Swingers in Latin America

[KCMasseur]

I have been planning for over a year to find a long-term serious relationship partner in either D.R., Colombia, & Peru.  I will be traveling through these countries this summer.  I would not describe myself as a sex tourist; I do not want to use a woman or deceive her as far as sexual activity is concerned.  I personally have a desire and a mentality for an open relationship; committed to a partner, but that sexuality does not have to be confined to the one partner anymore than sharing a meal or attending a movie together.   I know that I'm walking a fine line for some people to not see me as a sex tourist when one has such beliefs about sex.
With that said, can anyone recommend any good swinger communities in Santo Domingo, Cartagena, Medellin, Cali, Bogata, o Lima?  Good = not heavy into a drug culture; that respects a woman's dignity as much as a man's.  And preferably something touristy.
Any other advice, commentary, or perspective on swinging, open marriages, and the like in these communities are also welcome to be commented here to me.  Thanks! (Sorry if I've missed a thread posting on this topic before)

[utopiacowboy]

Here is a web site that you may be interested in: www.guiacereza.com My wife and I do not swing but it's an interesting site.

[Dan]

I have been planning for over a year to find a long-term serious relationship partner in either D.R., Colombia, & Peru.  I will be traveling through these countries this summer.  I would not describe myself as a sex tourist; I do not want to use a woman or deceive her as far as sexual activity is concerned.  I personally have a desire and a mentality for an open relationship; committed to a partner, but that sexuality does not have to be confined to the one partner anymore than sharing a meal or attending a movie together.   I know that I'm walking a fine line for some people to not see me as a sex tourist when one has such beliefs about sex.
With that said, can anyone recommend any good swinger communities in Santo Domingo, Cartagena, Medellin, Cali, Bogata, o Lima?  Good = not heavy into a drug culture; that respects a woman's dignity as much as a man's.  And preferably something touristy.
Any other advice, commentary, or perspective on swinging, open marriages, and the like in these communities are also welcome to be commented here to me.  Thanks! (Sorry if I've missed a thread posting on this topic before)

Your description of your beliefs notwithstanding, I think you have stumbled onto the wrong venue. PL is a site for men and women who seek a serious long-term relationship with a foreign partner. PL has an explicit prohibition of posts directed toward prostitution and 'mongering' - and while 'swinging' is not currently listed explicitly, this is simply not a venue for promotion or encouragement of that 'lifestyle.'

- Dan

[mudd]

I have been planning for over a year to find a long-term serious relationship partner

hahahahah what a joke, looking for a swinger place and long term serious relationship 


many in DR but your on the wrong website dude

[mudd]

forgot, Brazil is full of them

[Fuzzyone]

I have been planning for over a year to find a long-term serious relationship partner in either D.R., Colombia, & Peru.  I will be traveling through these countries this summer.  I would not describe myself as a sex tourist; I do not want to use a woman or deceive her as far as sexual activity is concerned.  I personally have a desire and a mentality for an open relationship; committed to a partner, but that sexuality does not have to be confined to the one partner anymore than sharing a meal or attending a movie together.   I know that I'm walking a fine line for some people to not see me as a sex tourist when one has such beliefs about sex.
With that said, can anyone recommend any good swinger communities in Santo Domingo, Cartagena, Medellin, Cali, Bogata, o Lima?  Good = not heavy into a drug culture; that respects a woman's dignity as much as a man's.  And preferably something touristy.
Any other advice, commentary, or perspective on swinging, open marriages, and the like in these communities are also welcome to be commented here to me.  Thanks! (Sorry if I've missed a thread posting on this topic before)

   You sure are in the wrong place, but there is plenty of sites out there to help you in your quest you are just going to have to look. I suggest maybe you should make your mind up what you really want a committed relationship or to be a swinger most does not go hand in hand.

[KCMasseur]

Ty utopia cowboy for the site for my sake. 

I realize that to the general public that a committed long term relationship and swinging seems contradictory. Nor do I have any delusions that the likelihood of encountering an equallopen minded woman; I can accept that this may have to be abandon if I find a woman that will otherwise match me. I know where to look for such communities in the US, but not in latin america. I've personally know both dating and married couples that care very much for each other. Thank you for your responses to my post.

[InnocentVixen]

definitely wrong site haha, but for the cultural side of it and first time travel or paperwork you will find some useful posts here, in fact from the bad experiences men have had you will also find it useful, just read in which country men have found women to have lower morals, it is usually in touristic places to start with so it shouldn't be that hard.


Not saying it's right or wrong, but better you find one of those (and there seem to be plenty!) instead of an old fashioned man looking for a monogamous relationship that will be in for a surprise... so basically read a lot and take the advice backwards since what you are looking for it's pretty close to the opposite most of us are looking for.

[SkyNorth]

You want to find a "long-term serious relationship partner" but you want her to get stuck by some random dude from time to time.
 
I think that is every guys on this sites nightmare, but that should be really easy to find according to the members.
 

[Researcher]

    I don't see how relationships like that work. Many turn out bad I bet....


         
                 




          Researcher

[mudd]

    I don't see how relationships like that work. Many turn out bad I bet....

most dont. they last about a year or so before somebody gets pissed, jealous or hurt and moves on. i have a couple in my gym who are into this, what a mess and its always some drama going on when they come into the gym. actually the girl also does porn, seen her videos, something to see when you see her in a video and then see her in person.

[KCMasseur]

Thank you for the responses.

[Calipro]

 I do not want to use a woman or deceive her as far as sexual activity is concerned.  I personally have a desire and a mentality for an open relationship; committed to a partner, but that sexuality does not have to be confined to the one partner anymore than sharing a meal or attending a movie together.   

Any other advice, commentary, or perspective on swinging, open marriages, and the like in these communities are also welcome to be commented here to me.  Thanks! (Sorry if I've missed a thread posting on this topic before)

Just lose the mantra of "not wanting to use a woman or deceiver her as far as sexual activity is concerned" and you'll have an easier time finding what you want.


Plenty of Colombianos get married..... do whatever they want ....while forbidding their wives to leave the house..... and most of their women never seem to leave them.


Noticed that it seems to work especially well with women 30 and over that have a child....which just so happens to be the exact demographic that is most interested in meeting gringos.  jajaja


Don't know that I would try that if I planed on living in the U.S. though