8 years

[tneal]

Jessica and i have been married 8 years now ,some of you new me when my adventure started,just to update all of you i am 20 years older then jessica we live in tulsa ok not one time in 8 years has anybody made any bad comments towards age diff (maybe because i am 6-2 210 lb) so far we have never had a fight maybe because she gets her way all the time(still cant figure how that happens) she is a very good wife works hard takes care of me better than anybody ever has.she has stood by my side when my oldest son was killed 5 years ago and again when my youngest was killed 2 years ago and believe me i was not fun to be around,she has green card and is perm resident she could have dumped me but she stood strong for me at my time of need.
She works hard and now is manager of her store she sends $300.00 dolles home every other month the rest she gives to me(gotta have beer money) he have cook outs alot at our house every time we have one at least 5 new women from pi show up most only here a few monts where the hell the come from god only knows,normally around 50-100 people each time eaven if you only invite 1 couple they all come.
hope you guys are all fine we are,this was just a update
tneal :twisted:

[Bataanj]

Hi Tom,

 I'm glad you got a "winner" In Jessica.

  I'm very lucky to have my wife. She could have done better without me in this country. As it is, she also is a hard worker, a manager and done well despite me.

 We don't have BBQ's as C. is not much of a partyer. Actually she's downright unsociable! LOL!

 As you probably know, she did  left me once for 3 months. After that she said I love you, can't live without you, and sorry, I was "just [snip]ing with you".  She sure [snip]ed with me!   :shock:    

 Well she  taught me a few lessons. She says she wouldn't have split if I didn't egg her on that day, saying call the kids again, make sure they come get you! (the lived 200 miles away). etc., etc. I was hammered at the time.

That was over 2 years ago. I haven't gotten a lot better as a person, seems I'm always up to my neck in it, but she puts up with me. God bless her. Thank God for me.

 We're almost the same age, she's 44 last Nov., and I'm 43 a week from today, April 2, so we don't get [snip] from folks for that.

 It's funny, I just started a new job, couple of months ago, and this has happened in other jobs. People at work work with me a while, and when they see C. finally like last week, they look at me differently. I guess they thought I had a fat white lady at home when they saw my ring.  
In this case except for management I am the oldest worker by about 20 years, so now the kids react to 'Pop" (thats what they call me, can you imagine? at 43? Must be my grey hair), as If I'm a stud.  LMAO!! Hard to explain.   C. still looks good.

 Anyway, just saying Hi, glad your well. Keep posting. You always had good posts.

Take Care,
Jay

[Jeff S]

Congrats, Tom! Having someone to stand by you through thick and thin sure makes life a lot more livable doesn't it.

- Jeff

[Tim]

Hi Tom, I just had to delurk and post a reply for YOU. It's great to hear you and Jessica are doing so well. I remember when you were planning your trip to visit her. Ah, the time does fly.

Wendy and I are going on 6 years now ourselves. She has her green card and seems happy with me (go figure).

Regards, Tim

[Bear]

Tom even your speelings better! (hahaha)

What a good wife can do for you and isn't awesome to have friends.  Even with the heartaches that come in life you must still feel proud.

The Bear Family