Help!

[papi]

This might be a false alarm but i have my tickets and heading south very soon to meet someone. I have no backup plans per se. In the event that this is not a false alarm, I may require immediate assistance meeting some new chicas. Mark and others have been so kind to offer help in the past. I welcome any offers at this time. A good wingman is also welcome. Yet again this might be a false alarm but I am worried. I might try to cancel my tickets if need be so i am up in the air and again my someone might still be in play. At press time, i might be a lost puppy with insufficient time to work the internet and setup a proper itinerary

[papi]

i will share with you why i am worried. i met someone online before i landed in bogota. i had not developed much of a internet relationship with her before my arrival. In fact, no pics or webcams.

Anyway, she showed up at my hotel in the morning on day 2 (i was only in bogota 3 nights total). We hit if off and made a date later that same night to go to the the cine. Hand holding and things went well. The next night we went to the bogota beer company for a couple drinks, later dinner and then coffee. A great date. I left the next day and she came to the airport to see me off.

I felt really good about things but am a believer in the post trip. I got a few emails from her when I got back and we talked on the phone. But the other day she posted 2 hours late for our "messenger" chat...things happen. Yet it happened again tonight except she has not posted at all. Now part of the problem is she took the bus to her small pueblo last night to see her family who she has not seen in 2 years but it still worries me. I held back from calling her but like i said i have my ticket. So again not sure what is up. In all likelihood she will get online tomorrow and contact me and i will breath a sigh of relief but again I am uncertain.....

[el_ruso]

are you for real?  she just had an interest in you, showed you a good time, probably would want to get to know you better. 

[soltero]

are you for real?  she just had an interest in you, showed you a good time, probably would want to get to know you better. 

and you are just so desperate, that's funny.

It's really not that funny 

[papi]

sol, any suggestions? i could go see the camera girl but i have pretty much written her off. i have 2 roundtrip tickets because i was planning to head to colombia from costa rica and spend a few days there. the tickets are non-refundable but i might be able to get a credit for a later date. i just am not sure i have time to put plan B in place cause i don't have one. what do you think? she might end up going online today but if she does not i don't want to chase her

[Christopher]

It's really not that funny 

No, it isn't.  Kudos to the guy for removing that from his post.

[papi]

Thanks Christopher, the only desperation i am feeling is that maybe my interest got cold feet or whatever and now i am stuck with some tickets. i am not really sure what to do. And again maybe my interest might post today but i am hesitant to call her cause i don't want to chase her if she is having second thoughts. Any suggestions?

[utopiacowboy]

I don't know, Papi, there could be another explanation for her absence. After all this is Colombia we're talking about and things happen. I would hold off jumping to any conclusions until I heard from her.

[bundy_138]

Papi....it sounds to me that you put way to much into someone to quickly.  Just go with the flow.  The more you chase, the more desperate you seem.  The more you get mad for her being late, the more she will think you are a jerk.  Heres my advise to you, act like you don't like her.  Ignore her.  That will drive her crazy.  If she is really interested, she will let you know.

DO NOT, and let me repeat that, DO NOT EVER GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT A PLAN B.  Why waste a trip, and money, if you are relying on one person?  With your experience jumping the pond, you should have that down as rule one.

Bundy

[papi]

Papi....it sounds to me that you put way to much into someone to quickly.  Just go with the flow.  The more you chase, the more desperate you seem.  The more you get mad for her being late, the more she will think you are a jerk.  Heres my advise to you, act like you don't like her.  Ignore her.  That will drive her crazy.  If she is really interested, she will let you know.

so far i have ignored her...i am with you on that...

DO NOT, and let me repeat that, DO NOT EVER GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT A PLAN B.  Why waste a trip, and money, if you are relying on one person?  With your experience jumping the pond, you should have that down as rule one.

Bundy, I have always been an advocate of having a Plan B. I agree 100% but all the same don't want to screw around with project MOB. Maybe it is not in the cards for me. There are a couple of chicas i can hook up with...but it means running around colombia which i am not inclined to do. I have tickets to costa rica to basically play and then a ticket to bogota. I am thinking about just dumping the tickets to bogota. i am inclined to go soltero and party with the border chicas for the momento. i am tired...

[papi]

sorry fellas, false alarm. she posted (24 hours late)....

i should know better - like utopia said: it is colombia we are talking about. But i have over $1000 invested in tickets this trip and she went MIA