See if you can guess who are what "JLO" is talking about

[flipflop]

Since were all in such a lovey dovey mood why the bad connotations on the word baggage. Like you say maybe its suitcase full of gold.

We all talked extensively about how children can be problematic and burdensome in various ways, El_Ruso you (inadvertently) used the metaphor to describe a woman with children as "her as baggage" but should we consider the possibility that a relationship with the child itself can actually be even more advantageous and gratifying? complete a marital relationship and make it more wholistic? actually you are gaining another person or human soul to love and love can be reciprocated, its like you are getting two people to love for the price of one

[markanthony7]

Well Papi I like to think they are on the same page because of me!!!!! LOL!