Latina women

[Richard77]

I have a question to see if I can get soe help on.

I'm sure that most of us reading this are attarcted to Latina women, but why not date a latina women from america (if you are from there)?

I'm just wondering what made us skip this step and think about going abroad since it would be much cheater to date in your own city such as Dallas, Tx.

Any thoughts?

[Researcher]

      It stands to reason that if "women are women" it wouldn't make any sense to travel outside your own backyard to find one.But to quote Soltero, women are Basically women, which is more of an accurate statement to me. I didn't stop dating women here in the US when I started looking elsewhere. Why limit yourself? It's just that I found women here in the US, basically, to be lousy at relationships.If you can find a Latina that your interested in here in the US, I say go for it.


     Researcher

[bcc_1_2]

but why not date a latina women from america (if you are from there)?

Other than I live in the upper midwest with a bunch of fat white women.... but its about their atitudes, culture, values, etc. I've dated my fair share of AWs. Looks are important but personally I'd like to find someone I'll really enjoy being around. Because you are going to be around them... with them all the time. If your relationship and your life sucks with a hot woman... you aren't going to be happy.

I wouldn't advise you to stop hitting on women in your home town, but this is really one of those questions you just have to experience.

[satori]

Lots of Latina women in NYC and most of them now have attitudes from all the attention they get.  Becasue of the distorted social scene caused by feminazism, most of them seem to have the same sense of entitlement and selfishness you find in most AW.  Probably doesn't help that every guy in the city throws himself at them due to their beauty.  There are exceptions if you are lucky enough to find one. 

[PainfullyObvious]

In my opinon once you travel to Colombia it is very difficult to compare to Latin women here.  The quality of women you can meet in Colombia is amazing.

[Jeff S]

Hey bcc:
If weight is an issue, I suggest you look over 30 and 40 something married Latinas with kids living in the US before you take the big plunge. And I don't mean utopiacowboy's wife - she's the exception, not the rule. Amigos.com will give you plenty of returns.

[Jamie]

I have a question to see if I can get soe help on.

I'm sure that most of us reading this are attarcted to Latina women, but why not date a latina women from america (if you are from there)?

I'm just wondering what made us skip this step and think about going abroad since it would be much cheater to date in your own city such as Dallas, Tx.

Any thoughts?

Richard this answer can be rather lengthy but basically most guys come to Colombia because they usually can get a much prettier and younger woman than they can at home whether it is for keep or play. The women as noted are different than the Latin women in the States. Latin women look different depending on what countries they are from and many guys find the Colombian women appealing. The women in Colombia are general very playful, fun and affectionate and this can be very enticing. But what is enticing can also be dangerous. You have good differences and bad differences and many men don’t see the bad differences until after they marry.

Now I have had clients as young as 20 who have used our introduction service so younger and prettier are not the reason the young guys are coming. As it can be for older guys many younger men simply like the many attractive looks of the Colombian women and they come for that because there are not that many Colombian women to meet in the U.S outside of Southern Florida.

As for the States being cheaper that may or may not be the case. For example, if you had to extend your search 2 or 3 more years in the States dating and looking versus going to a foreign country and finding someone sooner then it may not be cheaper in the States.

[bcc_1_2]

Hey bcc:
If weight is an issue, I suggest you look over 30 and 40 something married Latinas with kids living in the US before you take the big plunge. And I don't mean utopiacowboy's wife - she's the exception, not the rule. Amigos.com will give you plenty of returns.

When I sad fat american women... we are talking like 5'5 250lbs. Not anyone who isn't rail thin just to clarify.

[Anzer]

I agree with bcc post,

Speaking from experiences in the South, (i.e. Georgia, Carolinas, and Florida;exeception of South Florida.) the frequency of finding a latina is not that good.  Many of the latinas here in the South share some positive and mostly negative similiarities of AW here. For example, many of the latinas here have fully accept their commitment to be faithful to thier man but sadly given the limited social experiences (country envioronment) many of them let their physical apperance errode (ie. gaining weight) or build negative views of AM in the form of sterotypes.  On the other hand, the latinas who do date outside of the bubble, fall into the socialite status where men are their audience and they love to be the center of attention based on their looks.


Im speaking on a general focus so if I offend any Southerners who see if differently, I apologize.

[Alabamaboy!]

In my case....I have found that the vast majority of Latinas in the US are Mexicans. And while there are indeed some hot Mexican girls here, they seem to have a far more fleeting period of beauty. They do not seem to take as good care of themselves physically for the long haul. Maybe it is because of the delicious Mexican food, compared to the rather bland and tasteless Colombian cuisine.

Another thing is that Mexicans usually stay with other Mexicans. They are not so eager to marry a gringo. Lots of family pressure to stay with Mexicans.

And for whatever reasons....the Colombians love older, romantic gringos. During my last trip to Colombia...at Jamie's...I had several group meetings. And after the meetings, each girl gives you a ranking from 0-5 of how much they are interested in you overall. And I believe that there was not a single score less than 5 for me. And it is not because I am great looking...(I will say my looks are fair)....or that I am young....(I am 41)....or that I have so much money ( I even told them that my business was having lots of trouble at this time)....or that I live in a very interesting place (I live in a city of about 150,000 which is exceedingly boring).  I think they just like the idea of a romantic, loving, husband.  And the girls who are already here or who have grown up here are already poisoned by the American culture. And do not care about such things. Here in the States...if I actually had the balls to try something like I did in Colombia...talking to a bunch of girls from 20-30 years old...I am sure I would be laughed out of the room. I cannot even find a girl that is interesting enough to me to approach here, and in the past when I did, they were not interested in someone 10 years older then them. And the ones my age were not really appealing in any aspect whatsoever.  A girl 20 years old here is generally super immature, and is probably dating guys who ride their skateboards to their jobs at Taco Bell.

For sure you are going to find a lot of girls in Colombia who have some of the nasty materialistic "American woman" characteristics (like my ex), but if you just sort through the stacks and stacks of girls that are readily available and interested there, it will not take you very long to find a bunch of serviceable candidates.

[lite sweet dude]

Another thing is that Mexicans usually stay with other Mexicans. They are not so eager to marry a gringo. Lots of family pressure to stay with Mexicans.

But what about the machisimo factor?
Without fail every latina I've asked said they prefer a gringo because of this. Is this a non issue with Mexicans and American latinos? Certainly, the family would want what's best for their perspective daughters.

[Jeff S]

You're wrong that Mexican women prefer Mexican men. A more plausible explanation is that in-general, their self esteem is usually so low that they think that non-Mexican men wouldn't want them.

[utopiacowboy]

You're wrong that Mexican women prefer Mexican men. A more plausible explanation is that in-general, their self esteem is usually so low that they think that non-Mexican men wouldn't want them.

I've been to Mexico several times (not including the border towns) and there is no Brad Pitt factor. In Colombia it's hard to keep your ego in check there are so many women flirting with you. Mexicanas have a LOT less interest in gringos than Colombianas maybe because the US gets a pretty bad rep in Mexico.