Advice on Relationship & Courting

[thekfc]

While reading the various threads I notice that some of them mentioned or had a post (s) about relationship advices, courting, wooing, etc,

I will throw in my 1 cent on the subject -  I still do not have enough to make 2 cents.   

I do not think that our purpose at P-L is to help the members "court/find" someone nor to give out relationship advice. We are also not here to catch scammers, ladyboys, or the likes.

You are the one doing the face to face chattings, the emailings, the telephone calls, etc,. It is your responsibility to evaluate & disect everything the person on the other end tells you.

If we see something, then we will say something but we are not obligated to do so.

Always do your homework, read the archives and ask questions. Whenever you ask question - you will get many responses.
And with every response/answer you get (I will borrow this from Dan, I am sure he will not mind) - IT IS SOLELY YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO EVALUATE THE ACCURACY, COMPLETENESS, AND USEFULNESS OF ALL OPINIONS, ADVICE, SERVICES, AND OTHER INFORMATION PROVIDED.

The entire courting process is on you & on you alone.

You are the one who have to go through your daily life with that person not the P-L community. Pick wisely and make you are satisfy (not the other readers) - it is your life.

When you find that "special" person & ready to make the trip - we will give you all the advice in the world on how to get there, where to stay, what to bring, where to visit, what to look for, how to bring them over, etc, etc, etc,.

With the above being said, always remember the 2 main rules of finding a foreign bride.

1.  Do not send money before meeting in person.
2. Visit.

[z_k_g]

There are many many websites that address courting dating, marrying and bringing your sweetie to the US, Canada and Europe.

I read most of them from Stickmanbangkok to life in cebu online forums.

One common thread is that men are seeking advice.  They don't know where to start and how to move forward, and understandably so, this is a daunting process.

P-L is a great resource, and one of the most comprehensive and focused, but the most useful overall.

Why?

Two reasons:

1. Technical Knowledge of the posters- Visa Process, Licenses, Legal issues, etc..
2. Posters of varied ages and background and the collective willingness to post and render their opinions and viewpoints on relationships (and the subsequent Archives)

These two elements are what make P-L unique and one of the most valuable resources for any man (and to a lesser extent woman) seeking to marry an Asian or Latin American on the internet.

I participate because P-L is valuable, factual and real, warts and all.

Without rendering all the different opinions on relationships  P-L would be very boring, one demensional and would serve little more use than a technical guide to pitfals of visa applications, and a glorified wikipedia with a picture gallery of hot latina and pinay arm candy.

My 1 piso worth...

Zulu

[thekfc]

Point well taken.

The first paragraph on PL welcome page says it all:

 The Foreign Bride Guide is the premier and most progressive resource available for being successful with a Foreign Bride.  At Planet Love you will uncover the truth through highly relevant factual robust discussions about International Relationships and understand the immense benefits as well as the risks that you may face regarding women from Latin American and Asian countries.

My original post/point was "I don't think that it is our purpose at P-L to help members court someone or give out relationship advice on courting someone" - it is on the individual to do the "courting".

Maybe I did phrase my post wrong.