I need some help with a few questions

[raycjs]

I am still new to all of this only about 4 months into this. You guy's have all been a great help so far. I have been speaking via email to a few women i have been asked to send pictures of my home and they also want to know how i live. i do not have a problem with this but i do not want her to like be for what i have and not who i am. is this normal thank again

Ray

[william3rd]

Define "wanting to know about how you live" and be a little more specific about girls wanting to see your pictures. Pictures of "where you live" or pictures of "your house"

[raycjs]

pictures of where i live pictures of my home and pictures of my family
is this all normal?

thanks
ray

[Ray]

i do not want her to like be for what i have and not who i am

That's easy. Send her this pic and tell her your name is Norman and you live with mother 

 

[william3rd]

wanting to see what life is like and the scenery etc. is pretty normal. She wants to see your world and since you are likely to invite her to share that world, that would be normal.

If she wants to see your tax returns, then that might not be normal.

[raycjs]

Thanks guy's i know that is why she wants pictures of my home and my life. i just wanted your opinion. thank you very much for your in put.

Ray

[Jeff S]

I have taken a camera along during a typical work day and taken pictures of scenes along my morning walk, my drive to work, my office, me eating lunch, etc. but specifically excluding pictures of my home and car. I think those are the kinds of things she's curious about. Lots of guys send these ladies pictures of them in their vettes and in front of their homes for the "look what I have" value and that more often than not turns them off. She wants to know what your day-to-day lifestyle is all about. Here I am digging in my tomato garden - here's the park where I go to shoot hoops on Saturday morning - here's my favorite place where I have a pizza and a pitcher, watch Monday night football and play pool - those kinds of things. As William said, if she's asking for your W2s - that's an entirely different scenario.

- Jeff

[sean126]

So....I shouldn't have mailed out pictures of me laying on a bear skin rug in my birthday suit, when I was single?  I guess they didn't love me for me...only for what I brought to the party!!!   

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

[raycjs]

Jeff.s  thank you very much i believe after taking to her more that is what she wants to see my every day life and my family and friends. i am amazed at all the picture they send me of there entire family and all there friends. i am finding that they are very open to showing you there daily lives.  thank you all again

Ray

[David]

So....I shouldn't have mailed out pictures of me laying on a bear skin rug in my birthday suit, when I was single?  I guess they didn't love me for me...only for what I brought to the party!!!   

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

 

[william3rd]

Yeah sean, they kept asking where that bearskin rug was at and expressed disappointment that you had only brought one cocktail sausage to share

[catz]

So....I shouldn't have mailed out pictures of me laying on a bear skin rug in my birthday suit, when I was single?  I guess they didn't love me for me...only for what I brought to the party!!!   

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Well Sean, you can't blame them too awfully much. Maybe they were expecting a little more maturity...

[Ray]

Maybe they were expecting a little more maturity...

Amen to that!     

[sean126]