What makes you Serious or just a Monger?

[william3rd]

Phft.  I had this punk figured out before I hit the period in his last sentence.  Guys serious about finding a wife don't talk like that.  He's just some sexless loser in his dorm or momma's basement whose favorite WoW server crashed during the big storm so he started browsing for "hot Asian girl porn" to spank his monkey to and somehow followed a series of links to this site (which is all about finding beautiful Asian women) whereupon he shat in our pond.  And he's so socially obtuse, he either is unaware or doesn't care that his turd stinks, too (as the closest thing he ever comes to in a female form are WoW female elf characters ran by male players with gender confusion issues).  He has all the emotional maturity of a 13-year-old who just discovered Rosy Palm.  He's got at least 10 or 15 years of growing up to do before he is ready for this.

And they shouldnt be given the benefit of the doubt. At least not by me anyway. . . .

[z_k_g]

Made fun of? The US and other governments have done all they can to make it illegal. The guys/(whatever word you want for not good enough) getting "mail order brides/green card prostitutes" as our popular media sees our wives have a reason to distance ourselves from the "pedophiles" as the guys/mongers who go abroad looking for a date or to get laid are seen as.

Jh,

Hence the reason for my post.

Honestly I really don't care about "how they see us" in the popular media, I mean to submit myself to a healthy dose of American women my age, 40+, for dating purposes is an absolute joke.  

Most are overweight, angry, self centered, have grand kids, ex husbands and bf's and carry around a sh*tty attitude.   They actually don't realize that they are unattractive and undesirable and still are possessed with sense of entitlement to all the benefits they enjoyed during their ball busting youth!

Only an idiot would accept a future of this:
47 years old38 years old

These are actual pics of women who have sent me interests on a networking website in the past week!!!

I have found my future wife in the Philippines so I am off the market, but here are some pinays that have shown me interest in the past week!!!

24 years old 25 years old

Guys, I'm not making this up!  Really!!

So...Do I really have to justify my decision to NOT participate in the American woman whale hunt to the popular media, the American public or anyone else for that matter?

As a counterpoint, I really don't have a big issue with men spending their money and time mongering or serial dating, its their money and time.  But, I choose not to spend my resources on such mundane and trite foolishness.  

I want a foreign wife, and that's why I participate in P-L.  

Zulu

[Jeff S]

Hey z/k, that 47 year old has the ol "do me" sparkle in her eye.

I thing I'd rather be a monger or maybe a mongo...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_RKPGS2vwM

[Bob_S]

Punk is a nice word for this guy, how bout Monger.

I dunno.  Does "monger" imply he is actually gettin' any?  Maybe a monger wannabe.  He doesn't even rise to the level of a full on got-game monger out workin' up some touch.  That would involve actually talking to girls, and that's too scary.

[Researcher]

Made fun of? The US and other governments have done all they can to make it illegal. The guys/(whatever word you want for not good enough) getting "mail order brides/green card prostitutes" as our popular media sees our wives have a reason to distance ourselves from the "pedophiles" as the guys/mongers who go abroad looking for a date or to get laid are seen as.

            Distance ourselves? Not in the eyes of the feminist controlled media.And we are also lumped in with the very few cases where guys murdered their foreign brides.Anything they(feminists) can do to make the whole process out to be negative.It isn't in the feminist's best interest if guys can find women outside the US.

   Researcher

[fathertime]

            Distance ourselves? Not in the eyes of the feminist controlled media.And we are also lumped in with the very few cases where guys murdered their foreign brides.Anything they(feminists) can do to make the whole process out to be negative.It isn't in the feminist's best interest if guys can find women outside the US.

   Researcher

funny thing...i still haven't had any woman say anything negative to me about my choice of a  'mail order bride'. surprisingly i have had another guy say something though, but i have seen his girl and i can understand why he is cranky.

Fathertime!

[euforia51]

Honestly I really don't care about "how they see us" in the popular media, I mean to submit myself to a healthy dose of American women my age, 40+, for dating purposes is an absolute joke.

Here, here Zulu ... I second this statement!

Most are overweight, angry, self centered, have grand kids, ex husbands and bf's and carry around a sh*tty attitude. They actually don't realize that they are unattractive and undesirable and still are possessed with sense of entitlement to all the benefits they enjoyed during their ball busting youth!

And I'll add "adorned" with that sexy ink that seems to grow an inch per year with age and the effects of gravity. What was once a cute little butterfly or flower a few years ago is now a foot-long dragon or thorny, wilted rose bush that somehow resembles a dirty tube sock. Use your imagination.  

Seriously, you ought to be careful whose you photos you're posting on here with those kinds of comments ... especially in the interest of being upstanding and keeping P-L a respectable place. Was this not the theme of your original post? You do not want the wrong person to see these photos on here and have it turn out to be some trial lawyer who has a 99% win/loss ratio in slander/defamation cases. Just a thought...

[euforia51]

24 years old 25 years old

Zulu ... not to rain on your parade but these are glam-n-scam chicks. Look how perfect these photos are. I wouldn't go near these girls.

[robert angel]

Zulu ... not to rain on your parade but these are glam-n-scam chicks. Look how perfect these photos are. I wouldn't go near these girls.

Indeed, and the one on the right could well be a ladyboy.

[Jedironin]

Yeah... sometimes the "perfectly sculpted nose" ... IS! 

"Hello Doctor" 

[z_k_g]

Guys,

I got a pinay, my avatar picture, and very happy and satisfied with my choice! 

These young women were for illustration purposes only!

Zulu

[z_k_g]

funny thing...i still haven't had any woman say anything negative to me about my choice of a  'mail order bride'. surprisingly i have had another guy say something though, but i have seen his girl and i can understand why he is cranky.

Fathertime!

FT,

That's because you are too busy looking at your fine wife and loving her and she loving you in return!   

Its really not worth thinking about.

Zulu

[z_k_g]

Seriously, you ought to be careful whose you photos you're posting on here with those kinds of comments ... especially in the interest of being upstanding and keeping P-L a respectable place. Was this not the theme of your original post? You do not want the wrong person to see these photos on here and have it turn out to be some trial lawyer who has a 99% win/loss ratio in slander/defamation cases. Just a thought...

Euforia,

Hmmm...maybe they lied about their ages?   

Zulu

[Researcher]

FT,

Its really not worth thinking about.

Zulu

  I have to agree.There is nothing that can be done anyway.BTW, I was talking about how guys that marry foreign women are viewed as a group, I wasn't referring to any one incident.


   Researcher

[euforia51]

Euforia,

Hmmm...maybe they lied about their ages?   

Zulu

I was speaking about the comments toward the "gravitationally endowed" women in the pics ... you know ... the fatties! 

[Bob_S]

funny thing...i still haven't had any woman say anything negative to me about my choice of a  'mail order bride'.

That's because you are in So Cal where biracial couples are more common than dirt (considering everything's almost completely paved over here, that's probably not an exaggeration).  We went to the Chinese New Year festival in Torrance a couple weeks ago and it seemed half the couples there were mixed, typically white guy - Asian woman.  Someone starts throwing around the term "mail order bride" and they'll get a hundred guys pissed off and looking for a fight.

[Researcher]

That's because you are in So Cal where biracial couples are more common than dirt (considering everything's almost completely paved over here, that's probably not an exaggeration).  We went to the Chinese New Year festival in Torrance a couple weeks ago and it seemed half the couples there were mixed, typically white guy - Asian woman.  Someone starts throwing around the term "mail order bride" and they'll get a hundred guys pissed off and looking for a fight.

    True Sir Bob.Not to mention that California is the NEW New Mexico! Most living there aren't from the US to begin with and could give a rat's arse! hehehe...

     Researcher

[Researcher]

      I think if a guy spends a long time looking he could be thought of as a monger, or at least not serious.But I can't say anything about that because I spent a long time looking myself.I did it because I started relatively young and wasn't in a rush to get married.As the old song says" Time is on my side"....well it was then!  I was also skeptical about the whole thing.I didn't have a forum of experienced guys like this to utilize and decided to delve into the subject as much as I could before taking the plunge.And I did (hence the handle" Researcher").I spent alot of time meeting women and hanging out with guys that had been at this for a while.I probably was thought of as a sport dater but sexual conquests were not my goal.I wanted to see first hand what this was all about before I" pulled the trigger".

    Researcher

[z_k_g]

That's because you are in So Cal where biracial couples are more common than dirt (considering everything's almost completely paved over here, that's probably not an exaggeration).  We went to the Chinese New Year festival in Torrance a couple weeks ago and it seemed half the couples there were mixed, typically white guy - Asian woman.  Someone starts throwing around the term "mail order bride" and they'll get a hundred guys pissed off and looking for a fight.

Guys,

If you got an Asian wife in the South, Tennessee, Alabama, Miss etc, and she looks a lot younger than you....then all the lil ole ladies will be giving you the evil eye, the chick your age will hate you, the younger babes will envy her (she got a prime sugar daddy) and ALL the men will want to be you!

Ironically, none of the younger babes would ever give you the time of day if you were alone or trying to chat them up, you would be utterly ignored and they would whisper to the nearest gf, "what a perv!".

But...once you are seen with a young hot babe, the younger babes perception of you changes 180 degrees.  Now you are the handsome "older guy" and your game improves 100%.  Its funny how being in the company of a hot babe bumps your game with other hot women.  

I think its just a fundamental thing with women, they are always competing with each other.  Crazy huh?  Funny how all of a sudden a man that they didn't want, they called a perv a few months back, becomes desirable! (good sugar daddy potential maybe?)

Oh well......back to reality......thank God for the Philippines!!

Zulu

[z_k_g]

I think if a guy spends a long time looking he could be thought of as a monger, or at least not serious.

Researcher,

I somewhat disagree. 

I think that's a fundamental difference to consider. 

Similar to lawyers and judges we have to focus on what was your intent? 

Sometimes you can have an outcome or result that seemingly convicts or points at certain guilt.  But once you examine the intent, new light is shed on the situation and the truth is revealed.

The intent of mongering is to have sex with as many women as possible. 

This was not your intent.

I mean your goals or intent kinda defined who you were don't you think.  From the casual observer you were a serial dater, a possible monger.  But your goal/intent was not to bang as many foreign babes as possible, but to find a wife. 

This is one of the subtle points of why I started this thread.

Zulu

[z_k_g]

I was also skeptical about the whole thing.I didn't have a forum of experienced guys like this to utilize and decided to delve into the subject as much as I could before taking the plunge.And I did (hence the handle" Researcher").

Researcher,

P-L is a valuable resource, and I just haven't seen many websites like it.

We must do our best to continue this tradition and once we have completed our journeys, assist others who follow and need our help.

Ray, Dave, Jeff and W3 will not be around forever! 

(Well maybe Ray  )

Zulu

[Jhengsman]

That's because you are in So Cal where biracial couples are more common than dirt (considering everything's almost completely paved over here, that's probably not an exaggeration).  We went to the Chinese New Year festival in Torrance a couple weeks ago and it seemed half the couples there were mixed, typically white guy - Asian woman.  Someone starts throwing around the term "mail order bride" and they'll get a hundred guys pissed off and looking for a fight.

Not to mention that the woman is probably a native Californian or her family brought her over as a child in the years after South Vietnam fell

[euforia51]

...once you are seen with a young hot babe, the younger babes perception of you changes 180 degrees.  Now you are the handsome "older guy" and your game improves 100%.  Its funny how being in the company of a hot babe bumps your game with other hot women. 

I think its just a fundamental thing with women, they are always competing with each other.  Crazy huh?  Funny how all of a sudden a man that they didn't want, they called a perv a few months back, becomes desirable! (good sugar daddy potential maybe?)

This concept is called "social proof". To put it simply, it is suggested that if one hot babe is with you, is attracted, and thinks you're alright, the other babes in the flock (and yes, they are competing) will also take notice and tend to be attractive as well because you are seen as a dominant or alpha male who is very desirable. And hence, your game will improve.

However, this concept can also backfire. So be careful of who you hang out with. If you're hanging out with fat and/or ugly women friends (let's just be nice and call them undesirable), you will not attract hot babes just because you are hanging out with women. You will tend to attract even more undesirable women.

[z_k_g]

However, this concept can also backfire. So be careful of who you hang out with. If you're hanging out with fat and/or ugly women friends (let's just be nice and call them undesirable), you will not attract hot babes just because you are hanging out with women. You will tend to attract even more undesirable women.

Lordy!   

Zulu