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Yes, I believe it is a bad thing, but only if one's novia does not know the value of a peso. And if she does not think your parsimonious ways are in themselves bad then you my friend have youself a hidden 'gem'. She could be holding her tongue so as not to be confrontational but if you find from experience that she herself can 'pinch a peso till the Juan Vladez' mule poops' I would hold on to that one for dear life. jajajaja.
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Yes, you have stated something obvious.  If a woman thinks you are cheap it's not good, even though whether someone is cheap or just "economical" is very subjective though. 
 
Like I said before, a woman can be interested in a man if he either is sexually attractive to her and a relationship that results is sexually stimulating and satisfying, or if she derives (or wants to derive) some kind of a benefit from the association.  If a woman is genuinely interested in a man, she will never ask him for any money or gifts, and in fact it's very possible that she will be generous herself.
 
So, a man either has to take care of himself physically and know how to satisfy a woman (which often results in being able to attract and hold on to women with little financial investment), or just forget about being cheap.  There is an option C - date women who are generally overlooked by men who follow the two strategies mentioned above: overweight, old, or otherwise unattractive.

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Yes, I believe it is a bad thing, but only if one's novia does not know the value of a peso. And if she does not think your parsimonious ways are in themselves bad then you my friend have youself a hidden 'gem'. She could be holding her tongue so as not to be confrontational but if you find from experience that she herself can 'pinch a peso till the Juan Vladez' mule poops' I would hold on to that one for dear life. jajajaja.
Just ask FT he knows more about beans now than he ever thought he wanted to know.  ;)


It is true I do know quite a bit about 'beans', I have some still growing from the summer crop actually!


Your question isn't a question but more of a comment.  I think you are saying a  woman who saves money is not one to throw away.  I agree. 


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Your question isn't a question but more of a comment.  I think you are saying a  woman who saves money is not one to throw away.  I agree.
Yes, FT you are fast on the uptake tonight.
« Last Edit: September 30, 2011, 06:14:58 PM by beginthebeguin »
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my Wife thinks I am cheap , but that is a good thing she says because of how expensive it is here in the US. She knows when I am in country that I am a big spender  with scale of economies. I think a woman that has never been to the US might think a guy is cheap until she arrives.My wife actually listens to Clark Howard
 
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