One thing I can say about Fathertime he had a plan and it worked. He knew what he wanted to do, I do not think it would work for everyone but it worked for him. I have to give him credit for that. On speaking 90% spanish only to his wife? Well I have a answer for that his relationship is working so what is the problem? Nothing as far as I am concerned, plus he had a baby a short time ago so he can't be doning much wrong as far as I am concerned. Keep up the good work!!