Hey Just wanting some advice

[Bornwithwings]

Been recently talking to a lot of philipino girls. Most of which i have had live skype conversations with camera so i know they are mostly real. After 5 days talking to 1 for about 4 hours a day, she told me she love me and i said the same because i didnt know how to respond. I was happy because she is a amazing girl whos really close with her family, a lot of times her family would wave in the background and try to talk to me. She has told me a few things that later she said something totally contradictory, But i have just put it to the fact her english is not very the best. She always initiates skype video conversations with me, but she never asks me anything. Should I be worried?

[robert angel]

Awfully early in the game. Time, time, time...Yes, mostly real apparently. You really won't know for sure until you meet her and have a look under her skirt unfortunately. Some Filipinas, especially old fashioned types, are reluctant to ask questions and in fact will preface a question with "Can I ask you a question?" English ability probably factors into all this too and some things you're saying in English, especially slang and expressions you're used to, may be going way over her head, unbeknownst to you.

Welcome to P.L.--there's a lot of good advice here, including in the archives!

[Ray]

 
 

 
 
 

[piglett]

i'm with Ray on this on


keep your eyes open mate 

[robert angel]

Time, time, time.......There's more tricks than can be counted, always something new to be learned. Seen too many guys get burned by sweet talk and pretty faces. Even the seemingly sweet and simple types can snake bite you sooner or later. Some will wait quite a while, going to elaborate lengths before setting their fangs into you.

Or you might just marry a sweet and seemingly simple woman who doesn't really have strong values and resolve, who will be very impressionable and then change once she's exposed to material things and shaky people in her new country. Watch how she chooses her friends. Maybe at best, she'll send up convincing you to support numerous family members at home.