los ninos

[papi]

so how do you feel about a woman with kids? My preference is no children but one of my interests has a boy 1.5 years old. I love children but at 47 don't want kids. I do feel that one of the advantages of a woman with kids is that she is probably a little more mature yet in my view was not very smart to have a baby without a husband despite the widespread cultural disparities. I also feel that if she already has a kid, she won't be pressuring me to make more babies. The downsides are that i will always be second fiddle to the kid. I also would have preferred a baby girl if given the choice - i just think they are easier than little boys.

[flipflop]

Do you have any children?

[william3rd]

not wanting to reproduce? HMMMMM- interesting. Getting all that practice but not finishing the job. Papi, I would of thought you had a few rug rats running around somewhere in your past.

[papi]

practice makes perfect 

[el_ruso]

You won't find any latinas who have no children and don't want any, unless they have medical reasons for that.  Well, there are rare exceptions, but that is virtually impossible.  Which is what I like the most about latinas: they like children and want to have them.

I am not insisting you should reproduce, trust me, but someone not wanting to is just incomprehensible to me.  I am generally a very open-minded person, but that is one of those things I would never relate to or understand.

[utopiacowboy]

Why do you believe that you will always be second fiddle? Any chick who places her kids first, kick her to the curb. My wife and I have seven kids between us but we are always each other's first priority.

[william3rd]

fortunately I am done with my rugrat phase. Now it is just a matter of getting them out. . . .

Daughter is starting nursing school and son is an above average QB. Retirement is now within sight!!!! Only a handful of years away. . .

[papi]

I am not insisting you should reproduce, trust me, but someone not wanting to is just incomprehensible to me.

i love kids but am in no hurry to breed a bunch of little papi's