Father Time et al
You re right ..ONE of the mos timportant reasons that I live in Colombia isbecause I don t want to bring a woman back to the US.
One of the things I believe that makes for a successful transition into American society for a foreign bride...is a network of family and friends who will accept her.
My mother was a young foreign bride and with the exception of my grandfather (my father s father), my father s family never accepted her.....and my dad held this against his family until the day he died. It was an expereince that I remember to this day.
My parents are dead, I m an only child, and the closest living relatives of either of my parents live in Europe. I cant offer a woman from Colombia a supportive family. My son who is a great kid of almost 23 would not be interested in being close to a Colombian stepmother, his loyalty is to his mom and rightly so..... and my American ex wife, would be even less interested!
And for me...to brng a woman to the US, I consider it as a huge risk.
But I also live in Colombia...because I always had the dream of living in another culture and speaking another language daily...
And I also live here because its much less expensive.....then the US. Even if I could have done it...can you imagine how much money it would cost to go out at least once with 200 American women?
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?? God almighty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bit other expenses are considerably less, housing, hotels, meals.....some foods, public transportation.....
And yes, I ve been able to date many beautiful women in Colombia.....something I can t do in the US. i suppose the plenttiude of beautiful women is ONE reason why I live in Colombia and not in Uzbehkistan...!!!!!! jejejejeje
I do respect my ex wife...she is an excellent mom and we communicate politely. The subject of what I do in Colombia and who I do it with is not discussed...when we chat.
But from time to time she has taken a mini shot at me in an on line chat ..as in
you must drive the Colombian ladies crazy.....
and I answer...in what sense do you mean I drive them crazy?
And she replied.......... only you know in what sense....
And I reply. yes you re right, only I know.
And I won t give up more then that.
From time to time I ve sent fotos to my son of me with Colombian women.. and sicussed aparticular woman...but that s it. If he watns to tlel his mom something...thats fine.