I question that story. I can't imagine a gringo getting attacked for sex. Even if he were very goodlooking (not implying that you aren't), why would a sexy Latina attack a gringo for sex when she can have sex with any Colombian man at the blink of an eye?

 zack,

 This was a post written by another guy on the Poor but Happy board who lives in Colombia. I completely beleive it. Never ahppened to me in Colombia, but I know in Dominican Republic, the girls practically attack you if you look decent and have blue or green eyes.

[pan de bono]

blockbuster, are you having wishful thinking? I have never been to DR but i do know many men who have traveled there and none of them were attacked by the women and all these guys have blue or green eyes.

[RJS]

what about grey?

[zack]

Kiltboy and Blockbuster,

What exactly do you mean by "attacked for sex"? To me that phrase implies that a strange woman tried to rape you/him out of the blue.

I have blue eyes. Numerous Latinas compliment me about them but I've never been attacked before.

[Cali-vet]

I believe it. A Jehovah´s Witness girl in Barranquilla once held me at gunpoint, did a nasty and then made off with my Calvin Klein thong briefs. My mom and dad and I all prayed for her.

[Kiltboy1]

Zack

I invited a woman  up to have a drink in my apartment. She was extremely nice, very innocent looking. I fixed her a drink and excused myself to go to the bathroom and when i came out, she had stripped to her skivs and ran and jumped into my arms with the legs wrapped around me. I am not trying to get grafic, but i expect you can fill in the blanks, This is what i mean as "ATTACKED FOR SEX"

KB

[blockbuster]

 Ok,

 An example of an attack in DR at the beach. A girl I did'nt know who was fairly attractive came up to talk to me and my buddies with a group of her friends. After awhile she began joking, you me make baby? and pointing to my eyes. I just laughed it off but this girl was agressive and being really touchy which to me is a turn-off. But I knew what she meant. Her hand was getting too close to my crotch . I'm not gay or anything, but ion DR there are too many cute girls around to waste time with someone who is not doing it for me. If she was looking for a baby with blue eyes or whatever and a sucker to pay child-support she had the wrong guy.


I am by no way saying I am that good-looking and have females react to me as such. But I am saying it happens.  I have also seem my friends try to get rid of "average" looking girls in DR because there are tons of hotties available you would rather spend time with, But  you those "average" gals get aggresive hoping you can be suckered to take them out to a decent place or buy them something. Competition is fierce,their aim is to have you  ignore the hotties by playing touchy feely. God forbid you take them back to your room. The agresive average girls will never let you out of their sight if they can help it and keep coming back to your hotel looking for you. So the guy on the "Poor but Happy" board who made that statement does not seem odd to me. Just my take on stuff, your experience may differ.

 I'm glad to see the board is active with such topics.