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Offline kojak

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Time to get back on the saddle!
« on: May 14, 2010, 04:33:19 AM »
Been lurking for a couple of months,

 Well a little about myself...divorced in my mid-30s half gringo half Hispanic. I actually spent my childhood in Panama while my dad was stationed there....been going back to Panama for years, met my ex through a friend that took me to Cali in the late 90s, during those days finding a gringo in Cali or Medellin was as rare as a Colombian virgin...I was young and got caught up in the moment and got married to a caleña.

Long story short I lived in Cali for about a year, enjoyed my time but was fooling around to much...went back to the states and the relationship fell apart. I told myself that I was going to focus on my career and when I'm ready to find my wife was going to head back to Colombia...so now I'm ready. Also was considering  Honduras and Argentina, have a cousin thats married to a porteña she alway tells me how beautiful the ladies are in Argentina.

So the journey begins!!!   
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory or defeat." --Theodore Roosevelt

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Re: Time to get back on the saddle!
« Reply #1 on: May 14, 2010, 06:51:01 AM »
Welcome! Sounds like you know the 'lay of the land' down there better than most, but as the terrain's always changing, this is a good place to be and you probably have a lot of good insights to share here too.
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Re: Time to get back on the saddle!
« Reply #2 on: May 14, 2010, 11:59:20 AM »
Kojak

Welcome to the board....

Good luck to you on your upcoming journey.....


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Re: Time to get back on the saddle!
« Reply #2 on: May 14, 2010, 11:59:20 AM »

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Re: Time to get back on the saddle!
« Reply #3 on: May 14, 2010, 07:42:33 PM »

 Welcome Kojak,

I hope you find the special someone you are looking for.
It's defnitely worth the effort, and I am sure there waits the woman you seek regardless of what country you decide on.

Good Luck! 8)

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Re: Time to get back on the saddle!
« Reply #4 on: May 14, 2010, 09:41:24 PM »
Been lurking for a couple of months,

 Well a little about myself...divorced in my mid-30s half gringo half Hispanic. I actually spent my childhood in Panama while my dad was stationed there....been going back to Panama for years, met my ex through a friend that took me to Cali in the late 90s, during those days finding a gringo in Cali or Medellin was as rare as a Colombian virgin...I was young and got caught up in the moment and got married to a caleña.

Long story short I lived in Cali for about a year, enjoyed my time but was fooling around to much...went back to the states and the relationship fell apart. I told myself that I was going to focus on my career and when I'm ready to find my wife was going to head back to Colombia...so now I'm ready. Also was considering  Honduras and Argentina, have a cousin thats married to a porteña she alway tells me how beautiful the ladies are in Argentina.

So the journey begins!!!   

New life after divorce is a helluva lot of fun!  It sounds like you know the score. 

Good luck!

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Re: Time to get back on the saddle!
« Reply #5 on: May 14, 2010, 11:10:55 PM »
Yeah guys thanks for the support, been a long time since I've traveled to Colombia...so looking forward to it!!! I think the only dilema I have is that I really want to go back to Cali but don't want to run into my ex. caleñas are my weakness...I made the mistake of telling my ex that if I marry again it would be to a caleña, they have a Joie de Vivre thats irresistible....

I've met quite a few paisas in Panama mostly working girl so hard to judge from the regular paisas, beautiful girls for sure. I think that I've matured enough to realize that there is more to a woman than beauty, specially if you're looking for a wife...substance, decency, good natured etc....I guess my question is how do caleñas compare to paisas?  I know is a subjective question so feel free comment.
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