Also there are too many other issuesI wontvget into that make this scenario extremely remote in my case.
Best solution is not get married in the first place.
Best not to leave loose ends.
I think it is easier for a foreigner to get into Canada then the USA.
But in the USA a woman doesn't need a dime to hire a good divorce lawyer ...if the husband has assets.
If the lawyer does an asset search and your name is attached to real property....that is all she needs to hire the lawyer.