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Offline biochemist

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trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« on: February 04, 2011, 03:26:33 AM »
I'm a 30 yr old american from TX who is planning to go meet a wife this summer and am trying to decide what country to go to.  I can't decide between: Brazil, Columbia, Thailand and the Philippenes.
I'm not attracted to any particular 'race' over another, I'd just like a ridiculously hot wife who wants to get it on like all the time.  I'm graduating college this semester and don't have much money so I'm hoping to keep the trip costs down to about $1000 + air fare.  I know that English is common in the Phillippenes but as a Buddhist (yeah its unusual but i'm a Buddhist white guy) Thailand holds more appeal.  But on the other hand, if I can't talk to all the smoking hot Thai girls then what good is it, i'd be better off with a catholic Filipina gal. 
I used to speak ok spanish but i've forgotten it and I've heard good things about columbian and brazilian women so i'm considering those destinations as well. 
General imput/advice is most welcome!

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #1 on: February 04, 2011, 04:07:03 AM »
I'm not attracted to any particular 'race' over another, I'd just like a ridiculously hot wife who wants to get it on like all the time. 

Biochemist,

Welcome to P-L.

If this is your priority, the quote above, you might want to visit Angeles City or Bangkok Thailand Walking street.  You will find what you are looking for there!

P-L is about looking for a good wife, a life mate, not about a hot piece of as* that you can bang on a routine basis and "arm candy" that you can show off to your friends.

I would suggest you sow your oats a bit longer before you go wife searching.

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #2 on: February 04, 2011, 04:39:24 AM »
Hi biochemist.
Welcome to the Planet.

According to your post, you are not looking for a wife or even ready for one - you just like a ridiculously hot wife woman who wants to get it on like all the time. For that you can save yourself some travel money & look in your own back yard.

When you have "settled" down, change your outlook(s) and ready to be a husband - you can start by learning about the culture of the lady(s) you are interested in & making a few visits to her country.

But in the meantime Vegas is not too far from where you are.
 
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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #3 on: February 04, 2011, 05:54:51 AM »
That $1000 budget is a little on the low side. You will probably have to look at the clearance sale wives. While most of the clearance wives will probably look a little ridiculous, most of them will be pretty hot since they, like you, can not afford the air conditioning costs in their tropical countries. That should meet your criteria of ridiculous and hot!!!

In ColOmbia, you could try the coffee. Perhaps you meant British ColUmbia since race is no object. If so, you can hitch hike and save the airfare, thus doubling the amount you have to spend on your shopping spree.

 If you still want something exotic in Thailand, you can probably find a used but still servicable Thai Ladyboy at a good price. . . .  ;)

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #4 on: February 04, 2011, 07:20:45 AM »
If you still want something exotic in Thailand, you can probably find a used but still servicable Thai Ladyboy at a good price. . . . 
Refurbished?
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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #5 on: February 04, 2011, 08:03:20 AM »
yes- new equipment but no guarantee of fitness for intended purpose!!!!!! ;D
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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #6 on: February 04, 2011, 11:36:42 AM »
yes- new equipment but no guarantee of fitness for intended purpose!!!!!! ;D

W3,

How about a Ridiculously hot refurbished ladyboy who wants to get it on all the time!

But that would still be out of his budget!  :D

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #7 on: February 04, 2011, 11:43:10 AM »
Lets not be too hard on the guy. He probably didn't want to sound gay in front of the guys in the locker room.

So bio, welcome. As you can tell from the responses so far, we're pretty hard on sex tourists. If you are looking for wife material, how about a little more about what you are looking for besides hot and horny.
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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #8 on: February 04, 2011, 12:13:35 PM »
I'm a 30 yr old american from TX who is planning to go meet a wife this summer and am trying to decide what country to go to.  I can't decide between: Brazil, Columbia, Thailand and the Philippenes.
I'm not attracted to any particular 'race' over another, I'd just like a ridiculously hot wife who wants to get it on like all the time.  I'm graduating college this semester and don't have much money so I'm hoping to keep the trip costs down to about $1000 + air fare.  I know that English is common in the Phillippenes but as a Buddhist (yeah its unusual but i'm a Buddhist white guy) Thailand holds more appeal.  But on the other hand, if I can't talk to all the smoking hot Thai girls then what good is it, i'd be better off with a catholic Filipina gal. 
I used to speak ok spanish but i've forgotten it and I've heard good things about columbian and brazilian women so i'm considering those destinations as well. 
General imput/advice is most welcome!

As others have already said, it really doesn't seem as though you are ready for a wife yet if all you really care about is having a hot chick to bang all the time. There is nothing wrong with that attitude really as most of us have probably been through it at some point in our lives but it pretty much interferes with successfully choosing a life mate.  Take some time and go have fun for a while then when you are really serious about finding a wife you need to first determine which country works best for you as Brazil, Colombia, Thailand and the Philippines are all vastly different from one another. You can find a quality woman in either of those countries but whichever culture that you are most comfortable with is what really matters.

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #9 on: February 04, 2011, 01:17:16 PM »
That $1000 budget is a little on the low side. You will probably have to look at the clearance sale wives. .......

 ;D

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #10 on: February 04, 2011, 01:21:48 PM »
I'm a 30 yr old american from TX who is planning to go meet a wife this summer and am trying to decide what country to go to.  I can't decide between: Brazil, Columbia, Thailand and the Philippenes.

If you are unsure which countries to go for, I suggest you to join dating sites to start off with, and then you will know who you like.

Brazil  http://www.latinamericancupid.com
Colombia  http://www.colombiancupid.com
Philippines  http://www.cherryblossoms.com

There are many games players on these sites, but there are also some genuine women.  It is not very expensive to join.  After 3 months, you will know which one...


These 'genuine' women like to be treated like as a special, so cdo not try to talk about sex  (Hence you are looking for 'hot' wife!!)

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #11 on: February 04, 2011, 05:17:52 PM »
Hey Biochemist, welcome!

I understand what you mean by having a ridiculously hot wife that wants to get it on all the time, indeed, that is a part of the dream however, as other posters mentioned, a person does not need to leave the US to find that, if that is what you are looking for. If you are a Biochemist, your wallet alone should be able to get you that in the US eventually as you establish yourself in your profession.

I am a young guy at 29 also, graduated college at 24, started my career, established myself, had relationships with several American women over the past years with the intention of finding a wife, had a chance to grow, mature, figure out what I truly wanted in life and in a wife. I do not know what your history is, but if you are just now starting your career, it may make sense to establish yourself before you commit to this type of quest. $1,000 + airfare is not going to cut it, by my estimation, if you do it right, this quest will run you anywhere from $10,000 to $20,000 or more, depending on all kinds of different factors and that is just the courting phase. Having a foreign wife will introduce new costs that an American wife would not. The way you describe it as going to find a wife on $1,000 + airfare seems problematic, as if you are going making one trip to purchase a commodity rather than investing time and energy in finding a life partner.

Not trying to bust your balls, just saying I think it would be wise for you to count the costs of this type of quest and consider whether or not it is something you can commit to at this point in your life. Also, I think you would be wise to seriously consider why you are looking overseas for a mate, looking for a hot wife who wants to bang all the time seems like criteria that will bring you heartache and an empty wallet.

Just my 2 cents, you did not share very much, so I am reading in between the lines and I may be missing the mark or misjudging your situation.  Share a little more about your situation?
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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #12 on: February 04, 2011, 06:20:03 PM »

My advice: Stay home.



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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #13 on: February 04, 2011, 09:30:06 PM »
My advice: Stay home.
No no no.  He has a thousand bucks he must be parted with (if the expression is at all true).  I recommend he try the tourist areas of Cancun.  Cheap air fair from TX.  And for that kind of money, he can easily find someone willing to pretend to be his hot hot wife for a weekend or so.  And you know she will be hottest real flesh and blood woman he has ever bedded.  Heck, she'll probably even be willing to come back with him!
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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #14 on: February 04, 2011, 11:03:41 PM »



     ......or he could go to Costa Rica and try "Gringo Gulch".

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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #15 on: February 05, 2011, 12:14:12 AM »
No no no.  He has a thousand bucks he must be parted with (if the expression is at all true).  I recommend he try the tourist areas of Cancun.  Cheap air fair from TX.  And for that kind of money, he can easily find someone willing to pretend to be his hot hot wife for a weekend or so.  And you know she will be hottest real flesh and blood woman he has ever bedded.  Heck, she'll probably even be willing to come back with him!

but with the wonders they have come up with in latex, he could get a chinese inflatable wife for a couple of hundred bucks with a built in heater and he will have it made. Wont even have to make small talk. . . . no immigration issues, no support, no jealousy . . . . even when he goes out with (snip) and her (snip)
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Re: trying to decide what country to go to for a bride
« Reply #16 on: February 05, 2011, 02:45:27 PM »
Bio,

Sorry that you're getting such a hard time here. A lot of the guys who post here have long forgotten what it's like to be new and uninformed.

The advice that they should have given you was this: If you're not drawn to any particular race or "look", try to learn a bit about the various countries/cultures and see if you're a better match with one particular culture.

I too am a Buddhist, but I'm not sure that that's reason enough to choose a Thai bride.

I wish you well.

 

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