Hello everyone, I'm a new member

[catz]

You know what they say, "opposites attract."

THAT explains why my beautiful wife married such a butt ugly mongrel like me!~ 

[Dave H]

THAT explains why my beautiful wife married such a butt ugly mongrel like me!~ 

Hey catz,

Sometimes it pays to be ugly! A lot of good looking guys I knew back in high school have now lost their looks. People still come up to me and say, "Man, you haven't changed a bit!" 

Dave

[soltero]

The colombian women will love me; 6'4'', athletic, professional, handsome and I have Jamaican accent.  I just need to learn some more spanish, then mixed in with the Jamaican accent, whewwww, I can't wait. 

I applaud your attitude. I can't even begin to fathom how the next guy can even think he can tell someone else what women will be attracted to him or not or where. That just goes against every fiber of my being a man and leaves me stuck between trying to form a WTF and a guffaw at the same time. I agree with you in that people are all people to me and we are all basically the same. There may be those who may need to play whatever cards they may feel they are holding to have an edge, and I'm not mad at 'em. Let each one do what is necessary for him is my motto. I think the clanking sound when I walk draws more attention than my complexion, but maybe that's just me.

Go forth and see for yourself as I have stated too many times to even count. It seems like every
time a new "brother" comes to the site, guys want to line up and tell him where he needs to go to be "accepted". In a non Caucasian country, no less...

Go figure...

[utopiacowboy]

You're absolutely right. All these generalities people throw around don't mean a thing when it comes down to specific individuals. Best to throw the stereotypes away and deal with each individual as they present themselves. If a woman can only see her own stereotypes and not the individual in front of her, well that's her loss.

[Dave H]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=uCqcd8IlNlo

[Dave H]

Catchy tune...I couldn't resist!  I agree, it really depends on the individual. If you have the attitude ladies are not going to like me because I'm this or that...they won't! You need confidence...and a little cockiness doesn't hurt! I have always heard that Filipinas don't like black men. Yet,  I have seen many black men happily married to Filipinas. I'm so ugly, I made my mother cry on the day I was born! It really wasn't necessary, but I happened to find a country where they think I look like a movie star. My friend James did the same thing, by accident in Germany. Sure it makes the ego feel good, but is it necessary... HELL NO! I only need one woman to love me, especially at my age! I have no doubt that Ramgoat is going to take a long rest when he gets back home!  Then he is going to have to go through a stack of profiles and weed out a bunch. 

Dave

P.S. I found this an interesting read on racism in Latin America. But I wouldn't let it stop me from going!
http://www.raceandhistory.com/cgi-bin/forum/webbbs_config.pl/noframes/read/615

[John330]

Can someone who has used an agency please describe your experience, and was it worth the money?  What agencies do you recommend?
Do you stay at the agency's bed and breakfast, or at a nearby hotel then on a daily basis meet many women? I think for the first time I may use an agency, because I assume the women will come to you.  But if I meet women on an online dating site and meet them in their country, I may have to travel all over the place in unfamiliar territory.

Also, I know it's asking alot, but if anyone has been to both Brazil and Colombia, can you describe your observations on the difference between the women as far as how genuine, trusworthy and wifey material they are (in your subjective opinion ofcourse).  And I know it's kind a silly question but since I've never been to Colombia I don't know what to expect, but I am very interested in visiting next year.

I have been to Colombia and Brazil.  Brazil has much more American influence, especially in Rio.  I thought the women in Rio were pretty scandalous and shady.  I actually stopped going there and switched to Colombia.  Don't get a woman from Rio. Go else where in Brazil.  Brazillians are 'hot blooded' and you better have a lot of energy to keep up with them. 

I think Colombian women are a bit more traditional and ready to settle down.  I know this may sound vulgar, but one difference is: A good sex life will keep a brazillian women happy with almost nothing else; While a Colombian woman may be a bit more concerned with other things (finances, family...etc.).  Brazillian chicks love sex...period!...and there ain't nothing wrong with that.

[utopiacowboy]

I must be a Brazilian chick.