If your not sure about what to say in you first letter to your prospective mate, here's some tips I found to get you started.
https://springerssl.netnation.com/~vietname/bluedragon/moreinfo.htmAs they mention, the asian names can be really confusing. Some sites list them First_name, Last_name while others reverse the order. Naturally, I got it backwards on the first letter I wrote .
Dear Last_name,
But, she still wrote back.
Good luck,
Steve