Piglett,
re:
>>I have a friend that likes to slowly boil his steaks in a deep pot on low for about 3 hours, then he removes it & puts it into a large frying pan . he cranks up the heat & browns it up some & man let me tell you it's a really great steak <<
Boiling ribs first, then marinating and grilling them can produce similar results. A lot of the Asian restaurants, among other places, do it that way.
Glad I'm not hungry now after reading your post-----we've got four thirteen y/o boys sleeping over at our place, as I write.
I made them a huge batch of spicy HOT buffalo chicken wings, chicken tenders, as well as bratwurst, followed by Klondike ice cream bars, and none of us are hungry now!