Asia vs Latina

[papi]

To my amigo who just wrote me on my feedback more or less on Asian vs Latina, I feel that there are sexy beautiful women in all shapes and sizes. In Asia, I missed the sexy jeans and mid-drifts but they more than compensated for that with the mini skirts. I think you can find beautiful women everywhere with personalities to go with them. Pick your hunting ground or venture in a few different locales. It is a big world out there. Regarding the Philippines – I have 0 experience there so can’t really comment one way or the other. Draw your own conclusions and go with your heart.

El Papi
Live from Colombia but missing the chopstick food…haha

[Ray]

In Asia, I missed the sexy jeans and mid-drifts but they more than compensated for that with the mini skirts.

Uh, what are "mid-drifts"? Did you perhaps mean midriffs? If so, then I have some shocking news for you...ALL women have midriffs!

Well, maybe all except the manananggals...

[papi]

it is my understanding mid-drift is the correct word...it is clothes that show the mid-section

[Bob_S]

According to the Merrian-Webster Dictionary, it's midriff (mid from middle and riff or rhif from Old English/High German for belly or womb).
Funny, I always thought it was mid-rift (rift meaning a separation in this case of the woman's upper and lower garments).  My mistake.  You learn sumpthin' new, huh...

[papi]

Bob, i think you will find that the spelling goes both ways depending on the venue but  I am not certain what is correct in fashion circles

[Bob_S]

You're right.  They do do mini-skirts well.  But if you are looking for Asians with cute bare midriffs, I got two words for you: Race Queens! (Hubba hubba)

[todobien]

My experience has been interesting. I have met 4 filipinas to see what all the talk is about. These are my experiences from dating in the states. I'm sure some will disagree with my point of view but I do date a lot and it's interesting that all 4 were similar in these ways.

First I have found that they like to sometimes tease in a sexual way. What I have found though is that this does not mean to give it back. I messed up with one girl acting like this. She was complimenting me and touching me. I tried to hold her hand and such and it was uncomfortable. I went for the kiss at the end and that was tough. True mixed signals. As far as dating goes it is best not to be to forward. My experience is that they are shy by nature. Too assertive, too soon and you will scare them away.

Second games. All women play games and test you. I am very used to this. The filipina women I have met though play games I don't understand. They are almost rude. Getting me on a chat and then leaving the chat. Come back and say they were having dinner. Or sending me text msgs on my phone that are incomplete. Stopping mid sentance and then not responding. Phone conversations that while laughing end abruptly with her saying she has to go. One girl hid and called me before meeting me. Another asked me to meet her at a club. And then hid.

Third low self esteem. I think much of this comes from low self esteem. The silly games. The teasing with nothing behind it.

In the process of dating all filipinas and talking with them I went out with a girl only in town for a few weeks from Honduras. As we sat and talked in our broken spanish/english she leaned over the couch with eyes wide and full of hapiness. She greeted me with the kiss on the cheek. We said Adios with the kiss on the cheek. That's all I needed and when I saw her again things were much more heavy. She played a little game like her back itches. Oh ok I can help there.

I truly, truly wanted to feel what everyone else mentions about filipina women. I even joined the blossoms site a while ago and talked with many and bought books on the culture and ebooks on the women and joined the boards. I thought first to meet a few that are here. You can say what you want about women being different when they get here but any girl I meet I would bring here so I figured this would be good.

I am meeting another on Sunday and she may be my last.

Like papi said pick your targets. This was my target but I can't seem to make it work for me. Let me know if there is something I am missing otherwise I am headed back to learning spanish and taking more salsa lessons.

[Sorion]

Like papi said pick your targets. This was my target but I can't seem to make it work for me. Let me know if there is something I am missing otherwise I am headed back to learning spanish and taking more salsa lessons.

I find it good policy to know how to salsa no matter who you date. There's just something about salsa and women

[tallguy44]

>I truly, truly wanted to feel what everyone else mentions about filipina women. I even joined the blossoms site a while ago and talked with many and bought books on the culture and ebooks on the women and joined the boards. I thought first to meet a few that are here.<

Just my 2 cents worth.......I was on the Blossoms site too, and it was not a positive experience. Especially with the filipina women. I met some sweet ones on the site by chatting, but most of them start hitting you up for money rather quickly. "I need money for the internet" or "will you sponsor me in the university to help with my education?", that's 2 of the more common ones I heard. Pretty women, but most believe, or have been led to believe, that all us AM have a money tree growing in our yards. The other part of the picture is just the simple fact that the Philippines is a very poor country. Annual income for the average Filipino is around $1000 US dollars. Looks like a beautiful country and lots of attractive women, but I'll stick to the latinas.

[Jeff S]

I'd say that in general, culturally, Latinas are more in touch with their sexual side than Asians, because they're likely much more exposed to it. It's not unusual to find twentysomething Asians who have never had a boyfriend have never been kissed, and have seen little sexual behaviour in others (sexy dancing, men whistling at ladies in short skirts, low cut tops, etc.) On the other hand, that's a big part of the culture in Latin America. Don't take this to mean that Asian women are somehow colder and less interested in this part of life, they're simply less experienced. Also dating fun and success doesn't necessarily translate to success as a wife. Yes, I know this is an international DATING site, not necessarily an international MARRIAGE site.

- Jeff

[flipflop]

Yes,my wifes sexuality was kept by a conservative controlling father   and family. Now that pent up ocean of love washes over me every night

Damn the bad luck